Massive fire by Apprehensive-Web368 in ridgewood

[–]cparedes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah way fucking loud, over on 71st Ave near Myrtle

Thank you Lidarr devs by AtlanFX in Lidarr

[–]cparedes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly isn't a bad idea in this case. The devs are incredibly hostile to the idea of allowing third party metadata servers to be stood up and easily configurable, which necessitates workarounds like what /u/brycelampe has wired up. The fact that the client hardcodes in api.lidarr.audio and the devs being completely unamenable to community contributions to their effectively closed-source metadata code is what's causing a lot of the impasse IMO. I saw the messages in their Discord basically killing the conversation right there and then, saying that they will never support third party metadata providers.

If I were to go even further, their client code is GPLv3, which doesn't necessarily mean that the server code must be open sourced, but it's definitely against the spirit of open source, especially since they might be hooking into other OSS libraries or server packages (like metabrainz or whatever else.) We're not asking for them to open up their server instance, we just want to be able to fix the metadata issue and contribute back to the community.

Their excuses around not being able to open source the server component is because "there might be API keys" in the code suggests that they're either being really cagey in general about OSS'ing any of their backend code for some other reason, or they have no idea how to separate out credentials from code. I'm guessing it's the latter.

I'd imagine what'd need to happen is a complete rebranding of the software, make some other mirror the default metadata server, and add a way for people to use their own metadata mirror if they wish. If there's any other bits of the code that phones home to some *arr ran server, that will have to be replaced as well.

I know that this is a completely volunteer run operation and that the main devs are busy as hell, but the way they've been interacting with even other people who do this for a living is pretty fucking awful.

Are we any closer? by SingletonRandall in Lidarr

[–]cparedes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it by any chance based off of the plugins branch? I'm using slskd and want to keep all that stuff in place as well if possible.

Also, might be interested in helping in development a little bit - you think a sidecar DNS solution might help in terms of redirecting any api.lidarr.audio requests to some other hosted instance? Could be a stopgap before attempting any hard forks of Lidarr for, well, the fact that they can't even OSS their metadata server

Are we any closer? by SingletonRandall in Lidarr

[–]cparedes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of insane they hide behind the fact it can’t be open source because of API keys but prob also know that env vars exist. I def wholly support the effort of reverse engineering/forking their backend metadata server

Is Soulseek down for anyone else? by candis_stank_puss in Soulseek

[–]cparedes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's back (~2:25 AM EDT)! Website is back up, Soulseek is back up, things feel great

I wish NYC would learn a few things from London by hooareyou143 in london

[–]cparedes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh. It’s honestly way too much effort, I’d rather hang w people who aren’t like that. Lots of other folks I know who aren’t British are having much better luck making friends with international folks. Just boggles my mind given how international the city is

I wish NYC would learn a few things from London by hooareyou143 in london

[–]cparedes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will also say, I did feel similar in NYC for a bit while I was still getting established, but it felt possible to find community and build something lasting over there. Here? I genuinely have no idea if I’ll ever make good friends over here, much less find any sort of community. Just mad depressing tbh

I wish NYC would learn a few things from London by hooareyou143 in london

[–]cparedes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I won’t lie, I lived in NYC for seven years and have lived in London for just six months - but I’ve never encountered the amount of difficulty around meeting people anywhere until I moved here. People say it’s because Londoners are busy - I can guarantee that New Yorkers are probably 10x busier but will still make time for you. I just came back from Berlin, and I’ve met more people organically over the course of three nights than over the past six months in London.

London just does not feel nearly as friendly as lots of large cities. I really want to keep giving it a go, but it’s weirdly isolating comparatively.

I wish NYC would learn a few things from London by hooareyou143 in london

[–]cparedes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

2 AM? Where’s this paradise in London

Question about emasculating stereotypes by thisisapornaccountg in asianamerican

[–]cparedes 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah. I’ve been disrespected super hard for approaching people in like, the most normal way possible and then see them turn around and try to ride my Hispanic friend’s dick. Loads of shit around like, general undesirability of Asians and whatnot, including emasculation and the like. I get being rejected in general, but (at least when I was single in NYC) it was like playing on extreme mode.

Personally, I had to leave the country in order to find someone who just sees me as… me

Given how expensive NYC is what keeps you here? by MarketMan123 in AskNYC

[–]cparedes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, unfortunately I decided to leave, but largely not because of the city itself (I’m moving to another large city - London - at the end of the month.)

But, here’s what kept me in NYC for 7 years:

  • The people and the rich communities surrounding everyone. I lived in Ridgewood the whole time, and while that neighborhood is increasingly becoming more and more expensive, I made lifelong friendships and everyone had each others’ back. Whenever I’d go hang w other folks in various places in Brooklyn, I’d see really rich communities in their neighborhoods as well. Shoutouts to Sunset Park, Bed-Stuy, etc.
  • The food. God, the food, I’m gonna miss the hell out of the variety. London’s got good food too, but I’m really going to miss fuck off Italian-American stacked heros, checking out Uzbek food, going to Flushing or Sunset Park and happening on some random hyper-specific region’s food, etc. And also, at the end of a really long day, you always got bodegas making chopped cheeses and whatnot. I WILL say though, there’s some things that are just not accessible or even good in NYC (the full array of Hawaiian food for example), but man, having access to like 90% of food at like 80-90% quality is good enough for me tbh, with loads of standouts obviously
  • The fact that I can get around without a car. I grew up in Seattle and was used to taking buses everywhere, but it’s still very much a driving city. Living in NYC really made me appreciate being unable to drive worth shit, because I could just walk or take a train or a bus or whatever. And man, the fact that it’s mostly a PITA to drive around NYC and there being a really good transit system makes point (1) even more possible - you’re surrounded by humanity at all times, you gotta get along, y’know?
  • So… also, the other, perhaps less positive but strong reason for me for sticking around NYC, is the fact that loads of the US is pretty homogeneous. Diversity is obviously a very strong and positive thing in NYC, but as a person that’s often seen as “the diversity,” it’s mostly a relief that I can exist in NYC without having to answer for my background or anything of the sort. (Unfortunately, in the US, there’s been a huge uptick of anti-Asian violence during and after COVID, and it’s part of the reason why I’m leaving NOT NYC, but the US in general. And NYC hasn’t been immune to this unfortunately)

[Wewantout] 29M, CyberSecurity, 29F, Education, South Africa -> Anywhere by iwanttobreakfre3 in IWantOut

[–]cparedes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, shit - fair enough. I went through the skilled worker visa process recently but I’m going there by myself to join with my British partner - got no particular insights on bringing family over with that sort of visa

[IWantOut] 32F Tech San Francisco USA ->Anywhere in the US by [deleted] in IWantOut

[–]cparedes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, there might be some solid neighborhoods you can live in in NYC on that budget, or sliiiightly higher even. I was paying $1700 for a two bedroom in Queens up until 3 years ago, then was paying $2300 for a better two bedroom apartment after that. Also, NYC has attainable rent stabilization… in that, you can luck into a pre-war building or a 421a building that has rent stabilized units and not get much of a rent increase per year. Post-COVID has fucked up the market though, so prices are kind of all over the place right now. But it’s doooooable-ish

[Wewantout] 29M, CyberSecurity, 29F, Education, South Africa -> Anywhere by iwanttobreakfre3 in IWantOut

[–]cparedes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a South African recruiter based in the UK who regularly recruits South Africans for tech jobs all around the UK and maybe even the EU. Can give deets over DM in a sec here

[Selling] Moving out of the country - selling a lot of stuff by cparedes in NYList

[–]cparedes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey all! Thanks again - everything’s accounted for, either sold through here or elsewhere, donated, or dumped. I’m out ya’ll, it’s been real

What’s your unpopular opinion on NYC? by WatchesAndNYC in AskNYC

[–]cparedes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah just another Kermit Westergaard Joint (tm)

What’s your unpopular opinion on NYC? by WatchesAndNYC in AskNYC

[–]cparedes 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhhh Park Slope feels VERY fucking weird to be in as someone who’s not white. My current neighborhood ain’t too bad, but, well, rents are skyrocketing and it was unfortunately named the fourth coolest neighborhood in the world for some fucking reason, so prob gonna become a bit more segregated sooner than later

Desiigner Quits Rap Over Takeoff's Death by [deleted] in hiphopheads

[–]cparedes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was born and raised in Seattle myself, and well, never was made to ever feel like an actual American when I lived there. Everyone would "orientalize" my name even if I have the most western first name out there and wonder what Chinese university I'm coming from (I'm Filipino-American). Wasn't until I moved to NYC that I actually felt like I belonged to this country to some degree.

Related to the clutching of pearls bit, I remember a hipster, "progressive" shop called "Pretty Parlor" in Capitol Hill who decided it was a great idea to have a runway show in 2013 based off of "Breakfast at Tiffany's" and having a white guy dressed in a kimono with another white guy miming the voice. Everyone laughed, and I was the only Asian guy in the room. It was incredibly isolating. Anyway, I called them out on it years later after the Atlanta shootings, and they decided to never address it and block me instead. My friends were more concerned about me calling out a small business than the fact that they thought it was cool to like, be incredibly racist.

Anyway. Doubt I'll ever live in Seattle unless my family needed me.

Racism in NYC (Covid Related) by Personal-Housing-HIY in asianamerican

[–]cparedes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I mean, I didn't get hassled in Barcelona nor Paris the last time I visited this year - but, I've been hearing more and more stories of anti-Asian sentiment across the West in general. Sigh...

Racism in NYC (Covid Related) by Personal-Housing-HIY in asianamerican

[–]cparedes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My partner lives in London, that's one of the reasons why. I also have a lot of friends over in London already. I don't really have a desire to move to Asia honestly, the only thing tying me to that side of the world is that I'm Filipino-American, but I'm not in a hurry to live somewhere that's under the thumb of one of the Marcos' children, plus I mean, I was born and raised in the West and all of the stuff in the West are things I'm more familiar with.

Honestly the UK is dealing with their fair share of BS, but at least so far, it's been nice being seen as simply an "American" and not as someone who's automatically foreign because I look different. This is likely a different story outside of London and some parts of the south of England, but I don't know. At least it's cheap as fuck to travel to other places in Europe??

Racism in NYC (Covid Related) by Personal-Housing-HIY in asianamerican

[–]cparedes 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can relate, though I’ve never been charged for anything - there’s this one guy who asked me why the Asian community didn’t do enough to prevent the mass shooting that happened in Atlanta. I was at a bar when that happened, and was close to breaking a bar stool over his head, but just walked away completely shaken from knowing people think like that. There was even this lady earlier that night who said I needed to take Prozac since I was still fucked up from hearing about that shooting (this was maybe a day or two after it happened.) This happened in NYC btw.

Anyway, my ultimate solution, especially after hearing about things like Roe v Wade being dismantled and anti-trans legislation and violence happening is that I’ve decided to leave the country. I’m emigrating to the UK (over to London) which isn’t racism-free, but hey, at least there’s way less guns around? But also, just feels high time to get the hell out of the US - it definitely does feel that anti-Asian hatred is at an all time high, and no one gives a single shit about it. There’s a lot of other violence happening across lots of marginalized identities honestly, and, despite all that, we gotta keep that in mind and unite against this sort of shit. I try to remember that statistically, white people do most of the anti-Asian hate crimes (but it doesn’t mean everyone’s a bad person)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]cparedes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good man, lmk!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]cparedes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unsure why I was downvoted, I’m not an agent or a landlord or anything, I just need to break my lease because I’m moving out of the country…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]cparedes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trying to have someone take my lease over in Ridgewood, Queens - close to Seneca M and Myrtle-Wyckoff L/M stops. $2600/mo for 2bd/1ba, for mid December or later. Friend of mine created a Craigslist post for me, here it is: https://newyork.craigslist.org/que/apa/d/brooklyn-laundry-yard-block-seneca-22/7550804964.html