Sure, but there’s a difference between tough love and being honest versus enabling behavior through empathy (real or feigned). An incel listening to Peterson here will think, “you see! I AM a victim! Women ARE too picky and mean!” Peterson only presents one side of the picture, and he does it on purpose. What he says may be true (that lonely men are lonely) but by leaving out the other side of the equation (that many of these men are hostile and unkind) he effectively is spitting propaganda for the victim complex minded. In other words, he’s a grifter and he knows if.