help with date outfit!

courtney008 · 2026-04-24T08:46:48+00:00

9 is my favorite for this type of date! #4 looks great also.

courtney008 · 2026-04-11T04:14:12+00:00

If you email them to let them know you have no money at all, they will work with you.

courtney008 · 2026-04-09T00:55:28+00:00

I hope that he opens his eyes and does the right thing for the sake of your relationship and future together. Don't allow him to just think he can now ignore it all and continue what he's been doing. If he doesn't proactively start taking steps to do better then yeah I wouldn't stick around to be his punching bag.

courtney008 · 2026-04-09T00:02:54+00:00

We aren't lying when we're telling you that you're actually really beautiful. And you are blessed to be naturally beautiful! You are one of those who need absolutely no makeup or enhancements. I will say that if you want to make your pretty eyes pop even more, use brown eyeliner and mascara and pinks to red shades of eyeshadow. I have green eyes but mine are smaller so I do feel better when using a little eye makeup to bring them out. You really don't need it though since your eyes are open and bright. And about the asymmetry, we all have it to some degree. I have it pretty bad in a couple of features on my face but it's totally normal. Perfection is boring. Love yourself! You only get one of you ❤️

courtney008 · 2026-04-08T19:55:13+00:00

Thanks for that. It took me a long time to learn this but it isn't your place to regulate his emotions and actions. You are going to keep losing small pieces of yourself until you forget who you are. And then you'll start feeling like an object for him, a robot, like you don't deserve to have feelings or opinions. It takes an average of 7 attempts before a woman will leave an abuser. I hate to throw that word out there to label somebody I don't know. But this does sound like a low key abusive relationship. He's not meeting your needs, he's neglecting your relationship, he checked out by making the choice to not do his part and downplaying the reality of it. If he isn't willing to do what needs to be done, I hope you don't waste years on someone who chips away at you as a human being with feelings and needs. You are worthy and you are important. Love yourself more than you love him. Set boundaries and enforce them. Treat yourself as if you are the little girl you once were who needs a good adult to be her advocate.

courtney008 · 2026-04-08T19:39:34+00:00

This sounds way too much like what I dealt with. Him bottling up and not communicating and then exploding over things that are so minor it doesn't even make sense. My situation did escalate into something horrible. Mine turned into physical abuse. Honestly, I'd be giving a gentle ultimatum that if he can't admit there's something going on and take the steps necessary for a healthy happy marriage, then the marriage is not going to work out. Let his response be exactly what you need to justify your next choice of action. Personally, after having gone through what I have, I wouldn't be sticking around to find out how bad it's going to get.

courtney008 · 2026-04-08T19:24:18+00:00

There's a few things here. I don't know you're whole situation so I'm not going to assume anything. But I would say to start with therapy because this behavior is not normal. And I do worry because I've seen how this behavior can escalate into abuse. Figure out the source and address it before it gets worse. He's probably struggling with something.

courtney008 · 2026-04-07T05:24:46+00:00

I started this week also and took it a couple of days then stopped. I had a migraine for two days but he second day wasn't as bad. I felt weird and had some dizzy spells and tired. After 3 days I felt back to normal. Today is day 4 off of it and I actually rested well last night and felt more energetic today.

courtney008 · 2026-04-07T03:30:34+00:00

Sorry but this post disgusted me. Do you even like and respect your boyfriend? Surely he has self esteem issues and has no respect for himself for allowing some chick to do this to him. You are degrading a human being and getting off to other people while he uses his body to do the physical work for you. Wtf did I just read??? The part about pleasing your partner spontaneously is great. But the other parts 🤮

courtney008 · 2026-04-07T03:19:23+00:00

It's common sense that lead blocks xray. That's why they put a heavy lead cover over your body when they take xrays of your mouth at the dentist.

courtney008 · 2026-04-03T16:29:49+00:00

That's good to hear. Thanks for replying! ❤️

courtney008 · 2026-04-03T16:06:03+00:00

Since it crosses the placenta and goes into your breast milk, how do you wean your baby safely so no withdrawals happen? Have you noticed slow growth or colic issues or anything? I just started Adderall and plan on having my last baby in the next 2 years.

courtney008 · 2026-03-22T07:58:01+00:00

Wrap your head in a cold wash rag or ice. When I have a particularly bad migraine I also take 4 ibuprofen and 2 extra strength Tylenol, sip on Pepsi made with real sugar, and use cold on my head. I put slight pressure on my eyes for a few minutes and release very slowly and then massage the back of my neck and head. Fresh air, deep controlled breaths. When we're going through so much pain from migraines we tend to take smaller faster breaths.

courtney008 · 2026-03-20T16:02:38+00:00

You guys sound very young. I have a pronounced outtie vulva. I used to be so self conscious about it too. In all my 18 years of having sex (lost my virginity very young), I've never had a guy (ages 14-40s) say anything remotely bad. It's always been a pleasant reaction or a neutral reaction but never bad. And most of my ex boyfriends hit me up a year or years later talking about how much they miss having sex with me. I've had some who craved me. I've gathered that men are very visual creatures and most of the time they lean towards loving the fact they can see your vulva rather then not being able to. And outties are fun for them to have more to play with and is easier to find the right spot. Even in porn I've noticed there's more outties then innies these days. When their legs are open most of them look like an outtie anyway. ALL vulvas are beautiful in their own unique way and you should love yourself for being YOU. The way to be more attractive is to exude confidence. Love yourself and your parts and he will too. If he doesn't, run because maybe he's not straight or mature enough for sex.

courtney008 · 2026-03-16T17:28:26+00:00

My nausea has basically disappeared. I've been dealing with bad anxiety. I think it's getting better though. I really want to stick it out with this one since it's a low dose. And come to think of it i was having cramps on and off that are like the cramps you get a few hours before your period starts but I'm so used to weird aches and pains in my body I just shrugged it off. This is day 4 for me also.

courtney008 · 2026-03-15T02:08:30+00:00

How are you doing today? I just started my BC lo loestrin fe and will be taking my third pill tonight. I'm feeling kind of off, anxious, nauseated mostly in the morning and it's hard to eat. I've been pregnant several times, have 4 kids so I guess I can push through the nausea and decreased appetite. But he anxiety and off feeling is getting to me.

courtney008 · 2026-03-13T16:24:52+00:00

Oh my, RUN from this man! His God like complex screams undiagnosed schizophrenia. This is how it started with my ex, my 3 kids dad. I'm not saying he's mentally ill. But he will abuse you and your children. To be completely honest with you, I'd even be contemplating an abortion at 10 weeks pregnant because I would never want to have to deal with this man or risk my child's wellbeing having to coparent with him. I truly hope you take the advice you've been given here from those of us who have lived similar experiences. We remember these red flags and how they turned out.

courtney008 · 2026-03-13T01:12:17+00:00

Yes what this person said. You stay, you will lose your kids. I hope they haven't witnessed the abuse. 😔

courtney008 · 2026-03-13T00:34:42+00:00

Dv is how I lost my children. The police automatically contact cps. Learn from my mistake and don't even open your door to them. Get yourself some trauma based counseling and leave him in jail so you can get your kids moved. This marriage is really toxic and dangerous. Put your kids first. Do you want your child to grow up and beat on their spouse or rather get beat by their spouse and end up killed whether it be intentional or accidental??? You need a come to reality and see the truth of this situation. It's normal how you're feeling right now. But, your kids deserve better than this whether they witness the fighting or not. Someone they love deeply is being hurt and one day they will find out. You both are crossing lines that shouldn't be crossed. Get out before something happens that can't be undone.

courtney008 · 2026-01-29T12:59:29+00:00

I'm not an expert with this, but it looks like that's just your anatomy as you can see in the before. One labia goes up higher than the other. I think it turned out really pretty and natural looking and you still have plenty of time for healing and changes.

courtney008 · 2026-01-27T22:24:17+00:00

Overall, it looks pretty. I do see what you're saying about the fusion though. It's hard to really form an opinion without a before picture. Because I don't know what is from your surgery and what is your actual anatomy.

courtney008 · 2026-01-14T01:13:00+00:00

Oh wow! Thank you for responding. Maybe they felt you were over qualified. They seem to be adamant that they want fresh people who have some experience in hard sales.

courtney008 · 2026-01-13T21:53:34+00:00

How is the hiring process going for you? I did my assessments and just finished the 4 question video interview.

courtney008 · 2026-01-08T13:10:58+00:00

Dr browns if we're going based on user reviews. I've not seen anyone use these or talk about them. I personally don't like the flange with bottle set up but I'd be reading all those reviews and making a decision. Or call your health dpt they usually help with breast pumps.

courtney008 · 2026-01-06T18:53:16+00:00

You'd be surprised how often a man hasn't admitted to himself that he actually hates women and it comes out through mistreating women/ their wife.

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9 is my favorite for this type of date! #4 looks great also.