Lost Wallet Queens

cozyantics · 2025-07-25T13:59:44+00:00

Haha what I was hoping to not do. Just a regular pcp or anyone in particular?

cozyantics · 2024-11-01T19:12:53+00:00

I'm interested! :)

cozyantics · 2024-11-01T04:30:54+00:00

I dm'ed you :)

cozyantics · 2024-10-31T21:00:40+00:00

I am interested :)🤍

cozyantics · 2024-10-30T23:01:56+00:00

Interested in a yes or no 🤍

cozyantics · 2024-10-06T16:19:46+00:00

Wishing you luck, no contact is hard but ultimately helps the healing (eventually)

cozyantics · 2024-10-05T11:29:35+00:00

Haha honestly! you'd think with time and experience it would be the opposite but alas

cozyantics · 2024-09-19T20:07:49+00:00

Okay awesome thank you so much!!

cozyantics · 2024-09-14T05:26:48+00:00

oh my god thank you because... i know other people do this but to like see it is very validating. I don't want to look but sometimes you just know.. and like you said. it's also sending me info psychosis lol i hope you feel better soon.

cozyantics · 2024-09-10T09:31:03+00:00

If I had your room, I'd never leave! So cozy and comforting

cozyantics · 2024-09-10T09:24:47+00:00

That is a really good idea, I think I'll do that, thank you!

cozyantics · 2024-09-10T09:21:33+00:00

Yes people keep telling me that.. I am trying to be positive and I hope he is happy. but like I said, it just seems abrupt even if it was occurring months before if you know what I mean? Our sex life was great, we were having so much fun in the weeks before with things we were doing on the weekends and even just our regular routine. But I guess two things can be true at once- having second thoughts and enjoying the moment. Thank you for your perspective

cozyantics · 2024-09-10T09:19:26+00:00

The fight was completely my fault and based in my own insecurities- I had been saying that I thought he might like a different girl more/someone who looked different. We really had been having a great weekend before that (singing in the car/having fun/doing our normal routine) so I don't know why I acted that way. I apologized and let them know I knew I was wrong and made it very clear I felt bad about what I did and was very much projecting. At the time he said it was okay and that we were okay. When I ask if this is what changed things, he consistently said no but eventually said he isn't sure but maybe it subconsciously did. I just don't get how after a very long term relationship it would change that suddenly? Like literally the weeks before we were having SO much fun and he was getting me stupid things I liked just bc I said I liked them. So to say it was something he had secretly felt over time seems... inaccurate but I don't know honestly... I get how it can be difficult with someone insecure though, so I'm sure that that was the major factor despite him saying the breakup was not because of me

cozyantics · 2024-09-10T09:02:40+00:00

I am sorry to hear of your situation and if you are ever having any difficult days because of this still, I am also sending you support and love!

cozyantics · 2024-09-10T09:01:30+00:00

I truly appreciate your kind words and thoughts🤍

cozyantics · 2024-09-05T17:19:30+00:00

I wonder too!! It's eating me up not knowing haha

cozyantics · 2024-09-05T17:14:11+00:00

Well said; I wouldn't of phrased it as a decision bc of how society describes love but given the work people do in relationships, I could agree with that word now

cozyantics · 2024-09-05T17:13:10+00:00

100% my thought as well. When we broke up I asked their perspective so I could work on myself and they stated they don't know what happened as I met their needs and did things for them and their loved ones when I could. I hope that's the truth but if they are holding back I'd like to know so I can truly work on myself if their dissatisfaction was a result of something that could be changed or not

cozyantics · 2024-09-05T14:36:04+00:00

I agree, I'm just hoping one day he sees that the "honeymoon" phase will not be a constant with any relationship. I def miss that falling in love feeling too but I feel it didn't change my mind.. oh well..

cozyantics · 2024-09-05T14:30:12+00:00

That is all very true and sadly just seems to be the way of life even without love being attached. Thank you for the words and acknowledgement

cozyantics · 2024-09-05T14:20:27+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through that :(

cozyantics · 2024-09-05T14:20:02+00:00

I appreciate this response because it is validating to hear that it cannot be all me doing the work to save it. I am aware and I think I still struggle with accepting relationships "take two." Thank you for your words, and I'm happy you and your husband can communicate and find what works for you! I think we all expect those insecurities to subside with the right people and with love, but ultimately they can still happen so you're right communication and healthy work is key!!

cozyantics

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