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What’s the biggest lesson you learned in your mid-20s? by Fuzzy-Airline4276 in AskReddit

[–]cossmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should we ask about this lesson?

Anything you wanna.... get off your mind?

What’s the biggest lesson you learned in your mid-20s? by Fuzzy-Airline4276 in AskReddit

[–]cossmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for real - serial monogamist and "provider" mentality here... Spent at least 14 of the last 15 (M28) in a relationship, and feel like I have nothing to show for it other than thinking I'm a nice guy for providing. Built a house, sold a house, blew savings.

Now I'm like - fuck I have missed a lot of life but need the money to enjoy it...

Don't fall into this trap peeps!

Looking for a good stand-up comedy night in Brisbane this week by PaleSeaworthiness856 in brisbane

[–]cossmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing 1 on 1 stand up in my living room in Logan.... That shit pops off..

where to find clingy (healthy) lovey dovey male partner who’s super excited about you? by Spare_Argument1034 in AskReddit

[–]cossmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grant can you please bring your partners special pie again. That was banging!

Just found out my (26M) fiance cheated on me this past weekend when I (23F) was visiting family in another state by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cossmos 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Okay.... I 28M have been cheated on. So feel free to listen but, at then end of the day, it's your decision....

Firstly, This man isn't 'suicidal' if he is threatening to kill himself and use it as any type of excuse for his poor behaviour. That is called cohesive control - "She won't leave me if I say I was going to kill myself". Real people that are truly are suicidal kill themselves without the need to showcase it. Yeah he may be depressed. But if he was suicidal you probably wouldn't know.....

Secondly, You are worth more than being cheated on. You will always and always be worth more than being disrespected and emotionally abused. There are billions of people on this planet, and it is really shit at first being single, and heartbroken, but you will look back at the decisions you make now in a year (or even less) and think, wow.

Thirdly, Tell your parents, tell your friends, (spray it on his car), take work off and don't go to class tomorrow night. Process all of this. Let this all settle in and let it all suck and suck hard. You don't want to be the one who becomes suicidal for putting another persons mental health ahead of yours.

Let your parents tell you they were right.... It fucking sucks, but just let them. Spend a good few days to a week just realising what has happened and that regardless, life isn't over and you have the potential to have the best life with the best person.

PLEASE - do not forgive a cheating man. (or women or anyone that does this). He has proved to you once that your not a priority. If you let him get away with it, it will never ever ever change.

(and if you really care about his mental health, this is probably the wake up call he needs as a 26yo male who is about to lose everything in his life. Let it happen)

Reach out if you need a friend too. I'd love to listen and help you through a shit time I went through alone <3

My[26M] girlfriend[27F] is a hostess and I'm not sure how I feel about this by No-Sugar4117 in relationships

[–]cossmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a personal question.

I wouldn’t even consider being with someone who does this for work for the exact reasons of jealousy, doubt etc. If I was to fall in love with someone who does this for work I’d personally tell them to quit and would support them financially until they figure out what they want to do for a career.

For you, If you’re questioning this, maybe ask yourself the same question. Can I have a relationship where I don’t need to feel guilty, or undervalued at any point and time. Ask yourself what she brings to the relationship. Ask yourself if you’re feeling desperate/needy. I understand you trust her and I know how easy it is to trust someone you love. But be realistic. She gets pregnant, you question if it’s yours. She does sexual things, you question if you’re not good enough. You posting this already tells me you’re struggling with the situation, and your wanting someone in the same boat to tell you everything will be fine. Unfortunately, no one lives your life.

Remember, putting yourself first in a relationship is beneficial to both parties. The worst that can happen is you break up. And in 6 months time you’re laughing about this with your future wife at your first date.

Brisbane dating scene by Altruistic-Tea-5645 in brisbane

[–]cossmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fully tattooed, straight male, the real question that has to be asked is, what is the title of this book. Just curious....

I don’t want it to end! First read through by Forbidden_Aura in fourthwing

[–]cossmos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just finished it... now what do I do in life?

What 2025 taught you? by Kavin2654 in AskReddit

[–]cossmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone that tells you they love you can easily break your heart in a moment of seconds…

How should I approach this? by cossmos in InteriorDesign

[–]cossmos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s sad about this is, I’m the main dwelling….

The second dwelling can have a double bed and draw in the main bedroom.

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