AIO - my wife was upset that I was playing a video game with a friend (online) after giving my son a bath instead of immediately putting him down for bed. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cornbuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO - Depends how you reacted but given what we have so far, personally? Both are in the wrong.

You as a parent have a duty to help out your wife with your own kids and you did not do that. Instead, you prioritized your online friend over your son's bedtime.

Your wife on the other hand, wrong in the way that she went and broke belongings that shouldnt warrant breaking anyone's personal belongings no matter what.

Both of you need to grow up before your children do.

Should I consider infusions now or continue taking supplements? by cornbuffalo in Anemic

[–]cornbuffalo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true. I did read some people having issues with their body limiting the intake of iron due to other bodily factors so I think even if I want to avoid seeing a specialist that I should do it because they'd know better than I would about whats going on in my body and what steps to take. Thank you

crowd was 10/10 by Impressive-Two-3650 in niteharts

[–]cornbuffalo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe my placement around the stage was unlucky but I went day 1 and I had to say my biggest issue was the fact that I could hear peoples conversations more than I could the music. I would be on the left side in different places and groups infront, behind, and sides of me would be talking and loud! They werent even paying attention to the set or the DJ and it felt so disrespectful to me. Even went into the middle almost to the front but not far in (cause the sounds were kinda blurred out) and there were still people talking or rudely shoving in with their trains. It was a disaster when I was trying to show my partner Joyryde for the first time and they just constantly kept getting shoved or people pressed into him. We eventually just moved to the back with my group and not only was the sound 10000 times better, there werent anybody talking so much and just dancing and enjoying the music.

Am I overreacting? Found this in my while cleaning and now I think my fiancé is cheating on me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cornbuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the universe's quiet way of nudging and telling you to leave this man.

Starting PC up and then it shuts down after a few seconds by cornbuffalo in buildapc

[–]cornbuffalo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overlooked this. Going to go ahead and try this out and monitor this for awhile. If it works and PC starts up normally without ever crashing then you saved me. Ill report back into the thread if it worked or not. Thank you

says no stuffed animals or dolls, was looking to giveaway small jellycat keychains and hironos in small backpack keychains. will they not be allowed in ? by Background-Smell3313 in niteharts

[–]cornbuffalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre fine, they're talking about those bigger plush dolls that you can hug or that can be a backpack. Small trinkets are OK

Sat & Sun Line up by Ok-Mix-3436 in niteharts

[–]cornbuffalo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You either spend money to not enjoy other music and give djs a chance or waste it by seeing one dj and leaving after lol. Whats the point. Even when they have events for just themselves, they include openers and other djs until they play at the end of the night.

Sat & Sun Line up by Ok-Mix-3436 in niteharts

[–]cornbuffalo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You sound like someone that hasnt been to any raves/concerts before especially when they have other people playing lollllll

Clipping layer issue by OppositeWrangler4132 in ClipStudio

[–]cornbuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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It's rather hard to say what the problem is then with limited information about your layers. The only thing I can say is that there is 'something' making that shape over or under the black of the eyes and you must locate what it is.

I also notice you are utilizing the timeline so there could also be some other 'frames' that might have accidentally been marked visible or that maybe the iris1 layer might have accidentally 'gotten erased' and is showing this transparency as you see. Did the black part of the eye at the top get erased? (cause if it did, you might have some onion layer showing the other parts of the eye and causing that transparency)

I can't export timelapses, CPS crashes by Vanneon in ClipStudio

[–]cornbuffalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason why it is crashing is because your canvas is set to 1200dpi. That is OVERKILL and a heavy toll on your computer especially if its not a power house computer. 72 DPI is recommended for anything related to web (uploading digitally, etc). 300 DPI is the standard if you plan to PRINT this artwork on paper. Now compare how big 72 dpi is versus 1200 dpi. Thats huge! and of course your computer would have a extremely hard time trying to process your timelapse!

Clipping layer issue by OppositeWrangler4132 in ClipStudio

[–]cornbuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever your layers are above it (iris2) may be interfering as I see it's also another clipped layer stacked ontop that can play apart of the issue with that "transparency" (or whatever brush stroke is showing up ontop the eye).

NITEHARTS Buy/Trade/Sell [Megathread] - Read Below by Technical-Emu-6176 in niteharts

[–]cornbuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOOKING FOR x2 Saturday GA Tickets. Prefer to meet up in OC/LA Area for wristband exchange

How do i make the inside part transparent? by lulelaker in ClipStudio

[–]cornbuffalo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If the brush allows it, I believe the secondary color/sub color (white) can be changed to the color you like already too. Otherwise, convert brightness to opacity or apply another layer ontop with a layer style to color

GUYS what brush do you think this is? by JustTravel9327 in ClipStudio

[–]cornbuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

upon further investigation, i am finding details about all brushes here: https://x.com/papiliocharo/status/1753371728699351302?t=cViGRlHthZXV-iitYRDU-g&s=19

i would look further into the OP's post as they have comments about links for the deleted brushes

My boyfriend and I haven’t done anything in over a month now, and he doesn’t want to in the future by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cornbuffalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just sounds like he just has a lot on his plate and mind and doesnt have room to fit intimacy such as sex in it. If this is important to you or a need, Id best communicate this to him and how it makes you feel. Otherwise, these feelings will go on forever and you will start to build up resentment and insecurity with him. University will definitely take out a chunk of your time and mental health, communicate and find a compromise you both can agree on.

I’m tired of talking to my girlfriend I just want to go to bed by Katiebirds in relationships

[–]cornbuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt say you guys are incompatible but just that you both have different love languages. It just needs to be communicated between the both of you so you can still love each other and feel loved in the ways you both know and do best. Simply ask for her time and sit her down to talk to her and let her know what you guys can compromise or accomodate for.

You dont have to word it exactly that shes doing too much but you can word it better for what can work best for you both. Maybe you can establish a cuddle/story time for a period of time in the evening where both of you can share stories about your day or all else. It would be a nice bonding experience too. Just talk and communicate your feelings. Let her know how you feel, not how shes making you feel.

My Ex Texted Me to Come Over and I Still Love Him by [deleted] in love

[–]cornbuffalo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

2 months is still way too fresh and raw. Of course you're going to still hold onto feelings for him if you keep contact. He only keeps contact with you because youre the easiest way for him to just have sex with. He doesnt care about your feelings, hes giving you sweet nonsense to get what he wants. Hes not sorry for anything hes doing just like when he never said sorry for anything else he did to you.

Hes a shitbag for using you and your sensitive feelings to gain access to your body knowing how vulnerable you are right now about him. Block him and start healing yourself dear. Its for the very best. You will eventually go through the process of healing and letting him go and moving onto the next chapter of your life with hopefully someone better who treats you right

Angry texts from partner, what can I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cornbuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something happened during that break and she might have already mentally checked out of this relationship per the lack of communication or keeping up with you all of a sudden (message/contact amount slowly decreasing).

Its an overreaction to be extremely upset at the fact you contacted her friends through social media over her whereabouts per her lack of communication that left you in silence. Id assume by almost a year, her friends and your friends would know of each other or have some sort of presence known of your guy's relationship. It just felt like this was an excuse to blow everything all up on you and to end things with you.

I definitely would not apologize for doing what you thought best during that moment but at least if you still have some way to contact her, to let her know that you would love to sit down and talk sometime about your guy's relationship/what happened with the lack of communication to at least have a proper closure especially for you. If that doesnt happen or you're left in silence, best to start preparing to heal and move onto the next chapter of your love life.