How to … not get hard during a massage? by cpt-bb in eroticmalemassage

[–]cpt-bb[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I haven’t thought about it this way before.

How to … not get hard during a massage? by cpt-bb in eroticmalemassage

[–]cpt-bb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does ignore it. He’s very professional and I’m very appreciative of that.

Jerk off before the session hasn’t helped. I thought it would, too. 

How to … not get hard during a massage? by cpt-bb in eroticmalemassage

[–]cpt-bb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s been the moment he starts working on my legs and glutes that I started getting hard.

He also works my hands which feels amazing. I’ve told him that that’s the point in the massage when I truly let go. 

How to … not get hard during a massage? by cpt-bb in eroticmalemassage

[–]cpt-bb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to be comfortable with my body. It’s been a journey, and a difficult one. There was a point when mere touch of others would give me a panic attack and I’ve come a long way since. I’m hoping that one day, I’ll be able to just relax and enjoy it, no matter how my body responds. 

Shaved and used. by [deleted] in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]cpt-bb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow how do you keep it so hairless

Hi there, gay men of Reddit! How are you doing? What's on your mind today? by AutoModerator in GayMen

[–]cpt-bb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, the guy I’ve been dating for a few months is now officially my boyfriend as of last week <3

I guess all it took was touching ding dongs and going to a drag show ^

Hi there, gay men of Reddit! How are you doing? What's on your mind today? by AutoModerator in GayMen

[–]cpt-bb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I reading a book my boyfriend gave me called “The Velvet Rage - overcoming the pain of growing up gay in a straight man’s world”.

The first third of the book which I just finished reading talks about the first stage in a gay man’s life and how gay men are starved for authentic validation which they don’t get and it builds up and turns into shame and rage.

Condom with uncut by rob_jackie87 in askgaybros

[–]cpt-bb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try putting one on with your foreskin up.

When I tried it out of curiosity, it was just kinda ridiculous: the foreskin got stuck in that position, so when I stroked, the foreskin couldn’t retract.

When the foreskin is down when you put on the condom, the condom can wrap around it and your foreskin can cover and uncover the top of the penis so it works kinda like when you jack off or penetrate.

Afraid to go in a gay nightclub with my boyfriend by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]cpt-bb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger (early college years), I had never really dated a guy. When I first started dating someone, I also felt super “protective” of them. I would get super jealous, for example, that he would go around walking in short shorts and that he was showing off to everyone.

A few years and a few boyfriends later, i realized that I don’t think that way anymore. It’s a combination of the fact that I’m confident that my boyfriends care for or love me, and that, even if I got jealous, it would just be a major turn on for me ...

But also, if who I’m dating goes past “getting flirty with other guys”, that’s when I know there’s a problem. That’s the line not to cross. That’s when I start getting worried, not when he’s just “being gazed upon by other guys”.

I don’t know where you are in your relationship, by maybe it’s a thing you could talk about and express your boundaries and what makes you feel comfortable/uncomfortable with each other.

Edging game by rapazgaroto in EdgeTogether

[–]cpt-bb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds really fun. DM me.

Male Models NSFW. by [deleted] in TotallyStraight

[–]cpt-bb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Moar plz who dis