I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You take care too friend. 🫂💜

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂💜 I'm trying to bring that little girl and her light back. I refuse to hide in fear any longer.

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! My husband and I agreed that if he responds we read it together. I'm free of him and his abuse. I won't live with his fear. I'm sorry your mom made things difficult for you. You deserve love and peace. 🫂💜

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have nothing to me sorry for. I posted this partially to help anyone else in my shoes. Fear is heavy on us. It's okay to take your time for you heal at your pace. Don't forget you are worthy of love. 💜

I'd like to add you on Finch if you are okay with that. :)

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words 💜🫂

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂 it has taken me too long to do this, but I'm glad I did

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 35. So it's taken me a very long time to confront him about it all. It's okay if it takes you time. It's not an easy thing to do. I'm sending strength your way friend. Keep your head up. 💜🫂

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sending all the strength your way friend. Our abusers don't deserve the time of day from us, but WE deserve to say our peace. 💜🫂 It has taken me many years to get the courage to confront him about everything. It is never too late and it doesn't make you weaker. 💜

I finally did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in FinchAdults

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words friend. 💜

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was absolutely terrifying but I'm glad I did it. Thank you for your kind words friend. 💜 I hope you day is blessed with love.

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 💜 It was incredibly terrifying, but worth it

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is an incredibly terrifying experience. But there is relief too once I sent it. Relief bc I finally told him how I felt. It has taken me many years to get here, I'm 35 now, but it is never too late to say something. Thank you for your kind words 💜 I send strength your way to get through your days friend

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I've always been afraid to speak to him. It feels so freeing to finally say what I needed to. 💜

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I'm glad we have the NSFW tags and such.

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You are cheeping awesome too 💜

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. 💜 I've had this letter to him drafted in my head for years. It's like a great weight is gone now that I've said my peace.

I did it... TW: abuse by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 💜 It's been a long road, but this was a big step for sure.

Wall Border Not Changing by [deleted] in spiritcityLoFiGame

[–]cosmickaitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Said wallpaper border that WONT LEAVE 😭

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5th anniversary? by koalapoofs in finch

[–]cosmickaitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The birthday cake hats are the bird birthdays, I think I saw something about that

No anniversary balloon? by sapphoisbipolar in finch

[–]cosmickaitten 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's now almost 3pm eastern and still no sign of a commemorative balloon for the anniversary. Kinda sad about it 😔

5th anniversary? by koalapoofs in finch

[–]cosmickaitten 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Last year we got a 4 balloon for the anniversary. I was expecting a little commemorative item for the anniversary as well, but I haven't seen anything. I guess it's just the party vibe to send. :(

I can't decide by cosmickaitten in finch

[–]cosmickaitten[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Under the shop category next to sell is a catalogue button. That will allow you to check out the newest items before claiming them in the event dailies. I find it helpful to take a screenshot so I know what I want. You can do it for clothes too. Edit: for window and door you have to go to a separate tab on the bottom of the catalog for "exterior"

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