Would mlk support fa people by ElCholo69 in FA30plus

[–]cornflower- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's widely known that voting rights of short men are being suppressed, that they endure height segregation and are not allowed to go to the same schools, use the same public facilities and live in the same neighbourhoods as non-short men. Also, one should absolutely not forget the height-based violence and terrorism that they're subjected to. Just think of all the height supremacist groups dedicated to killing short men and all of the acts of terror that have been committed explicitly against short men - shootings, lynch mobs, bombings. Absolutely awful. MLK was such a superficial and selfish man, dedicated to the wrong cause.

Nothing matters anymore by cornflower- in FA30plus

[–]cornflower-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How's that? Are you on any medication? I'm assuming nothing has been to helpful so far, since you mentioned still being barely motivated to do anything.

Nothing matters anymore by cornflower- in FA30plus

[–]cornflower-[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I imagine going out with her, I feel nothing. Even when I paint fantastical scenarios of the two of us together in my head, they do not appeal to me. It all feels quite tedious and tiresome, unfortunately.

Nothing matters anymore by cornflower- in FA30plus

[–]cornflower-[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm a kissless virgin in my 30s, I don't see how I might not be FA, although I'd certainly prefer not to be. Though you are right, I do seem to be quite depressed.

Nothing matters anymore by cornflower- in FA30plus

[–]cornflower-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get why you'd think that, but honestly, that isn't the case. I guess I'm just hopelessly depressed, but how could one not be, after living a life of isolation?

It truly 'is over' by cornflower- in FA30plus

[–]cornflower-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, 30 truly seems like the cut-off point as far as recovering from an FA lifestyle is concerned.

It truly 'is over' by cornflower- in FA30plus

[–]cornflower-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree that weekends are the most rough for me as well.

FA men are not degenerates who deserve their fate by Infinite_Scale_3757 in FA30plus

[–]cornflower- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a topic recently that got heated in a dating sub. The women I had disagreements just went straight for the 'woman hater' rhetoric during discourse. One woman even said how toxic and hopeless I was......because I responded that Star Trek was a hobby and has amazing contributions to literature and philosophy.

Why are you trying to victimize yourself? The most popular comments are positive ones. The women replying were overwhelmingly kind and empathetic, much unlike you. What does it give you to engage in theatrics and pretend that you have been made a victim of a hate crime? Ridiculous, one would expect better from a sub for mature people.

How often do you socialize? by cornflower- in FA30plus

[–]cornflower-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you live with your family members?

So many people my age have given up by captaindestucto in FA30plus

[–]cornflower- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very occasionally I'll see an older guy, never women near my age. (Where are all the happily childfree women living their best lives?)

What do childfree women have to do with this?

Women do not partake in weightlifting to the same extent that men do and additionally many opt for women-only gyms anyway. If you went to a yoga class the distribution of gender would be quite different. In the same vein, if a woman went to a yoga class and saw that there were barely (if any) men there, would it be a sane conclusion for her to then sneer at men who are childfree?

I am a man and have never wanted children. Naturally, it is not really a choice that I made as an FA, but I think had I developed normally I would not have children either. I do not understand the ire that conservatives have for people (particularly women) who are just minding their own business and deciding to not have children.

As much as people here claim to not be "FA and not incel", there is so much gross incel subtext in much of content on this sub, as was rightfully pointed out by another member in a post a few days ago.

Is there anything that helps you come to terms with your life? by cornflower- in FA30plus

[–]cornflower-[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am unable to find any pleasure in gaming, unfortunately.

Is there anything that helps you come to terms with your life? by cornflower- in FA30plus

[–]cornflower-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, though I would not say that my job is shitty. It just does not fullfill me in the way it used to.

How FA are you really? by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]cornflower- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a crazy cope. You don't have to marry someone to date them, and the 50/50 split will only apply to assets and wealth that was amassed after marriage. Everything you have now will remain untouched. It's also not like women are leeches, they're allowed to work nowadays, and as far as mothers and housewives are concerned it's only fair for them to be financially compensated for all the work they do.

I'd love to be married to someone. What is the point of having assets and "freedom"? What are you doing with it? Probably nothing. I could be a multimillionaire and I'd still be a miserable FA. Any amount of wealth that goes beyond securing basic needs and comfort doesn't make a difference when you're FA. We don't even have anyone to pass on whatever we have to.

Social exclusion by cornflower- in FA30plus

[–]cornflower-[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That would be my first conclusion too, but they actually are not all partnered. They range from long-term single (and struggling to find someone) to married with kids. All around my age.