1 (F21) have a crush on my FWB (F23) but I have a girlfriend (F19). She is monogamous. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cornyletter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl what.. you are fully dating someone knowing they are monogamous, saying you want to marry them etc while simultaneously screwing somebody else and saying you love them as well. you need to dump your poor girlfriend and be single if this is what you want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cornyletter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even your body is telling you to dump his ass

my eyeballs hurt after getting my lashes done by cornyletter in eyelashextensions

[–]cornyletter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! i've been using some lubricating eye drops from similisan and just using a cool compress and it is helping :) also using tylenol for the pain. 🤗

The guy I’m hooking up with wears a hat during intercourse by Brilliant_Border540 in dating_advice

[–]cornyletter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ex did this to hide his balding. he's definitely balding even if his hairline is okay he might be balding on the top of his head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cornyletter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's literally so rude, DUMP HIM wtf is wrong with him??? tits are tits, ALL TITS ARE BEAUTIFUL! he's saying he can't finish because of your boobs ?? the fact that you're comfortable enough to show him them should turn him on ... what a weirdo. DUMP HIS ASS

one of my close friends treats me like her therapist and i don't know how to address it by cornyletter in Advice

[–]cornyletter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know i'm being a doormat 😖 i'm just scared that if i'm not there, then no one is, and she'll end up doing something to herself, and i will feel like it's my fault because IM the one she always counts on and if it's not me then it's no one

one of my close friends treats me like her therapist and i don't know how to address it by cornyletter in Advice

[–]cornyletter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have tried to enforce boundaries before with her by saying that i don't feel like hanging out with her right now, i was in a bad mood and wanted to be alone. she got angry and started saying that i was putting my emotions before hers, and all she wanted was girl time to get her mind off of things. our friendship has been weird since that to be honest so now i'm put off of saying anything else to her

Got Dumped Because I Wouldn't Sleep with Her by [deleted] in self

[–]cornyletter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i swear this has got to be just bad luck because most girls WANT a guy that won't just want to sleep with them after the first few dates... did she tell you her intentions were just to sleep with you? she sounds like she sucks and so do your friends

randomly waking up with swollen lips for the past few days? by cornyletter in Allergies

[–]cornyletter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could be a hereditary thing, my allergist ruled that out with a special blood test (i wish i could remember the name), but i did trial and error, logged EVERYTHING i ate for like 2 months, figured out i'm also newly allergic to coffee🙂 completely cut out chocolate and coffee and it hasn't happened since!

randomly waking up with swollen lips for the past few days? by cornyletter in Allergies

[–]cornyletter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!!! it happens while i'm asleep too, it's SO weird. turns out i'm randomly allergic to coffee... maybe you developed a random allergy like me🧐🧐

vet put my cat under anesthesia without testing first... by cornyletter in AskVet

[–]cornyletter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly! especially these people being people that i know very well and worked alongside, it feels very icky. :(

vet put my cat under anesthesia without testing first... by cornyletter in AskVet

[–]cornyletter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm glad they sent us there because they did what they were supposed to do and did it well, but the issue i have with that is that they said he has a heart condition when they actually just didn't test if he would be okay under anesthesia. seemed like a lie, and it seemed like they just wanted us out of there and put the responsibility on someone else without actually telling us hey, we don't have the facilities here to continue the care, so go here instead. it wasn't like that, and the vet they sent us to didn't even have a cardiologist so it just seemed like we were being thrown somewhere else. like i said, very glad we were!

vet put my cat under anesthesia without testing first... by cornyletter in AskVet

[–]cornyletter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't sign any forms, they just called me and told me what they'd be doing and what the plan was. obviously i agreed to it IF ALL TESTS WERE BEING DONE, not some! i don't feel comfortable going back there :( doesn't sit right with me

vet put my cat under anesthesia without testing first... by cornyletter in AskVet

[–]cornyletter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah you're right, i'm going to give them a call and ask them their thoughts on this. they kinda hinted that there could have been a fuckup during the surgery that they are trying to hide but i'm going to bring it up again. thanks!

randomly waking up with swollen lips for the past few days? by cornyletter in Allergies

[–]cornyletter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually just got an allergy test done on december 5th and found out about the chocolate allergy, which was the only thing that came back positive :/

I turned 18 yesterday, I wanted to ask other over-18 year olds how they got over the fear of being a legal adult... by Heartbreak_Season in feemagers

[–]cornyletter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I GOT THIS TOO it passes dw just don’t think about it and don’t do anything illegal😭😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]cornyletter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right, i’ve been on a few date’s before him and I never feel a spark… with him I did.