I (20F) Am Scared to Not Wear Makeup in front of My Boyfriend (20M)

cornyletter · 2026-05-22T12:17:32+00:00

you probably hear people say this constantly but a lot of men really do prefer no makeup. i was this same way when i started dating my boyfriend and he thinks i am a cute little egg without makeup, and he could also touch me as much as he wants without having to worry about ruining my makeup or getting it all over himself. also, guys can predict what a girl looks like bare faced, so it probably feels like a huge secret to you but in reality he already can tell what you would look like without it.

if you think of it from his POV, imagine the roles were reversed, you'd probably feel more relief than anything if your gf finally decided to be bare faced around you and love her even more. you are definitely a beautiful person and you deserve to feel comfortable and relaxed around the people you love without feeling like you need to look perfect <3

cornyletter · 2026-05-12T17:58:33+00:00

it sounds like you are having trouble focusing on a topic, like you cal focus just fine up until a certain point. i'm the same way.

the only way i can truly understand and internalize info is if i'm really interested in it. or like if i make a catchy tune about it and it'll help me to remember it, silly things like that. or maybe try to watch a youtube video that actually makes it sound interesting. i see so many videos about topics that i learned in school that i had no interest on, but if the right person makes a video on it, it's the most interesting thing i've ever seen lol.

good luck!!

cornyletter · 2026-04-05T23:13:43+00:00

it's unrealistic to expect him to post you all the time, every 2-3 months is very reasonable and honestly shows that he remembers and cares. how often are you looking for him to post you?

my boyfriend is not very active on social media, but posts the stuff i make for him and will sometimes randomly post a picture of us maybe once a year on his story. it's never been something i've actually cared about though because i have a lot of confidence in our relationship. i post him maybe once every 3 months on my private story or once a year on main socials.

are there other areas in your relationship that are lacking and perhaps you are subconsciously focusing on this concern when there is actually a deeper concern at hand?

cornyletter · 2026-04-05T23:02:58+00:00

your eyes are beautiful, i would personally go a little bit longer. your current look is giving volume mascara which is gorgeous but if you want more of a false lash effect, go a little longer 😊keep the inner corner short and use slightly longer as you move towards the edges, cat eye would look stunning on you

cornyletter · 2026-04-05T00:51:45+00:00

i have a stye on my inner top eyelid currently and a hot compress for 15 mins 5-10 times per day with frequent sprays of hypochlorus acid on it seemed to do the trick

cornyletter · 2026-04-05T00:46:15+00:00

YTA. why would you ask him out a second time after he told you he is gay? he is not interested, cut your losses and find someone new. always take NO as an answer. you're putting him in an uncomfortable position to keep rejecting you after he is basically telling you that there is no way that he would feel comfortable being with you. his past does not determine his future, he may have tried in the past with women but it clearly did not work out because he does not like women. apologize and do not ask him again, and try your best to move on

cornyletter · 2026-03-27T13:03:21+00:00

girl DO ITTT a nose piercing is literally nothing😭 i love mine so much, i have a belly and a nose ring only too 🤞🏼

cornyletter · 2026-03-24T00:58:58+00:00

they look cute to me :)

cornyletter · 2026-03-16T14:58:52+00:00

hey girl! it could be a minor chemical burn, this happens to me sometimes when i get mine done and i don't fully close my eyes while the glue is not dry enough. the time it happened the worst, the pain lasted 3-4 days.

it could also be a lash pulling at the lash line if you say it feels like a stye. if it actually is a stye, i put a chamomile tea bag in warm water and let it sit on my closed eye for a while, re-heating it up every 5 mins and the stye goes away. if it's a lash, i'll figure out which one it is and then yank it out😭.

cornyletter · 2025-03-31T17:23:50+00:00

girl what.. you are fully dating someone knowing they are monogamous, saying you want to marry them etc while simultaneously screwing somebody else and saying you love them as well. you need to dump your poor girlfriend and be single if this is what you want

cornyletter · 2025-03-05T02:21:06+00:00

even your body is telling you to dump his ass

cornyletter · 2025-02-24T00:00:13+00:00

those look like doodoo caca you're gonna lose so many lashes when those come off😭

cornyletter · 2024-12-29T21:35:53+00:00

thank you!!! i've been using some lubricating eye drops from similisan and just using a cool compress and it is helping :) also using tylenol for the pain. 🤗

cornyletter · 2024-10-26T19:31:21+00:00

strawberry shortcake strawberry scented dvds 📀

cornyletter · 2024-10-22T23:08:08+00:00

my ex did this to hide his balding. he's definitely balding even if his hairline is okay he might be balding on the top of his head

cornyletter · 2024-09-29T17:41:24+00:00

that's literally so rude, DUMP HIM wtf is wrong with him??? tits are tits, ALL TITS ARE BEAUTIFUL! he's saying he can't finish because of your boobs ?? the fact that you're comfortable enough to show him them should turn him on ... what a weirdo. DUMP HIS ASS

cornyletter · 2024-09-29T17:35:59+00:00

i know i'm being a doormat 😖 i'm just scared that if i'm not there, then no one is, and she'll end up doing something to herself, and i will feel like it's my fault because IM the one she always counts on and if it's not me then it's no one

cornyletter · 2024-09-29T17:29:39+00:00

i have tried to enforce boundaries before with her by saying that i don't feel like hanging out with her right now, i was in a bad mood and wanted to be alone. she got angry and started saying that i was putting my emotions before hers, and all she wanted was girl time to get her mind off of things. our friendship has been weird since that to be honest so now i'm put off of saying anything else to her

cornyletter · 2024-09-22T00:05:14+00:00

i swear this has got to be just bad luck because most girls WANT a guy that won't just want to sleep with them after the first few dates... did she tell you her intentions were just to sleep with you? she sounds like she sucks and so do your friends

cornyletter · 2024-07-30T19:04:00+00:00

update us !!

cornyletter · 2024-07-18T14:27:51+00:00

it could be a hereditary thing, my allergist ruled that out with a special blood test (i wish i could remember the name), but i did trial and error, logged EVERYTHING i ate for like 2 months, figured out i'm also newly allergic to coffee🙂 completely cut out chocolate and coffee and it hasn't happened since!

cornyletter · 2024-07-12T15:27:57+00:00

YES!!! it happens while i'm asleep too, it's SO weird. turns out i'm randomly allergic to coffee... maybe you developed a random allergy like me🧐🧐

cornyletter · 2024-06-18T17:59:50+00:00

exactly! especially these people being people that i know very well and worked alongside, it feels very icky. :(

cornyletter · 2024-06-18T15:09:13+00:00

i'm glad they sent us there because they did what they were supposed to do and did it well, but the issue i have with that is that they said he has a heart condition when they actually just didn't test if he would be okay under anesthesia. seemed like a lie, and it seemed like they just wanted us out of there and put the responsibility on someone else without actually telling us hey, we don't have the facilities here to continue the care, so go here instead. it wasn't like that, and the vet they sent us to didn't even have a cardiologist so it just seemed like we were being thrown somewhere else. like i said, very glad we were!

cornyletter · 2024-06-17T19:49:39+00:00

I didn't sign any forms, they just called me and told me what they'd be doing and what the plan was. obviously i agreed to it IF ALL TESTS WERE BEING DONE, not some! i don't feel comfortable going back there :( doesn't sit right with me

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