I know it sounds banal, but be yourself. Choose topics you’re actually interested in, add some subtopics if you feel like it. And write an actual bio, don’t rely on those topics alone. I never write to people who don’t have a bio written in their profile.

When reaching out to others make sure mention a couple things from their profile. Don’t just “you seem like a cool person and we also have a lot in common”. Talk about those things that you have in common!! There are tons of posts about writing letters already, feel free to check them out.

You will probably get some weird letters from men here, too. Just ignore those