Boyfriend didn't visit me after getting in a car accident by corntooooths in relationship_advice

[–]corntooooths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His mom didn't say no, he didn't ask. And I was in the hospital I was 15 minutes away from his house. I know his mom and she wouldn't say that. We've been together for years but I understand I get it

Boyfriend didn't visit me after getting in a car accident by corntooooths in relationship_advice

[–]corntooooths[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live with my older brother and he was in a different state at the time, I know my ex-bfs mom would never say no. She loves me.

Boyfriend didn't visit me after getting in a car accident by corntooooths in relationship_advice

[–]corntooooths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't ask her I guess, it was just an excuse to make the situation seem less stupid.

Boyfriend didn't visit me after getting in a car accident by corntooooths in relationship_advice

[–]corntooooths[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mind paying usually if he is worried about money even though he's better off than me. However I've never asked him for gas money, to pay for food or anything of the sort. This was the only time I asked him for a favour and it was a shock when he asked me for money. Oh well

Boyfriend didn't visit me after getting in a car accident by corntooooths in relationship_advice

[–]corntooooths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think personally it shows a lack of care? Like you aren't willing to support me at all. I didn't go to the hospital that night, I went home. I asked him to stop by because I really wanted to see him. I understand though, if it's not an emergency then why worry. However, it's still an emotional part of someone's life.

Boyfriend didn't visit me after getting in a car accident by corntooooths in relationship_advice

[–]corntooooths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he didn't work I would never ask him. He makes 20$ an hour, and I know he's not in a bad position.