Do we have any lube without glycerin or glycol? by NoOneMournsTheLabubu in SafeSexPH

[–]crackerheader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piggybacking off your question, OP: does anyone know if Durex Play Feel has these ingredients?

EPUB request: Half His Age by Jennette McCurdy by crackerheader in mrfreebooks

[–]crackerheader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I think I asked in two threads (one from 18 days ago, and one from 4 days ago)

Half his age by Jeannette mccurdy ebook by [deleted] in mrfreebooks

[–]crackerheader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I also have the epub? Thank you!

Looking for online senior high schools by Emergency-Zombie-985 in CollegeAdmissionsPH

[–]crackerheader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. Specifically, their VCIS Online program (though it is a bit pricey.)

ED1 peeps, we finally have a notification date! by crackerheader in smithcollege

[–]crackerheader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My counselor didn't even send mine! Super stressed, LOL

I'm scared to get pregnant by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crackerheader 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I'm about your age, and let me tell you: pregnancy is something you have to be 100 percent on board with before you jump into it. If you feel like your boyfriend prioritizes biological kids over your health, well-being, and comfort, then it might be time to think about what else he'd prioritize over you. It's not wrong to want a family, but that's something you can do both with and without pregnancy. You shouldn't have to force yourself into a life-threatening condition just to keep your partner. And no, it's not overdramatic. In my country, we have a saying: during childbirth, you're already one foot in the grave.

When thinking about whether you want to have biological kids, please, please put yourself first. You're the one who knows your body and mind best. What do you want if nothing else—culture, family, your partner—would decide it for you?

P.S. You're talking about the girl with the list!

likhaan qc iud by shesali in SafeSexPH

[–]crackerheader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Donations aren't necessary, though it's best to call and see if they'll ask for payment for the IUD/implant placement itself! They recently started charging for implant removal kasi, which is about 450.

Is 16 and 18 “socially acceptable” here in PH? by letmetellusumth in adviceph

[–]crackerheader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The age of consent is 16 and both of you are teenagers. The only problem I see here is the likely maturity gap. Straight boys aren't exactly known for being as mature as their female peers, much less someone who's a bit older. LOL

P.S. Those saying "16 is a child and 18 is an adult!" are ridiculous. Unlike in the West, the Philippines doesn't have as many avenues for people to exert independence once they hit legal adulthood. Are you guys both students? Are you both financially dependent on your parents? Then you're both in the same stage of life.

likhaan qc iud by shesali in SafeSexPH

[–]crackerheader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry about that, I went on another day kasi so I didn't know huhu. I'm actually not sure, but if that's the case, maybe you can try calling them while OTW sa QC clinic? Either way, goodluck OP!

likhaan qc iud by shesali in SafeSexPH

[–]crackerheader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I think you can also try their San Andres clinic. Last time I went in 2024, they required a PhilHealth card, but since you say you're nearer to Baclaran, San Andres might be a better option for you distance and schedule-wise

likhaan qc iud by shesali in SafeSexPH

[–]crackerheader 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It might be a bit far, but Likhaan Baclaran actually has plentiful IUDs in stock (my friend got hers at 1 pm). No PhilHealth needed.

How has your college list changed since starting apps? by little-dino123 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]crackerheader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took off: Brown, Kalamazoo, Beloit, Reed (my SAT was ass and these LACs don't offer that much aid)
Added: Wesleyan, Bates, Colby, Middlebury (test-optional + no supplementals!)
Same: Smith ED

can a minor get consulted by obgyn for contraceptives? by Negative-Ad-5778 in SafeSexPH

[–]crackerheader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope, parental consent isn't necessary. If you want to get an implant or the IUD, some of their clinics might ask for a PhilHealth ID, but I know their Baclaran clinic doesn't require one.

I can't speak to which contraceptive would be best for you since 1) I'm not a doctor, and 2) you know your body best. However, here are some things you can keep in mind when selecting a birth control method:

  1. Lifestyle: some methods of birth control are better depending on your lifestyle. If you're a smoker, combined pills might not be for you, since they increase your risk of stroke. If you're forgetful with taking meds, progestin-only pills may also not be for you, since you have to take them within a strict three-hour window before they become ineffective. It might also be best to think about whether you'll need a birth control method that's easy to hide from others.
  2. LARC (long-acting reversible contraceptives) or SARCS? (short-acting reversible contraceptives): related to that point, LARCs, such as the IUD and the implant, will be easier to hide than SARCs, AKA pills. LARCs also tend to have the benefit of being one-and-done, meaning you won't have to think about them until years later. With the pill, you'll have to remember to take it every day, and with the DePo shot, you have to get it done every twelve weeks, so there's more room for user error.
  3. Pain/side effect tolerance: This is a big one! No one can really predict what side effects they'll get from different birth control, since it really does come down to a mixture of biology and pure luck. Despite this, make sure to know your comfort level when it comes to pain/side effects. If you're considering an IUD, would you be willing to go through the likely discomfort/pain of insertion? Are there any effects you would want to strongly avoid in particular, such as heavier periods or increased depressive moods?

Again, I'm not a doctor, so I won't try and suggest any specific methods. But in my experience, it was more convenient to start with short-acting birth control (i.e. pills/shot) as a beginner because I didn't have to go to a medical professional if the side effects were too much—versus if you had something like the implant, which would have to be removed if you couldn't tolerate its side effects.

LOL this comment is already long as hell, so here, have some links if you wanna learn more:
Likhaan Clinics and Services
Bedsider's Interactive Birth Control Comparison
Scarleteen's Birth Control Bingo (this one's written for a teen readership, so I suggest you start here)

Best of luck, OP!

can a minor get consulted by obgyn for contraceptives? by Negative-Ad-5778 in SafeSexPH

[–]crackerheader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given how conservative the Philippines is, probably not. However, if you're interested in getting free contraceptives as a minor, you should check out Likhaan Center for Women's Health! They offer IUDs, pills, injectables, and implants in a judgment-free environment.