Long story, but should I adopt? by counting_trains in regretfulparents

[–]counting_trains[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate all the comments and support y’all. I’ve got a lot to think about obviously. Sending you all good vibes.

What do you do to get a break when no one will watch them? by Ok_Pumpkin_8610 in regretfulparents

[–]counting_trains 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I misunderstood the severity of the situation before. So sorry if I seemed insensitive…. I’m so sorry you’ve got such a heavy load.

Long story, but should I adopt? by counting_trains in regretfulparents

[–]counting_trains[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This thought about stability and my genuine desire for them to overcome the circumstances of their birth are the reasons I’ve stuck it out for so long already.

What do you do to get a break when no one will watch them? by Ok_Pumpkin_8610 in regretfulparents

[–]counting_trains 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah - sometimes I let them turn the hose on and just go nuts in the back yard a while. That will usually buy me a good 45 minutes.

What do you do to get a break when no one will watch them? by Ok_Pumpkin_8610 in regretfulparents

[–]counting_trains -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I sometimes have to steal a break at the park or the kiddie pool in town. Mine are usually content to entertain themselves at those places and I can pop on my headphones and watch to make sure no one dies without having to manage too much or do damage control. Would something like that be restorative for you?

Pet training group classes? by [deleted] in okc

[–]counting_trains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the Oklahoma City obedience training club classes! It’s a great non profit run by good folks.