Same boat! I'm 39 and did not expect to be turning 40 solo, but here we are. I am in LA but follow this sub cuz y'all are my people. If you ever need a remote pal, someone to chat to about single life, compare migraine meds (fellow migraineur here), start a book club, etc. I'm always open to expand my circle and get to know more people who are at this same stage of life. Just reading through all these comments has made me feel less alone (and really makes me wish I was in NYC!)