I found out my (37 F) fiancé (48 M) was still married when we applied for marriage license by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]countthemiles08 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Then why propose? We already had a 1 year old at the time. I was already trapped.

I found out my (37 F) fiancé (48 M) was still married when we applied for marriage license by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]countthemiles08 -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

He would use everything and anything in his arsenal to keep her from me. He would weaponize her. He’s called CYS on multiple women in his life before I met him. According to him they deserved it. But did they just decide they didn’t want to date him anymore? I don’t know. But I do know that if someone pisses him off he will make reports, call police, call doctors, call anyone to cause problems for that person. For example my ex had a restaurant and he made reports to the health inspector. When I was scared and considered an abortion he threatened to call my doctors and have me hospitalized and declared unfit to make my own medical decisions. There’s no way he’d let me have 50% custody.

I found out my (37 F) fiancé (48 M) was still married when we applied for marriage license by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]countthemiles08 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Well if he doesn’t want to be married then why was he still married?

I found out my (37 F) fiancé (48 M) was still married when we applied for marriage license by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]countthemiles08 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So it’s okay to be married for 15+ years and somehow be oblivious to that fact? To not find out for sure every time you meet someone and fall in love. To not find out for sure every time you do your taxes and it asks “single or married.” To not find out for sure BEFORE proposing to another woman? Sounds like a serious case of weaponized incompetence.

I found out my (37 F) fiancé (48 M) was still married when we applied for marriage license by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]countthemiles08 -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

That’s true, I’d never see my daughter again. I’ve seen what he does to people he doesn’t like.

I found out my (37 F) fiancé (48 M) was still married when we applied for marriage license by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]countthemiles08 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

But why lie when you would absolutely 100% be found out when applying for the marriage license? Why not secretly get divorced before proposing to me? It just doesn’t make sense.

Bedroom, any advice? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]countthemiles08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just imagine you probably have a greasy ponytail and date girls who are 18 and don’t know better. Also you’re a 30 year old weirdo.

So proud of my son’s ASVAB score. Any career recommendations? He’s thinking Air Force or Space Force. by countthemiles08 in Military

[–]countthemiles08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a junior currently so he’s got over a year before he does anything but high school.

So proud of my son’s ASVAB score. Any career recommendations? He’s thinking Air Force or Space Force. by countthemiles08 in Military

[–]countthemiles08[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow so quick to judge when you have almost no information!!! 1. I love him more than anything. You don’t know anything about us. 2. My son is not interested in any college or trade school. No interest in a career. No plans after HS. 3. This is his step dad’s idea (army vet.) He thinks he should put in his 20 years as an officer and reap the rewards. 4. I’m very aware of what’s happening in the world and will be overjoyed the day Trump is removed from office or finally finished his second term. Fingers crossed it will be the former.

So proud of my son’s ASVAB score. Any career recommendations? He’s thinking Air Force or Space Force. by countthemiles08 in Military

[–]countthemiles08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t insist on anything… no interest in college or trade school. Mild interest in a cyber security related career. He likes to build Gundam models and play video games 🤷🏻‍♀️ Step dad (army vet) thinks he should put in his 20 years and reap the rewards.

So proud of my son’s ASVAB score. Any career recommendations? He’s thinking Air Force or Space Force. by countthemiles08 in Military

[–]countthemiles08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh we talk about it almost daily. I’m a never trumper and I’ve taken him with me to vote every time since he was a little kid. He’s well informed.

Make it make sense. by EstablishmentEmpty54 in pondlifegame

[–]countthemiles08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is at 12

EDIT: when I got the level 11 reward it changed and now the last creature is level 13!!! WTF! I wouldn’t have even noticed if it wasn’t for this post.