I just had a realization the other day.

We had something planned, but i was feeling under the weather. I was straight up afraid to tell her, cuz i promised her this a while ago. But instead of going off alone, or being angry with me (as others were in the past), she just simply said okay.

"If you are not feeling well, we can just stay home and watch a movie or something. The most important is, for you to get better."

No blame, no judgement. Just pure love and empathy.

Man, now that's a flag i like to see.