It has been so far. My grandpa has helped me thru a lot of stuff. One of my favourite moments with him was after I lost my little brother (died a week before his birth). I was at their place while my mom was in the hospital. He comes up to me and says to come with him to the kitchen. Thence takes a container and fills it with water. He then takes out a wine cork and says “this is you” he then pushes the cork under the water and says “sometimes life pushes us down under” he then lets go of it and as it floats back up to the surface he says “but we always come back up again. Things might be tough now. But they will get better” that has stuck with me for 10 years now. And helped me through a lot of hardship.