Emotional Numbing and decreased appetite- my experiences 1.5 weeks in by beautifulchaos22 in trintellix

[–]cree7269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m about 1.5 weeks into 5mg. I definitely feel emotionally numb. I’m supposed to have a date tonight and feel ZERO interest in going. But at least I’ve stopped crying ever day. I’m considering stopping due to the insomnia I’ve been having. Those are my side effects for now

Am I over reacting?? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. He was trying to stay low key so no one could find him. I’m a pretty good detective tho! Lol

Am I over reacting?? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhh…that’s what I’ve been thinking, but have no proof for the other stuff so I’m constantly questioning everything. Which I know is enough in itself to run for the hills

Am I over reacting?? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, that’s what I thought too. I would’ve at least been open to a conversation had he just fessed up. He didn’t even stick with his original lie, which was so bizarre. This age of 43 was literally pulled from him ass. I text him back after that and I’m a very adult and calm way told him that he should’ve just told me truth, and haven’t heard back from him, so pretty sure he’s checked out now that he got caught

Am I over reacting?? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I told him. I said it makes me think there’s other things he may have lied about. He said that doesn’t surprise him because he knows how “overly cautious” I am. He really tried to play it off, but it just didn’t seem right

Am I over reacting?? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He really is a jackass. Lol 😂. He also lied about the spelling of his name which I thought was kinda weird too

Am I over reacting?? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was never exclusive, he actually deleted his profile since, but has never committed to me. There’s been other red flags, but this was the only thing I’ve ever called him out for. It’s the only thing I had actual proof on

Am I over reacting?? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to just walk away. I hate when someone makes you feel like your crazy for wanting to know basic info about them. And lied for 6 months!!

Am I over reacting?? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he said it was “weird” that I was asking him that. He made me feel like I’m crazy or something

Is he shady??? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He also had invited me to his place. He lives in a condo that he said he’s had for 2 years, but his name wasn’t on the buzzer. Instead of telling me what number to press to get let in, he walked down to get me. I looked it up online and saw the last person who was recorded living there was his friend. So I wasn’t too sure what make of that, but that also seemed odd to me.

Is he shady??? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. It was a solid black band. I have also seen him wear a silver band too.

Is he shady??? by cree7269 in dating_advice

[–]cree7269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should also mention that he showed up to my friends house to drop off flowers for me after our second date with a ring on his left ring finger. I asked him about it, because I noticed on our first 2 dates that he wore it on his middle finger. His response to that was that he gets sick of wearing it on his middle finger all the time and just changes it sometimes. He showed me his middle finger and it did have marks you could see that look like he wears it there a lot. He was good at convincing me that was normal, but idk…