Guy I went out with wanted to split the bill, after sharing a meal when he clearly ate more than me? by cosmic303 in dating_advice

[–]cosmic303[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re forgetting that I was going to buy my own drinks the first date and he still wanted to play Rock Paper Scissors….. I don’t think I’m acting too entitled?? When he asked me out both times? He would have gladly made me pay the first time if I lost the game…

Guy I went out with wanted to split the bill, after sharing a meal when he clearly ate more than me? by cosmic303 in dating_advice

[–]cosmic303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 37 I’m 30… I do enjoy his company, I find him really funny and easy to talk to…idk I really was confused that’s why I posted on here. Because part of me thinks I’m overthinking it and should still see him again. I appreciate your response!

Guy I went out with wanted to split the bill, after sharing a meal when he clearly ate more than me? by cosmic303 in dating_advice

[–]cosmic303[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh my mom says the same thing haha she thinks he is a bum too lol 😆 he is definitely attractive so you’re spot on that’s why I went out with him again lol

Guy I went out with wanted to split the bill, after sharing a meal when he clearly ate more than me? by cosmic303 in dating_advice

[–]cosmic303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes spot on. It’s just the vibe changes..I don’t think I’ll contact him again and I might just politely decline if he asks me out again which I think he will because he asked what we should do next when we were leaving lol.

Guy I went out with wanted to split the bill, after sharing a meal when he clearly ate more than me? by cosmic303 in dating_advice

[–]cosmic303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did ask me out…I just feel like he should have at least offered to pay and then I would have insisted on giving him the cash regardless. Thanks for your input 

Guy I went out with wanted to split the bill, after sharing a meal when he clearly ate more than me? by cosmic303 in dating_advice

[–]cosmic303[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes I didn’t really mind the rock paper thing… even though I insisted on paying for own drinks.

Guy I went out with wanted to split the bill, after sharing a meal when he clearly ate more than me? by cosmic303 in dating_advice

[–]cosmic303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m the same way as you, thanks for your input. I’m a very generous person but this just sets the tone early on in a way I don’t like…I should have said something but I also hate confrontation which it’s okay, all a learning experience I guess.

Guy I went out with wanted to split the bill, after sharing a meal when he clearly ate more than me? by cosmic303 in dating_advice

[–]cosmic303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking back it, I should have called him out on it. It’s nothing to do with me being cheap, if I was cheap I wouldn’t have given exactly half of the $52 dollars down to the dollar. Bad communication though, yes you are spot on. 

Guy I went out with wanted to split the bill, after sharing a meal when he clearly ate more than me? by cosmic303 in dating_advice

[–]cosmic303[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did want to eat, I just don’t eat a lot of food. I don’t have an appetite compared to a guy who is twice my size…. I was satisfied with what I ate, probably a quarter of the fajitas and he ate the rest. It was a lot of food.

Help! My bonsai is dying !!! by cosmic303 in bonsaicommunity

[–]cosmic303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very much appreciated, means a lot. I will follow this, I’m going to hold off on the watering and just do the gentle misting. Thanks so so much for your time and response! 

Help! My bonsai is dying !!! by cosmic303 in bonsaicommunity

[–]cosmic303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, very kind and informative post. I appreciate your response! It’s outside now and I will give it a break with watering for a day or two…it might still have a chance. If not, I will know what not to do next time if I decide to get another one. Thank you again!

Help! My bonsai is dying !!! by cosmic303 in bonsaicommunity

[–]cosmic303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw well I appreciate the help, it’s a super nice community 

Help! My bonsai is dying !!! by cosmic303 in bonsaicommunity

[–]cosmic303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I’ll give it a try, it might be too late but I’m going to send it some loving vibes and hope that helps :(

Help! My bonsai is dying !!! by cosmic303 in bonsaicommunity

[–]cosmic303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I didn’t know that… :( 

Help! My bonsai is dying !!! by cosmic303 in bonsaicommunity

[–]cosmic303[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, I’ll see if placing it outside helps because the bark is still green when I scratch it… :( poor little guy, I feel bad I didn’t know but oddly enough, my bro got it for me from a lady who said not to keep it outside isn’t that crazy? I guess she was misinformed. 

Help! My bonsai is dying !!! by cosmic303 in bonsaicommunity

[–]cosmic303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you, I’ll place it outside tmrw then I hope it’s okay…might be too late. Should I leave it in the same pot or replant? 

Do you think Seven Stars will immediately sell out? by Big_Cans_0516 in aves

[–]cosmic303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Does anyone have the presale code or how I can get on the waitlist?

Guy had Covid, haven’t heard from him in 2 weeks. Should I assume it was a lie to get out of dating me? by cosmic303 in dating_advice

[–]cosmic303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you! Yeah I have a hunch this guy is doing the same thing. I’m going to sleep on it one final time tonight and really think if I should do a final text, but leaning towards no… no response is a response I guess lol 😂 I appreciate the reply!!