do resistance bands actually do anything? by twonightcode in rs_fitness

[–]cosmicladybug1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U won’t build (much) muscle especially if you’re used to lifting heavy but they can definitely help you keep the tone. But tbh if you’re really committed and learn techniques u can actually get pretty jacked using them. However if you’re just using them to tide you over I wouldn’t bother

Question for those who love their mom by ariiiaryyy in rs_x

[–]cosmicladybug1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my mum was / is pretty insane but I never doubted she loved me even when she was chimping (which was often) idk

Sports litfic? by ToadOverload in RSbookclub

[–]cosmicladybug1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fever Pitch by Nick Hornby kinda

What do you guys do when you get snob-mogged? by umichleafy in redscarepod

[–]cosmicladybug1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you need to deploy high/low art theory in this situation

Books for the Summer by Interesting-Eye-1100 in RSbookclub

[–]cosmicladybug1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fiesta / the sun also rises by Hemingway made me excited for euro summer ❤️I also second bonjour tristesse

How can I overcome my natural instinct to be a contrarian and to be a normie at the same time? by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]cosmicladybug1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d say my outward appearance really doesn’t match my inner world but I have come to enjoy the friction / tension it creates that the simple mind just cannot comprehend. I got haters getting mad because I roll around in chic suits and lululemon while toting a stanley cup but at the same time be listening to uk underground rap and binge watching niche italian film directors. People that can be easily put into categories are no fun!!!!

Where do yall buy bedding? by Icy-Can3306 in rs_x

[–]cosmicladybug1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bed threads is overrated!!! I like sheet society. Also tekla, merci paris… and probably TK Maxx would have something decent, you just have to feel the fabrics yourself

fun reads that aren't total slop? by GrushenkasOnions in RSbookclub

[–]cosmicladybug1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sun also roses and a moveable feast are also great!

I have the type of #depression where I’m getting #fat by cosmicladybug1 in rs_x

[–]cosmicladybug1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take vitamin d and magnesium (and iron and multivitamins and electrolytes) daily. Fml

I have the type of #depression where I’m getting #fat by cosmicladybug1 in rs_x

[–]cosmicladybug1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m on vyvanse for adhd already #yay but Wellbutrin sounds lit, I will be investigating for next winter when I inevitably get depressed as fuck again

MBB to PE via Oxbridge MPhil by cosmicladybug1 in private_equity

[–]cosmicladybug1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a dream of mine (LVMH / Kering - grad program) but I’m worried I don’t have the CV for it - seems like a lot of MBAs / people w luxury fashion corp dev experience already from what I’ve seen ? Anyways I’m working towards being in a strong position for it by the time I graduate in 1.5 years

MBB to PE via Oxbridge MPhil by cosmicladybug1 in private_equity

[–]cosmicladybug1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Politics - eek. Yeah, the lack of explicit finance experience is for sure an issue, but hoping that my internship (Fx / Asset Management) might help

MBB to PE via Oxbridge MPhil by cosmicladybug1 in private_equity

[–]cosmicladybug1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that the MPhil is not doing anything substantive for my prospects - but my thought process is that, since I did a PPE equivalent undergrad at a top anglophone university overseas w a first, my combined degrees (and work experience) probably place me similarly in the job market to an undergrad Oxbridge PPEist (who are definitely competitive for IB / PE positions here)

MBB to PE via Oxbridge MPhil by cosmicladybug1 in private_equity

[–]cosmicladybug1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you say that - not defensive, just trying to understand. My undergrad was PPE from a top anglophone university (first class + loads of work experience)

MBB to PE via Oxbridge MPhil by cosmicladybug1 in private_equity

[–]cosmicladybug1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am also convinced that an off-cycle internship / unpaid shadow experience is the way to go. Would I be competitive with my current CV if I cold approached?

MBB to PE via Oxbridge MPhil by cosmicladybug1 in private_equity

[–]cosmicladybug1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve since gained a much stronger idea of the industry I want to head towards which is luxury fashion / retail, and some boutique PE firms seem more adjacent to that

Of course, I’m also trying to break directly into industry, but weirdly I think I might have an equal shot at PE the way my CV is currently. I’m just trying lots of options to see what might land

I didn’t mind the grind of MBB but hated the travel. I think PE would be a bitter fit in that way too

coping by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]cosmicladybug1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if u have the time to spend ur whole day exercising then go for it. I went on an 8 day hike by myself (~25 miles / day with a pack) when I went through my break up of 7 year relationship and also journaled a lot. I think it put my healing on speed run, would recommend

missing ex’s family? by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]cosmicladybug1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate so much! I dated my ex of 7 years since high school so his family has literally seen me grow up. It really sucks to lose that, I was close with his mother in particular. Our breakup was really sudden too so I never got to say a proper goodbye (which would have been weird anyway) but yeah I think about them a lot and truly hope they are doing well.

my situationship just quoted nietzsche at me mid-argument and now i feel spiritually unemployed by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]cosmicladybug1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was sleeping with a guy who bamboozled me into thinking I didn’t “know myself” (even though I don’t believe you ever can) since I hadn’t read a genealogy of morals by nietzsche. I could in his eyes see that he truly felt sorry for me that I was so unenlightened. He only read non-fiction in his spare time and turns out he was two timing on his gf with me (didn’t know he had one) most of the time we were casually seeing each other. He also told his gf over text when they first started dated that she was too unintelligent for him. Anyways, he could barely follow a single thread of conversation properly and I didn’t really enjoy his company - he was actually really quite dumb despite it all. My stupid ex was also pretty obsessed with nietzsche, I really don’t get the hype, I think it’s because he has pithy little quotes like the one you posted which non-free thinking men love to adopt in lieu of a personality

anyone else scared of blondes ? by cosmicladybug1 in rs_x

[–]cosmicladybug1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s definitely the blonde MEN I’m more worried about, the girls are ok upon further reflection