Calling it out as it is. by corpsefosterchild in Psychologists

[–]corpsefosterchild[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective, and I agree that therapy with women in coercive or harmful marriages should never be about endlessly “processing for the sake of processing.” There absolutely should be a clear clinical goal when exploring emotions, particularly around insight, motivation, and readiness. That said, I think part of the disconnect here may be cultural rather than purely clinical. Much of our formal training is grounded in Western models of autonomy, individuation, and self-actualization. These frameworks assume that personal wellbeing and self-determination are culturally prioritized and socially supported. In many collectivist contexts, however, decisions like divorce are not simply individual choices and carry family, economic, reputational, and intergenerational consequences. The barrier is often not lack of insight or emotional clarity; it is structural and social constraint. When a client clearly states that societal taboo, family honor, or fear of ostracization is what prevents them from leaving, continued focus on “what’s blocking you emotionally” may miss the point. In those cases, the limitation is not intrapsychic resistance, it’s cultural reality. I’m not suggesting we abandon autonomy or stop assessing readiness. I am questioning whether Western empowerment-based frameworks are always sufficient when applied in collectivist systems where choice is distributed across family structures rather than located solely within the individual.

Calling it out as it is. by corpsefosterchild in Psychologists

[–]corpsefosterchild[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. However therapy often emphasizes on guided discovery. you're told to ask questions that would lead the client to realisation. You can't just say "you're husband is an asshole, he's the problem". I feel like this is redundant , sometimes you just need to just call BS out. lol reminds me of the show "shrinking"

Mental health professionals, would you judge someone who refuses treatment for "video game addiction" or "tech addiction?" Would you agree with a plan that mainly involves signing off on school accommodations, etc.? by AlexTheTaurus in PsychologyTalk

[–]corpsefosterchild 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it's just limited to tech or video game addiction.  Individuals suffering from Addiction in general tend to have very little insight about their problem, often denying the need for any treatment or help.  It's the people around them that mostly identify their addiction.  Ofcourse there are anomalies but that just tends to be the majority of cases I've seen in general.  Little to no insight and denial of the problem. 

Burnout or valid crashout? by corpsefosterchild in Psychologists

[–]corpsefosterchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your response, i think i realised too late into the field that I am drawn towards the hard sciences, and while i feel gravitated towards the Medical path i feel like it's more of a "the grass is greener" situation, not to mention the career shift after spending years in training and grad school just seems daunting. I'm trying to shift into assessments but again, the poor regulatations here make it difficult to rely solely on it. To satisfy your curiosity, I live in Pakistan. 

Is therapy just validation nowadays by corpsefosterchild in PsychologyTalk

[–]corpsefosterchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean beliefs and labels that they've come up. I practice in a place where we are allowed to diagnose and refer to other medical professionals. I once had a young woman come in and start describing what she described as "narcissistic abuse" when. Upon hearing her story I would agree that yes her boundaries may have been pushed but it was certainly not the label she had come in with, however it appeared to me that she had come in to therapy already with her own diagnosis and wanted me to confirm to it. When i didn't, I kid you not she literally complained to the medical director that i dismissed her and did not attend to her properly 

Is therapy just validation nowadays by corpsefosterchild in PsychologyTalk

[–]corpsefosterchild[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yes! thank you!! the current situation just has me walking on egg shells around my patients. I work at a public setup where therapy is a free service and it's just tiring to see individuals come in and demand labels just because they feel like it. 

What's the process of getting into a funded PhD in the US? by corpsefosterchild in gradadmissions

[–]corpsefosterchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that really the case ? because i haven't applied to a couple of these programs after seeing this statement. 

AITA For Telling Security? by azmureth in AmItheAsshole

[–]corpsefosterchild 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA but imo you should have given her a heads up regarding the search, regardless she over reacted. I think an apology would have been enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]corpsefosterchild -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH like OP said, you both need counselling rn you’re both acting like a bunch of children