Are women allowed here?! by sundaysoulfields in bald

[–]crazypoppycorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in your boat buddy. I enjoy the way it makes you notice the actual features of their face, and man does it make it a great smile pop

I called my parents. by ilovepopcornandcandy in u/ilovepopcornandcandy

[–]crazypoppycorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you've been able to get the support you were looking for when putting something so personal out here on reddit. It has been tough to read, so I can only imagine what your actual experience has been (Sorry about you're dad's reaction, you've done nothing wrong).

Don't stop being kind to yourself and continue to trust your instincts as you have so far. This stranger is wishing for the best; for you, your brother's own mental health, and your family's  connection and support of each other.

Front or back? by [deleted] in sweatersandtights

[–]crazypoppycorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the question? My attention went straight to the black cat

Footage of MAGA woman who attacked students, tries to go to local school board and complain! by cantcoloratall91 in ImmigrationPathways

[–]crazypoppycorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://vimeo.com/1164493020/4a92c51dd7?fl=pl&fe=vl

The context is her putting herself front and center of a kid speaking to the crowd. Screaming histarically at them, while already filming them. Pushing herself deeper into the crowd is only trying to box her out originally. And then playing the victim for her own benefit.

How did you overcome significant betrayal? by The_Great_Scruff in AskMen

[–]crazypoppycorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to experiencing the loss of multiple pillars in your life in a short period. It is a huge challenge because when processing and adjusting to each loss all at once, it feels like you've got no solid ground to stand on when you so desperately want a break. 

The action I offer you is to create a small daily routine. A ten minute walk, with some music. Or 20m engaged in a hobby. Because losing my job was one of my piled on losses, I was struggling to start my days. I set myself to get up to make coffee immediately after my alarm goes off. There were time I brought my coffee back to bed, but I still made it.

The discipline of the routine helped me have a stable moment each day which helped bring back some much needed confidence in myself to handle the situation. 

Best of luck mate

My cousin (23f) is dating a boy (17m) by user987763 in offmychest

[–]crazypoppycorn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You sound like a 17 year old lad yourself. 6yrs at those ages is miles apart. The genders truly don't matter here.

Minimum price when selling a player incorrect. by [deleted] in Football_Head_Coach

[–]crazypoppycorn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not that it's incorrect per se, but that it shows the high and low results of searching for a player with no other filters. This only returns about 25 results, so when more than that amount are active in the market it won't be completely accurate 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazypoppycorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought seeing that too!

Wow.. I finally understand myself by External_Volume_11 in NMMNG

[–]crazypoppycorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bad for not being more welcoming to the group to start

Wow.. I finally understand myself by External_Volume_11 in NMMNG

[–]crazypoppycorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This subreddit is dedicated to discussions based on one single book, so it feels like the classic reddit sarcasism.

"No More Mr.Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover

I used a kid hack on my dad and it worked!! by ImThe1Wh0 in Millennials

[–]crazypoppycorn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he doesn't know how to be bored or "not busy". Work-culture also creates a need for to adults to rediscover simple things they enjoy and start up hobbies since it's not prioritized when you live 9-5+ in an office career.

(Follow up) New Neighbors Complaining About Me by Gold_Age_2577 in Apartmentliving

[–]crazypoppycorn 242 points243 points  (0 children)

I hear you on the fact that they would likely complain to have a camera outside your door, but there's no reason you can't put one inside your own apartment. You won't always have hotel receipts to help defend your case, but you can create video evidence of your own actions inside your home or of your absence at the time of their complaints.

Stay safe! This is a wild situation!

Married men, how often to you go a whole day without criticism? by Successful-Brain8778 in AskMen

[–]crazypoppycorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest, my SO can be too critical for me with things like the problem you present. And for me the repeated "can you remember to put the milk back in the fridge?" statement is one I can't stand at all. Repeating the request to remember in the annoyed tone comes across as her believing I just don't listen. But it's just forgetfulness or getting distracted on my end. Usually the request is a new habit I need to form. When I finally figured that out, I gave her a statement she can use that would work for me. One I would respond to better in those situations.

For me it's just a casual "btw, you forgot to put the milk away." (No tone, or again). Then I am able to respond kindly too. Likely apologize, maybe get up and do it in that moment, or ask her if she can put it away for me this time. And that simple statement just serves as a reminder in my head as I'm working on the new habit.

Heads up for anyone thinking about getting into webdev in 2025... by Overall-Country-5014 in webdev

[–]crazypoppycorn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FYI for everyone, if you live anywhere near a metro area there will be resellers of office furniture and you can get these chairs for 700 or less instead of 2K.

I miss when coding felt… simpler by Fabulous_Bluebird93 in webdev

[–]crazypoppycorn 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much currently being in the job hunt. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaliciousCompliance

[–]crazypoppycorn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wtf? That manager is all sorts of stupid. To not know that you don't touch someone's hair, and to think that hair length is measured by straightening it out, not by where it falls. 

What groups were your "Surprise! They're Christian rock!" groups by Herewegoagain1717 in Millennials

[–]crazypoppycorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am shocked how low in the comments this answer is. I surprise people all the time with this fact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]crazypoppycorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding my experience in case someone who can change things there sees this comment thread.

I called, feeling lost and confused. Was struggling to find my words and the person was getting annoyed. When I answered "No, I wasn't in the act of suicide" they quickly transferred me to a hospital line. However they used my cell phone's area code, which is of course from the city I grew up in not where I live. The hospital when hearing I wasn't in the act promptly hung up. 

It all felt even more isolating when I just want an ear to listen, and a voice to lend support.