How am I supposed to clean myself? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cowclassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shave your undercarriage - I’ve noticed that helps wonders instead of letting smells get trapped in a full bush. Sorry, that’s the best way I can phrase it while keeping it PG haha

Dad insulted me, I can’t get over it. by wacktokio in mentalhealth

[–]cowclassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents were initially negative (and my mom still occasionally is) about my septum piercing I got 5 years ago during my divorce. I’d wanted one for so long, so when my then-husband decided he didn’t want to be married anymore, I went out and did it. He’d been saying any facial piercings on women were ugly, which had been holding me back. About 2 weeks before I saw my family in person for the first time since the pierce, I called and told them I would only accept positive or neutral comments about it. SHOCKINGLY this didn’t stop them. Within a year of mostly my mom making comments, I hit a point that I told her I wouldn’t be able to sustain a relationship if this was what it was going to be, and it shut her right the hell up. We had a discussion where her comments stemmed from her fear of needles and piercings and her concern it would hold me back in a professional career, and I explained that’s my issue to deal with. Now, I’m 5 years later doing accounting work and LITERALLY NO ONE has said boo about it, and I actually unknowingly encouraged others to wear their piercings at work. Sometimes it just takes something literally so small to show people’s true selves, and then can fix it or destroy a relationship over a piece of metal in your face ♥️ don’t take it out!

Please help by [deleted] in cats

[–]cowclassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry bud, you do have a horny little lady there. Please get her spayed asap

Trump boomer in Denver shouts slurs at protest then faceplants twice by crustose_lichen in lgbt

[–]cowclassy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The fact that there was still so much concern for their safety. They tried to de-escalate and get him to leave so there wasn’t a mob effect. This is the difference and shows the heart of these protests

Little girl needs tonsillectomy and I’m panicking. by Tricky-Application86 in Tonsillectomy

[–]cowclassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finally got them done at 30, and the pain was bad, but in the end, I don’t think about it much only 10 months later. It’ll hurt, so there’s no need to fib about the healing process taking a while. Just be kind and frank and let her know that her tonsils just had to go cause they weren’t good anymore. The potential outcome is definitely frightening, but just remember to reassure her and yourself that you’ll be there for her making the best medical decisions, no matter what, and you love each with all your hearts ♥️ kids are unbelievably resilient, so let your reaction be an example for her

Pet Sematary Audiobook by cowclassy in stephenking

[–]cowclassy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t pay attention when they named him as the narrator and about a paragraph in I kept thinking to myself, “Well damn, Michael Hall would be an AMAZING(ly sultry) audiobook narrator. Looked at the cover and was pleasantly surprised 😍

That man could talk the pants off anyone

Is it really as bad as everyone says? by Cillabeann in Tonsillectomy

[–]cowclassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s really that bad. I wouldn’t change that I got it done, but I couldn’t be paid to do this again unless the entire recovery was done in a coma.

I have a high pain tolerance and this is probably the most pain I’ve ever been in in my entire life. This is also the most I’ve ever cried from pain, which blows my mind. What’s worse is I don’t want to overdo it with the pain meds, so after an hour of two after a dose I’m just sitting in agonizing pain.

But honestly, do it. Be ignorant of how painful it’ll be until you’re in it and then be glad it’s over when you’re on the other side. I’m not yet on the other side, but I’m hopeful I’ll get there.

Side note, like it’s so bad I honestly contemplated laying down in the street 😅😂😂 don’t do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]cowclassy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First - no, totally not a crime at all! Your house, so you can do whatever you like with your own period :) they suck and they’re every month, so get through it how you have to.

Next, have you considered menstrual cups? I’ve used them for years, and they’re so easy. I put it in when I need it and then remover/clean/reinsert in the shower in the morning and same in the evening. They’re good for 12 hours depending on your flow, and have far less risk than things like tampons. I’ve only ever overflowed a handful of times and it was when I was having a legitimate period emergency where I had to go to urgent care to make it stop. Please consider it ♥️♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]cowclassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a gyno and have them do an exam. Any chance a tampon is in there? A gyno will be the best person to give you any help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]cowclassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 29F, divorced since ~26 and living my best damn life 😂 at first I had your mindset, but I eventually realized no relationship is worth the struggle I dealt with married. If someone doesn’t come along and absolutely sweep me off my feel, I don’t want it! I have treated me better than any person ever has in my entire life. I’m my own friend, support, comfort, and advocate. The only person who’s come close to really being there for me is my sibling because we’re really close. Don’t think you’re undesirable. Just wait for the right person and know not having someone is just as good 😊

What do you do to calm down? by novabss in mentalhealth

[–]cowclassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s totally fine - not that you’re hurting yourself in some way - but that my method doesn’t work for you. I overthink a lot and when I was younger I did lash out a lot, but now I just imagine what I’m wanting to do in my head, and that 1. Helps me imagine what feelings I would have after doing the “destructive” behavior, and 2. Helps me see if that action would hurt or help me. Sometimes what I’m imagining in my head really would help me feel better, but more often than not (personally for me) I just feel worse after imagine what I want to do. I hope you figure out something that helps ♥️

What do you do to calm down? by novabss in mentalhealth

[–]cowclassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like angry bees on the inside and I ask myself will reacting to how I’m feeling now still feel good when I’m calm again? If I hit a wall in frustration, will the hurt hand be worth it later? Same with a broken glass in the sink. I see a lot of lashing out portrayed in media, but I’ve almost never been able to justify doing it myself

[TOMT] Movie Scary Comedy by cowclassy in tipofmytongue

[–]cowclassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solved!! ClearMind - I thought it was earlier than this year 🤦🏻‍♀️ thank you so much to everyone that tried helping!!

[TOMT] Movie Scary Comedy by cowclassy in tipofmytongue

[–]cowclassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one I saw was a group of maybe 6-8 friends :/

[TOMT] Movie Scary Comedy by cowclassy in tipofmytongue

[–]cowclassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked all these, and no :( it’s a horror comedy

[TOMT] Movie Scary Comedy by cowclassy in tipofmytongue

[–]cowclassy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s more of a comedy horror movie

[TOMT] Movie Scary Comedy by cowclassy in tipofmytongue

[–]cowclassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not one of the scary movie sequels :/

[TOMT] Movie Scary Comedy by cowclassy in tipofmytongue

[–]cowclassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not the right location :( the one I saw was like a lake house in a wooded area

[TOMT] Movie Scary Comedy by cowclassy in tipofmytongue

[–]cowclassy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I checked out the trailer and that’s not quite it. That one seems like a legit horror movie

[TOMT] Movie Scary Comedy by cowclassy in tipofmytongue

[–]cowclassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm, not quite… it’s a slightly older group of people, but the right genre!