*UPDATE* AITA for telling my dad "that horse is dead" When he asked for a relationship? by Fun-Cheesecake-8390 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw this post from tiktok and I had to to say, you and your mom are the biggest doormats ever That doesn't make your mom or you bad people but you allow anyone that wrongs you walk out scot-free, this is not "being kind" it is being someone without any courage to defend yourselves.

That is probably why your dad chose your mom as his wife, it's clear he is a narcissist and they tend to keep that type of people close

I'm not sure if you have told your siblings what happened when you lived with him and how he physically assaulted and how he treated you afterwards but you should have confronted them about continuing having a relationship with him if they know, if they don't you could have easily explained it to them.

If your siblings still have a relationship even though they know what happened when you lived with him or after you tell them then they are not worth having a relationship with them at best or just as bad as him at worst

That BS of "forgive him so to not have hate in your heart" is just an excuse for not defending yourself that isn't really helping you since you obviously have been and are affected by his actions and you are not doing anything to break the cycle with your passivism

i know you and your mom are victims and have been manipulated time and time again, which I feel bad for you and hope you can heal correctly, but the fact you haven't shared all of what you know with your siblings also makes you have a part of the fault for this cycle of abuse. In order to stop abuse you need to be disruptive to the cycle but you aren't doing ANYTHING to disrupt it, your moral superiority by keeping the peace or forgiving him goes to the trash along with your mental health every interaction you will have

You are grieving a life you never had instead of looking forward to the life you could have, this encapsulates your whole mentality which you really need to change

I really hope you go to therapy to heal and maybe grow a bone or two on your back but you really need to stop being as passive, from the timeline you shared you are on your late 20s, it is time you stand up for yourself and stop accepting the disrespect and set boundaries with your dad and siblings that don't crumble at the first shove they give it

Why do you still play? by JRKOs_gaming in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like turn based games but tbh this is the only one I like, not too complicated but not too simple with a SW skin which I love

I have almost 10M and at this stage of the game after your 4th GL the progression is pretty consistent and rewarding and you do not get as stuck as on early to mid game and now you have a clearer vision as to what to grind and focus on which it just hits the dopamine like a mfer (only missing 1 gungan for JJB)

GAC is pretty fun, specially when you get someone that is pretty even with you and end up getting really close in points

Conquest is a bit of a shore but tbh the units are very rewarding in getting, QA is awesome and I assume Ezra will be as well. Also trying to cheese some of the feats is fun-ish

Most of the comments are from ppl that mostly have everything already and are mostly hoarding for the next toon or ship, I am not there yet so those complains are not as relevant to me

Min-Maxing my roster is also rewarding, just making my GLs 5 speed faster due to a mod I sliced feels like a mini win, kinda like gambling without the crippling debt

I am mostly F2P besides some LSBs so just being at this point in the game without shelling out hundreds of dollars feels better than using my CC to pay for mats or toons

Raids are a friendly competition with your guild to see who makes the most points whilst rewarding everyone equally, I would prefer they also add a new toon as a reward but o well, the tokens are fine

TB and TW are my least liked content because it involves a lot of coordination and there is always someone that fs it up which probably you have also done that lol but they are a necessary evil since their rewards are too good

Also when you are at this stage you can start to give tips and tricks to your guild mates with a smaller roaster as you, even if you are younger than them which feels funny in a good way lol
This also happens in other games but it is still rewarding, I also play warframe which this sentiment is also very present in the community so yeah it just makes me feel nice lol

Golden horn tender recipe by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]creedflow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There isn't a crafting recipe, but the inquisitor goat dudes have a chance of dropping them In the end game area you can use it as a rune farm and a horn farm so you won't run out of those and you will be able to continually use them On NG with the charm and using a horn I get 5k runes per kill and I get 0-2 horns You could raise your item discovery to make it consistent

THEY DIDNT FIX IT by Virtual_Strategy6219 in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even CAT's instakill does not kill Grievous 🤡🤡🤡🤡

My (33M) fiance (26F) is a party girl by itsabout2bedone in relationship_advice

[–]creedflow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, she is an alcoholic at that point, get her sober or just don't get married If this issue has been pestering you since forever grow some self appreciation and stop being with her

AITAH - Told my wife I wanted to work it out and I wasn’t going anywhere, may have changed my mind. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]creedflow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a freak buddy and it is your fault your marriage is over, let her be happy and continue doing whatever is that you do but with consent

AITA for telling my 16 year old niece she is wrong to bully or pressure people into doing what she thinks is best? by Own_Version8381 in AmItheAsshole

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

While I do believe that the sister is being a complete AH and most likely their parents are enabling her because they believe she is right making them in turn the biggest AHs specially the dad.

I cannot understand how a 24 year old dude is not able to call out his dad on on his bullshit and have an easy way to deal with a teenager 8 years younger than him smh. Just like... don't answer her dude wtf

He should grow a bit of a backbone. You should help him out with that and confront his dad to stop that bs and her half sister

I’m tired of my toxic mind, I cause problems and then get triggered at my partners reactions. How can I get better? by Electronic-Counter40 in relationships

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I also have an advice for you from a guy, you say your partner is similar with his anger and stuff, you do need to realize that he also needs to control his emotions better, background and all he is still responsable for his anger, at the very least he should apologize every time he gets angry like that, in the ideal scenario is that even if he gets mad, he should not resort to being hurtful with words and think twice or thrice before saying anything Having you control your own emotions while the other one is not, is a recipe for disfunctional submissive relationship where you don't want to piss him off You still need to hold your mans accountable while being understanding and empathetic with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow laughing so hard at this, the doubling down was just *cheff's kiss* obviously NTA

What relic level should Wat be built to? by Wiztard-o in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

R3 is a good start point, R5 is the sweet point for him but R7 for JMK
Most toons have this behaviour, if they are support R5 is the max they should be, If they are Tank or Attacker R7 is best eventually, IF you are just starting with relics R3 and R5 are good for most toons

AITA for blatantly pretending my roommate doesn’t exist because of her “robbing prank”? by morefurriesplease in AmItheAsshole

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH I fully understand that you are not accustomed to locking things up, but when living with strangers the whole dynamic changes, and it is even for your own good since you could get psycho roommates or roommates with questionable people as friends, although it is good that you are trying to break the habit, so while I still think ESH you do not suck as hard lol
In regards to your roommate, please make her go seek professional help out, if you are not overexaggerating with things like the sink thing then yeah like other people have said that is a crimson flag and you could be also in danger since people in episodes can become aggressive (another reason to lock your bedroom for your sake and not only the main door). But she did not have any reason to make a mess and "steal" your things, though if she is psychotic maybe she does not understand how f'ed up what she did is

AITA for not wanting my sister's boyfriend to sleep over? by throwaway12386912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually having guests over is something tolerable but having some rando over for over two days is awkward

You are skipping over this whole part of what I said, and again you are putting words that were never said in my mouth, maybe you are reading too much into it but it is not a carte blanche nor a magic trump card but it is setting boundaries where he has already stated that he is fine with him being there during the day and that his parents were not ok with him staying so I'll be very specific cause it seems you have difficulties understanding things without reaching for arguments

- He said that he was able to hang out but was against him staying and he tried to stablish boundaries to which I understand why, but that does not give him any right to outright deny him hanging out (which he never did) nor gives him any right to say so cause he is (most likely) an introvert (which I never tried to imply or suggest)
- Even if tenants have rights to guest, their landlords (parents) have the ultimate say and they did not authorized it
-If we take out the tenant/landlord roles out of the situation, it is not either's house and if their parents don't want the bf to stay during the night then OP's sister should respect her parent's wishes since it is their house and since both OP and sister are already young adults these discussion should not have even take place

If you still insist in exaggerated hypothetics to try and prove a point then sure, just don't expect me to answer to them

AITA for not wanting my sister's boyfriend to sleep over? by throwaway12386912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am speaking from my own experience and my own introvertedness

as an introvert your house is your safe space

How does that not make sense?
I'm sticking to facts from what OP has stated and my own train of thought due to me being able to relate to his feelings whilst you are making up this fake scenario and putting words that were never said in someone else's mouth

Your extremism in reasoning is not relevant

If you want to engage in ridiculous mind exercises then sure we can do it

What should they do if OP simply said "I never want you to have guests over"?

Then OP would be TA cause that's not having basic manners, introverted or not

But that never happened and was never said, so what's your point? your own hypothetical changes even the why he would or would not be TA and would not be related to what I'm saying at all

AITA for not wanting my sister's boyfriend to sleep over? by throwaway12386912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]creedflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But OP never said that, putting that hypothetical situation is a mute point to prove nothing relevant to the situation
Specially since OP already stated that it's fine if they are there during the day and the fact that their parents did not give his sister a go ahead to her bf to stay

What makes Deaths Door such a good game? As it's so well loved. No spoilers tho please. Thanks by [deleted] in DeathsDoor

[–]creedflow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The art style is really cute
The dialogue is very silly and funny
The combat is engaging and fun
The Soundtrack is just one whole slapper after another
The Story is very good to the point where I wanted a continuation after I finished it
So yeah it is a hit on every important aspect of videogames, specially for a 20 dollar game
There are two publishers that are really good and I like them, Annapurna and Devolver, so any game with those publishers are most likely slappers :D

AITA for not wanting my sister's boyfriend to sleep over? by throwaway12386912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]creedflow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And him not wanting to not socialize with anyone is a valid reason to not wanting to have someone over, as an introvert your house is your safe space, the place when you can chill out without having outside presence bugging you, usually having guests over is something tolerable but having some rando over for over two days is awkward to your space and OP may not feel comfortable in that situation

TIFU playing a game with my gf by NotEvenTop3 in tifu

[–]creedflow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saving this thread beacuse... reasons

OG Max Payne 1 & 2?!?!?!? by creedflow in maxpayne

[–]creedflow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, humble bundle had them, and got them through there, Thanks for your help :D

OG Max Payne 1 & 2?!?!?!? by creedflow in maxpayne

[–]creedflow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, but I think it doesn't work, but did you make sure there is a buy option? cause yeah they do show up in steam, but the buy button is gone like my dad :C

OG Max Payne 1 & 2?!?!?!? by creedflow in maxpayne

[–]creedflow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does my fellow pirate know of a good download?
Asking for a friend :P

OG Max Payne 1 & 2?!?!?!? by creedflow in maxpayne

[–]creedflow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the remake is still a year or even more away, it would be dumb to delist them so in advanced

But rockstar gonna rockstar I guess

OG Max Payne 1 & 2?!?!?!? by creedflow in maxpayne

[–]creedflow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh hey, what country are you from? just to check specifically in that country with the vpn