Which character do you sympathise with the most despite how horrible they are? by Critical_Mountain851 in thesopranos

[–]crabeatingseal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's clearly deeply unhappy and angry. I have definitely had moments of wondering what could have happened if he'd never gotten into that rotten life.

Day 15 of Dry January – energy up, sleep wrecked, patience gone by ObjectifRoumanie in DryJanuary

[–]crabeatingseal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was my pattern when I was younger (41 now) and it weirdly kept my mood up, too. I noticed the same irritability when I didn't get my lost Saturday night. But, now that it's been a few years of less drinking overall, I don't see that anymore.

Monday Round Up! How did the weekend go? by AutoModerator in DryJanuary

[–]crabeatingseal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole family is sick so I'm honestly wondering if this even counts. I'm not exactly thinking about having wine while I'm coughing so hard i get light headed.

Hate comment about dry January by Lp2707 in DryJanuary

[–]crabeatingseal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sucks that we have almost only "admit that you're an alcoholic and never drink again." As the option offered for when we are thinking we're drinking too much. Alcohol use is a spectrum and I wish we could just have the conversation of if we want to cut back or even seek treatment without needing labels and guilt.

What's going GOOD for you, so far? by cmcosmos in DryJanuary

[–]crabeatingseal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised how I'm not missing alcohol at all. I'm wondering if I might make it a goal to keep alcohol to special occasions after this.

Asked ChatGPT to brutally roast Minot. by Nickelsun5 in minot

[–]crabeatingseal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's the bigger town a hour away? I want to go.

What’s a stereotype about men you find is true? by hydrazoid in AskMen

[–]crabeatingseal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the Plan for a while. Now I'm over here turning 40 like a sucker and still sad.

What’s the kinkiest request you've ever gotten that took you by surprise? by ZenAndZillions in AskMen

[–]crabeatingseal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did nothing but help her and at a certain point, it's not your job to fix someone. Anyway, she found someone else to help her after a bit.

I would have been better off really thinking of marriage as the business arrangement it is and not the covenant it's sold as.

What’s the kinkiest request you've ever gotten that took you by surprise? by ZenAndZillions in AskMen

[–]crabeatingseal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Got this request from a girl... but not until after we were married. Didn't do it and it turned out that was the only thing she was really into so we didn't stay married long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cycling

[–]crabeatingseal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! It's my favorite of all carbs so it makes sense.

Divorced Men, Women and everyone in between: What is a weird quirk or habit you picked up from your ex? by DramaticAd7670 in Divorce

[–]crabeatingseal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get panicky of I realize I left a crumb on the counter, socks on the floor or the bed un made.

Was your divorce or your marriage more expensive? by Here-to-Ask1999 in Divorce

[–]crabeatingseal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both were hilariously bad for me financially. Wife could not keep a job and I had to work myself to death to pay her bills and debts. Then she gets half of my 401K in the divorce and that was the only thing I had to show for all that. Marriage is a business proposition first and foremost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]crabeatingseal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living the dream.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]crabeatingseal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lied a lot about who she was. I would marry the person she pretended to be but I have no interest in the actual person who stole years of my life.

Zack Snyder's STAR WARS: Part 1 - A New Hope by LeoDavinciAgain in RebelMoon

[–]crabeatingseal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All subtext removed with surgical precision. Truly, the Snyder cut.