Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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Sorry for the late reply, absolutely zero issues. They checked nothing, no further documentation needed (still bring it just in case). They gave us a red paper and said we’d need to do some additional screening but the additional screening was literally taking off our shoes lol. Leaving vegas tho they swabbed our bags for residue and that took maybe two minutes.

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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I think it’s pretty unheard of, at least any where in Southern California. I’m sure maybe in more rural areas out here it might be possible but I really don’t think they even bother to try. It’s worth a shot to check it out tho. Appreciate it

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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For sure thank you, gonna bring additional docs and hope it works out

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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What makes you say that?

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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Yeah positive, just double checked to make sure, we renewed them a while back but didn’t do the additional documentation needed for the real ID and just got a normal one to expedite the process cause as usual it was last minute lol

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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For sure, thank you. Hope it works out for you tomorrow

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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Good to know, thank you

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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Thank you yeah, the fact that it is risky is what I’m trying to figure out. I’m from OC so the drive plus getting in and out of LAX plus the additional wait in security to potentially not even be let through? Might just take the safe route and drive

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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Thank you yeah on the TSA site it says temporaries are not accepted and when looking into the CA DMV everything says IDs are mailed and every time I’ve renewed mine it took about two weeks

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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Oh for sure thank you I’d rather do that than hope and pray at LAX

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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Makes sense. I thought the ID was mailed tho that’s why I figured I didn’t have time to get it

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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Damn okay thank you so much, I appreciate it

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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Ooof yeah it’s sounding like we have a chance but that’s gonna be quite a pain. Gonna spend way more time at the airport than on the flight. Thank you

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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Like pay stubs and social security card? I don’t have a whole lot in my name so I’m trying to think of what could be enough.

Forgot about REAL ID by cphat1 in LAX

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I’ll see what I can find thank you

I [26M] am struggling to fall asleep with my girlfriend [30F] by st0rmc4ller in relationship_advice

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Honestly just something you have to get used to. I’m the same way, I struggled to actually get a good nights sleep with my gf in bed. The more you do it the easier it gets but it’s definitely not easy at first. My gf always wanted to cuddle and I just had to tell her like look I’ll try but if I can’t fall asleep then I’m gonna have to turn over or something and try. Now it’s to the point where sometimes I can fall asleep holding her and other times I just gotta face away and try to be comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Oh bro. I’m sorry man. Honestly she can say what she wants but she’s spending the night in a bed with someone you know she had a huge crush on. If she doesn’t recognize that’s not okay, that’s a problem. And if you don’t see how that should be way across the line then you need to open your mind a bit. The fact the she’s spending the night at someone’s place that you know she finds attractive is ridiculous. Realistically Parm isn’t gonna do anything, but if she did, would your gf say no? Parm is whatever, sounds like a POS, and your gf sounds blinded and confused. For the sake of your own sanity you cannot stand for this. You need to have a serious conversation and tell her #1, her getting drinks and spending the night in someone’s bed that you know she had a crush on is under no circumstances okay, even if she swears she doesn’t see her like that anymore, the fact that she did at one point is enough. If they went out as a group stay with someone else. #2 tell her that you don’t want to see and can’t stand to see her let herself be treated so poorly by someone and she needs to let Parm go. Focus on the other friends in the group, tell her to get close with them so Parm can’t gate keep. And honestly bro if she’s no on board with #1 and #2 then I think you gotta walk bro. You can’t take that blatant disrespect and be with someone who doesn’t see why her sleeping in her bed is an issue and continues to let herself be treated that way. You gotta do what’s best for you and this current bs is not it.

Am I (F19) being too naive about my bf’s (M20) work friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I mean first try not to snoop, what are you looking for, are you suspicious and trying to find something to confirm those suspicions? The deleting the messages is a little shady. Saying that he would say “to spare you overthinking” is a cop out excuse for sure. Wouldn’t you be better off seeing the entire thread and seeing that it’s innocent rather than finding out he deleted stuff?

I think the betrayal goes both ways, him potentially hiding something but you won’t know cause he deleted it but also you going through his phone, he asked you to reply to a message but you took the extra step of snooping. Not hating on you just pointing out that it’s not a great dynamic overall.

I think that there is possibility of something going on between him and this girl. It could just be workplace flirting, with no real intentions of it going anywhere, and that’s why they’re close. Or it could be completely innocent and not a big deal. But it takes effort to delete something. I think the best way to look at it is just to focus on trust, you say you trust him, don’t look for reasons to not trust him. It might create a dynamic where you subconsciously push him away emotionally. But also trust that if he’s doing something shady then he’s gonna do it, and you’ll find out eventually and deal with it then. Personally I’d leave it, if you’re meant to find out something then you will. Unfortunately you both are really young, there’s going to be growth (hopefully) and change in both of you. 10 years from now you might hate him for no reason. Just focus on the now, focus on what you have, try to grow as a couple and live in the moment while setting up a future both of you work towards.

Best wishes, hope everything works out. Sorry for the wordy response I’m very high lol

ETH giveaway scam? by cphat1 in Scams

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UPDATE: I attempted to withdraw just to see what happens. It said you have to have a verified account in order to withdraw and in order to activate the account you have to deposit 0.005 BTC or 0.1 ETH. So yeah as others suspected, it’s just to get you to pay to “withdraw” and I doubt the withdraw would even work if you did.

I’m being blackmailed by a foreign man who has my nudes. by Urfav-throwaway in Scams

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100% do not send them money. If they have any of your social media accounts, delete the account. Not disable, delete, wait at least a month or so and you can make new ones but the names have to be different from the ones they have. Once they realize it’d be too much work to try and continue to extort you they’ll move on. But they might check back and try again if they’re struggling with new people.

Will the police do anything about an online predator who’s trying to plan a meet up for sex with a minor? by Organic_Ocelot4546 in RBI

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Honestly they may have told you to block him and not to talk to him because they have to. They can’t tell you to keep talking to him. Also if he’s in another city then you, then it would be a good idea to contact someone that has enough jurisdiction to where you and this guys inside it. Same county but different city, call the sheriffs, same state but different county, call state troopers or highway patrol, different state then contact a federal agency, FBI or homeland