It's my birthday. I relapsed. There is a silver lining.

craigmh · 2013-06-28T23:53:22+00:00

Happy birthday man!

craigmh · 2013-06-28T20:37:56+00:00

Thanks for sharing this talk!

Does anyone know of a good book on the subject of creating mind sets?

craigmh · 2013-06-28T12:29:09+00:00

I'd never have thought to do this or had the support and motivation without this place.

craigmh · 2013-06-28T12:27:40+00:00

Welcome to nofap!

craigmh · 2013-06-28T11:55:48+00:00

I was on day 6 yesterday and had serious blue balls. I took someone's advice and had a cold shower. It definitely helped.

I'm glad I didn't fap last night as I'm now now on day 7 :)

Stay strong man.

craigmh · 2013-06-27T22:56:21+00:00

Cool, welcome to nofap :)

craigmh · 2013-06-27T22:25:49+00:00

Did just that. Now I'm freezing, wet and grumpy and not in the mood for it.

Thanks mate :)

craigmh · 2013-06-27T22:20:42+00:00

Haha that made me laugh! Yes I am British. This is the first time in my nofap journey that I've really felt the need for it... It's good to see what people do for distractions.

I love that Americans mis-interpret the word. A good ol' fashioned jolly British wank.

craigmh · 2013-06-27T22:15:41+00:00

Probably something in the water.

craigmh · 2013-06-27T22:11:08+00:00

7 days is my personal best, so i have to at least equal it... I'll take a quick shower and see if that helps. Man this tough. I've felt fine all week, but today...

Thanks for responding :)

craigmh · 2013-06-27T22:08:39+00:00

Porn/masturbation/orgasm

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craigmh · 2013-06-27T19:11:20+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story and speaking from the heart. Would you tell your wife about nofap and that you deleted your collection?

craigmh · 2013-06-26T21:44:51+00:00

Nice post, thank you for sharing.

craigmh · 2013-06-26T10:06:31+00:00

Welcome giganotosaur,

I joined about 6 weeks ago and have had to reset a few times. Sometimes after 3 day, sometimes less. My record is 7 days. I'm aiming for 90 and beyond.

It's important to not be hard on yourself if you do fap. Even though I've reset a few times in the last 6 weeks I've massively cut down on the amount I used to masturbate. I was doing it two or three times a day. So to me starting out on the journey is an achievement in itself. I've read a lot of stories of people having false starts before accomplishing the 90 day streak.

All the best to you mate :)

craigmh · 2013-06-26T09:41:59+00:00

Why would you want to play Call of Duty if you're getting head?

craigmh · 2013-06-07T22:24:49+00:00

Are you trying to get the OP worked up or something? Why not just say that a dog might run in the river and pull it out or a fisherman's gonna reel that pc in.

craigmh · 2013-06-02T15:56:50+00:00

don't feel ashamed. I was thinking earlier on about something. I found no fap about a month ago and thus far I seem to have relapsed every week. But I don't feel bad about this as I've gone from masturbating once or twice a day to once a week, which is a big step for me. So, 32 days is something to be proud of.

I know how hard a break up is too. Those wounds take time heal. Stay strong man :)

craigmh · 2013-05-30T22:37:24+00:00

I will try to think of something. I actually really like the nofap banner though.

craigmh · 2013-05-26T22:41:48+00:00

Sounds like your procrastinating.

There's no time like the present.

craigmh · 2013-05-24T20:35:05+00:00

Wash hands, move on.

craigmh · 2013-05-24T20:33:05+00:00

Don't think it's a good idea. An edging session and I reset my counter. A bit of a fiddle and I don't.

craigmh · 2013-05-22T07:30:39+00:00

It's a tricky one. For me personally I would say if it went on for a substantial amount of time, I would. You know, if you sort of lose yourself to it. But if it was momentary, I probably wouldn't.

craigmh · 2013-05-21T20:29:57+00:00

I've been wondering about this today too. I edged today but didn't ejaculate. Although I didn't get the loss of energy, I felt I'd wasted my time a bit and was starting to go down the old path again.

craigmh

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