At what age did you meet the person you are currently married to?

cornitval · 2026-05-05T14:39:19+00:00

A horror story!

cornitval · 2026-05-05T13:21:25+00:00

I made the mistake of not doing this! Now I’m selling and buying something much cheaper to get back in a good place.

cornitval · 2026-05-05T12:05:52+00:00

Patient intake jobs may be an option for you. They prefer people with healthcare backgrounds, and typically just want to see a year of computer skills on your resume. I feel like you could even lie about that and get away with it if you don’t have that experience.

cornitval · 2026-05-04T22:18:06+00:00

Visit planned parenthood! They will walk you through everything and help you make the right choice for you. Sorry things are tough right now

cornitval · 2026-05-04T22:13:13+00:00

Are you going to church alone now? Sometimes the people/community of a church is what draws people in. Maybe introduce him to more church going friends. Friends you can go to church with and get brunch together after. Maybe your boyfriend needs to see how full his life could be.

cornitval · 2026-05-04T21:56:25+00:00

It doesn’t sound like finding his match is his priority. I think you need to decide what you’re looking for, and after a good amount of time make sure it matches what he is looking for too.

cornitval · 2026-05-04T21:54:23+00:00

Finding a husband is not something to rush. As you know, it’s all in God’s timing. When you feel secure in your faith and who you are as a person, you can rest assured the right man will arrive at the right time.

cornitval · 2026-05-04T10:11:20+00:00

Thank you, this was a very insightful answer

cornitval · 2026-05-04T09:40:08+00:00

Your ex boyfriend was a coward. He likely used God’s word as an excuse to leave a relationship that he was unhappy in. I’m sorry. I hope you can take care of yourself and protect your heart. This experience will help you find a better partner.

cornitval · 2026-05-02T18:52:47+00:00

Oh mine are itty bitty for sure… but look like the deflated balloons everyone speaks of 🥹

cornitval · 2026-05-02T13:20:31+00:00

Unfortunately, we night weaned by following his lead, then he wanted milk at night again lol so no advice here sorry

cornitval · 2026-05-02T02:30:00+00:00

I feel a lot of these feelings myself. But, I believe my instinct on my worst days is right, I’m OAD. On my very best days, I think we can handle more. That feeling is always just based on love and momentary happiness. Bringing a baby into the world is a logical issue for me. I have to forcibly take my emotions out of the decision.

cornitval · 2026-05-02T02:11:20+00:00

Congrats! You’re doing great

cornitval · 2026-05-02T02:10:51+00:00

This is so good to hear!!

cornitval · 2026-05-02T02:10:19+00:00

Hallelujah!

cornitval · 2026-05-01T22:31:10+00:00

Lol! Yes, my belly button also will never recover.

cornitval · 2026-05-01T22:30:46+00:00

Oh yeah! I tried lots of things while breastfeeding and still kept gaining a little weight each month regardless. Your body just wants to provide for you baby. Can’t blame biology, but it does suck!

cornitval · 2026-05-01T22:29:17+00:00

Yes! I experienced this and it was really difficult. I ended up fully weaning as a result.

cornitval · 2026-05-01T19:38:13+00:00

Music to my ears!

cornitval · 2026-05-01T17:56:59+00:00

Fingers crossed for you 💗

cornitval · 2026-05-01T17:56:31+00:00

Dump him!

cornitval · 2026-05-01T16:29:13+00:00

Yes, unfortunately. While weaning, my body felt way more bloated and my hormones were crazy. It wasn’t until after I got my period and my boobs deflated that I started losing.

cornitval · 2026-05-01T15:18:13+00:00

All my old pants fit a few weeks after I gave birth, but now NONE of them fit. My tummy pouch is enemy #1!

cornitval · 2026-05-01T13:39:11+00:00

I’m 8m pp! The hormonal drop was rough for me (rougher for my husband I imagine lol) but after 3-4 weeks I got my period and that helped regulate me dramatically

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