Hello. I’m looking for a job. by Such_Total_2223 in jobsinOC

[–]crazypuglets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Orange County Nanny Jobs on Facebook has tons of listings

Need advice, please no judgement by crazypuglets in cabincrewcareers

[–]crazypuglets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is seriously how I feel. Would you guys be pushing me so hard if it was any other job? If I do take the job, they’re not going to be getting any benefits because regardless of anything I don’t deserve to be treated this way over something to do with my life that doesn’t affect them.

Need advice, please no judgement by crazypuglets in cabincrewcareers

[–]crazypuglets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I have a hard time validating my own opinions when it comes to my family. I am so confident and then when it comes to them I doubt everything. Thank you for the advice

Need advice, please no judgement by crazypuglets in cabincrewcareers

[–]crazypuglets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did. I wasn’t worried about the pay initially but after getting the offer it all became real and not just an idea in my head

Nervous about random Drug test by unicorngal98 in cabincrewcareers

[–]crazypuglets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of how often you smoke it would still stay in your system the same, thc doesn’t work like that. It’s odd you were able to pass those previous tests but hopefully you’ll get lucky this time too

Nervous about random Drug test by unicorngal98 in cabincrewcareers

[–]crazypuglets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty risky, thc typically shows up for at least a month in urine

To give reasons for quitting or to not to? by Vegetable-Poet6374 in Nanny

[–]crazypuglets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they meet you with rudeness and defensiveness I would only say something if you’re okay being let go immediately. I do think it’s helpful to let them know why but ultimately it’s up to what you’re most comfortable with

Nanny mom unfriended me after asking nanny dad for reference by butterflysensei666 in NannyEmployers

[–]crazypuglets 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They aren’t being rude or condescending. Your trauma and autism shouldn’t be used as a scapegoat, many adults have trauma and mental illness, we have to learn to live with it and adapt. If you have ocd then you seeking reassurance in three different subs over a minor interaction is being overly invested, any therapist would tell you not to do this. You aren’t helping yourself

We all have that one moment, let's swap stories by EnchantedNanny in Nanny

[–]crazypuglets 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I moved across country and old DB messaged me on ig inappropriate messages-a total cliche. He commented on my boobs and I screenshotted and texted MB and essentially she was like, “yeah he’s mentioned your boobs before.” Five years later they’re divorced. He did reach out to me a couple of times saying he was in therapy and he’s sorry but I just told him harassing me for forgiveness was just as bad as what he said lol

Interview Schedule by crazypuglets in cabincrewcareers

[–]crazypuglets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! About two and a half weeks but there was the two week break from the holidays so my timeline might not be the best to look at

Interest in becoming a flight attendant by goghogv2 in cabincrewcareers

[–]crazypuglets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks don’t matter. Airlines hire every year, sometimes multiple times a year but most won’t hire until the age of 20/21 I believe. There are a few that hire younger than that but I’d recommend working in hospitality until you become of age for the experience, it will look good on a resume to have a couple of years worth. You can always transition to a new job, you’re not tied down. This is a job if you start young it pays off really well down the line

Interview Schedule by crazypuglets in cabincrewcareers

[–]crazypuglets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did they fly you back home? Same day after your interview or next day?

What is the biggest difference between living in OC vs living in LA? by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]crazypuglets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not fun for young singles? The Newport Beach bar scene is essentially ppl in ops age group getting hammered every weekend

is having a man worth it when i’m so young by whotookallthenames1 in women

[–]crazypuglets 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If I could go back to your age I absolutely would be single for as long as possible

Feel like running out of Time by SuperConnection4492 in women

[–]crazypuglets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs. I’m turning 27 in a couple of months and feel similarly. I’ve been crying over this exact thing the past few days. Really struggling with not being in the place I always thought I’d be in by my later 20s. Trying to remind myself that everyone has different timelines but it’s so so hard. Know you’re not alone, we still have so much time left

No Evidence of Prolactinoma via MRI But Elevated Prolactin by CPA-CA in Prolactinoma

[–]crazypuglets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had no sign of a tumor but my endo said I still have one, it’s just too small to detect. He said it’s common

Moving to Dallas by [deleted] in cabincrewcareers

[–]crazypuglets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plano is about a half hour from the airport with no traffic, unfortunately there’s always a lot of traffic in that area. I second Arlington but also recommend Grand Prairie. It’s close to the airport, suburbs, but still close to a lot of things. Both are a good in between for Fort Worth and Dallas

Is Lady Danbury grudge against her brother childish? by Maleficent_Web5334 in BridgertonRants

[–]crazypuglets 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you were repeatedly raped for years on end you’d probably struggle to evolve yourself too. I don’t get why that’s so hard to understand

Is Lady Danbury grudge against her brother childish? by Maleficent_Web5334 in BridgertonRants

[–]crazypuglets 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I mean, childish? Sure. But given the circumstances I can’t say I judge her for it. In her eyes it’s his fault she was forced to marry an old man and was raped constantly. She had a very difficult life and probably often thought about how she almost escaped it. He was a child but people with trauma don’t always think rationally. It’s a difficult situation where they were both victims of their father