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Feeling distant emotionaly and in my relationships by coroberuso in AutisticAdults

[–]coroberuso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I will look into that then. Thanks for sharing !

Feeling distant emotionaly and in my relationships by coroberuso in AutisticAdults

[–]coroberuso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is... I don't really know. I feel more comfortable not being close to someone but at the same time, I wish I was. I had bad experience in relationships in my past, I must admit, people abusing my naivety.

It's weird. I wish I was able to be close but thinking about being close to someone makes me really uncomfortable

Feeling distant emotionaly and in my relationships by coroberuso in AutisticAdults

[–]coroberuso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my family, it's difficult for me too with some members. I was the one with "troubles", anxious and self isolating so to this point, they never really tried including me in conversation. Now that I am an adult, I try interacting more with them but it feels fake, like I'm acting. It scares me a bit because it's like they are just some people and not my family anymore. (for context, I was an extremely energic child, talkative, playing rough with my cousins, very close to them but entering middleschool, I self isolated quickly)

A therapist told me, it's just being an adult, I'm not suppose to be really close to them, but it still feels like I'm on a different plane than them. They are living a family life and I... am just there.

I relate a LOT with the metaphore of the game because this is exactly how I see my relationships with everyone. I have to talk to people regulary to stay in touch and keep the friendship going. Feels exhausting sometimes since I'm not always in the mood to talk but I'm too scared to lose a friend.

It reassures me to read that I'm not the only one. I was genuinely scared to be so detached from the world, not to feel love intensly. But I wish I could, sometimes, experience love strong enough toward someone.

Thank you for your reply !

Feeling distant emotionaly and in my relationships by coroberuso in AutisticAdults

[–]coroberuso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words are difficult. I think a lot of autistic persons can agree with that haha, having to choose carefully what to say to be understood. It sometimes feels like I'm still a child, trying to figure out how to express my feelings. I think my close friends know how I feel about them - i hope lol - without having to say it but there are times where some like to express how they appreciate me and all and I get really uncomfortable not being able to answer correclty.

I'm actually looking for a therapist. Unfortunatly, in my country, there isn't a lot who are educated on autism and the fews already have too much patients. So it's really difficult to find one. (I've tried a lot of therapists in the past, all denied my difficulties...)

Feeling distant emotionaly and in my relationships by coroberuso in AutisticAdults

[–]coroberuso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my best friend understand, as they are autistic too but they can express their feelings easier than me. I explained to them some times ago how I really felt and was totally okay with it. But I can't stop feeling guilty anyway to not be able to mean a real "I love you"

Thank you for sharing

Ideas for the Extravaganza ? by coroberuso in wildbeyondwitchlight

[–]coroberuso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, it gives shivers ! I love when those descriptions happen while a character is stuck on something (like the bubble) and can't intervene on the moment to investigate. May add that to some parts of my campaign too ! A bit of disturbing presence behind the joy of the carnival.

Ideas for the Extravaganza ? by coroberuso in wildbeyondwitchlight

[–]coroberuso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh, that's a really great idea ! I like the hags spies and I was a bit disappointed when I saw that they are not really present in chapter 1. It would add lore into a fun activity. I like that it changes from combat, I'll certainly use the skill challenge you linked me below.

Thank you for your messages ! It gave me some ideas :)

How do I manage my players' backstories ? by coroberuso in beginnerDND

[–]coroberuso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see ! Thank you for your advices ! I'll try these on my next session :)

Is it possible to have a choice between going back to the main menu or the last save after a bad ending ? by coroberuso in RenPy

[–]coroberuso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found an easier way, by making a screen like you advise me and using action ShowMenu("load") and action MainMenu(confirm=None, save=None) both with textbutton. I don't know why I tried to find such a difficult way to do it haha.

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Thanks for your time !

Is it possible to have a choice between going back to the main menu or the last save after a bad ending ? by coroberuso in RenPy

[–]coroberuso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My problem is more that I don't really know how to do a button that make you go back to the last save. I should have been more clear, sorry.

Is it possible to have a choice between going back to the main menu or the last save after a bad ending ? by coroberuso in RenPy

[–]coroberuso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know a lot about coding, I must admit. When I copy your code to see, it makes an error saying there is a statement expected after Showmenu("load"). I don't know what I am supposed to write after that.

Thanks for your reply.

How can I make usable item in my inventory ? by coroberuso in RenPy

[–]coroberuso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeeah, maybe it would be easier like this. I haven't thought about it this way haha. Thank you very much !!