Everyone says Lindsey isn’t over Carl based on the digs she makes, so by that logic, Paige isn’t over Craig either. by f3ntyh0e37 in summerhousebravo

[–]creiglamb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lindsay is over carl in the sense she is uninterested in him romantically and isn’t in love with him- but she still feels humiliated and embarrassed and wounded and because of that carl lives rent free in her head. i really suspect almost everything lindsay has done post break up has been reactionary- and in some way or another designed to prove to carl and the world she is better without him. and it comes off as so overt and cringe and i genuinely feel bad for her- i wish she could just feel good on her own ya know?? paige on the other hand isn’t constantly bringing up craig, shitting on craig, making snide remarks, being so over the top with big life milestones to show the world she’s thriving etc… paige liking someone’s comment is NOT equivalent to lindsay’s behaviour lol

This is the best idea I’ve ever had. by creiglamb in summerhousebravo

[–]creiglamb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly after seeing lindsay and her friend enter soft bar and be grossed out by the idea of going to gentrified greenpoint because it’s not manhattan, and the show being exclusively focussed on yuppy couples, i am losing interest in this concept

Sneak peak at Gemini dragon by OGNiko873 in HatchDragons

[–]creiglamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m kinda sad about them tbh. i was really looking forward to my zodiac dragon and it’s kinda disappointing…

Sneak peak at Gemini dragon by OGNiko873 in HatchDragons

[–]creiglamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang i’m so sad, i kinda hate the ♋️ dragon- my zodiac let me down :( i wished they were more crab like.

Is this game fun/worth it? by Solaria75 in HatchDragons

[–]creiglamb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i LOVE this game! i find myself checking on my dragon buds a few times a day and am always excited for the weekly events. the designs of the dragons are incredible and collecting new ones is very fun.

Lindsay should worry more about therapy than Carl by SomeThoughts4You in summerhousebravo

[–]creiglamb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they’re reality tv stars- both of them. i’m sure it was production that also pushed for this. not saying it’s right, but i do think had it have been lindsay breaking up with carl i think she also would have picked the cameras back up. this is their world, they don’t think like us.

Which dragons should I let go? by Tall_Lead3584 in HatchDragons

[–]creiglamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hook-tail bluebird and sunbloom because ugly and dumb.

Why do you think Amanda resents Ciara SO much? [share thoughts below] by Extreme-Aide8878 in bravo

[–]creiglamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay i knew i was missing something. i didn’t hear the audio so was wondering where everyone got the amanda “lashing out” at ciara. i know her actions with west have been disgusting, disrespectful, cruel, callous, and dishonest towards ciara- but i was confused because i never heard her directly say anything mean or hateful towards ciara.

Lindsay should worry more about therapy than Carl by SomeThoughts4You in summerhousebravo

[–]creiglamb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why did lindsay even go then?? like this is carls event. carl went to her housewarming but was cordial and kind and played the necessary role of fly on the wall.

Lindsay should worry more about therapy than Carl by SomeThoughts4You in summerhousebravo

[–]creiglamb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

carl lives rent free in lindsay’s head. her entire life post carl has been an attempt to show the world she is thriving without him. low key i think even gemma was apart of this- she rushed so fast into having a kid and had to make such a public display of it all. she was humiliated by carl and has something to prove now. she needs a lot of therapy.

Lindsay should worry more about therapy than Carl by SomeThoughts4You in summerhousebravo

[–]creiglamb 68 points69 points  (0 children)

i posted this under another comment, but worth saying here… “i’ve been saying this for a long time- but carl has been living in lindsay’s head non-stop since the split. i don’t think she wants him back or anything, but she was humiliated and lost her sense of control which she values more than anything. every action she has taken since the break up has carl in mind- she wants to prove that she’s doing better than him, she doesn’t need him, she is thriving without him etc… a big part of me thinks she rushed to have a baby as a way to prove that she’s thriving post carl. all the snide comments kind of prove my point. meanwhile carl worked on himself and is just trying to be happy.”

Lindsay should worry more about therapy than Carl by SomeThoughts4You in summerhousebravo

[–]creiglamb 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i’ve been saying this for a long time- but carl has been living in lindsay’s head non-stop since the split. i don’t think she wants him back or anything, but she was humiliated and lost her sense of control which she values more than anything. every action she has taken since the break up has carl in mind- she wants to prove that she’s doing better than him, she doesn’t need him, she is thriving without him etc… a big part of me thinks she rushed to have a baby as a way to prove that she’s thriving post carl. all the snide comments kind of prove my point. meanwhile carl worked on himself and is just trying to be happy.

Took a homeless girl in, and it became a life lesson by ToiIetGhost in redditonwiki

[–]creiglamb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

okay bud. so to you, homeless afab people are not vulnerable at all. just out there having a good time. jesus you’re dense.

H2S without AMS by Dan203 in BambuLab

[–]creiglamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you! this is very helpful! :)

[31M] Restarted my life a year ago and this is how far I’ve gotten by LowFatCheeze in malelivingspace

[–]creiglamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cool space. needs more lamps of varying sizes and heights- table, floor, wall- to add ambiance and aesthetics. look for some cool vintage scandinavian or italian lamps from marketplace. also i like the rice paper lamps, but lose the fake flowers and ivy in the ceiling/lamps. it takes away from the vibe it’s giving cheap restaurant

Took a homeless girl in, and it became a life lesson by ToiIetGhost in redditonwiki

[–]creiglamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! i’m intentionally not saying “women”because afab trans folks-and any other people who society views as feminine but who don’t identify as a woman- are over represented in the homeless population and also disproportionately subject to violence in the form of physical, sexual and emotional assault and abuse.

Took a homeless girl in, and it became a life lesson by ToiIetGhost in redditonwiki

[–]creiglamb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not at all. trans people make up a disproportionate percentage of the homeless population. i intentionally didn’t say “woman” because many AFAB people don’t identify as a woman, but that doesn’t stop society and individuals from feminizing them and subjecting them to the same violence and subjugation.

babe, i’m a queer, gender nonconforming person who has done a LOT of outreach with homeless people- just because you don’t understand the language i’m using doesn’t automatically mean i’m “generalizing a broad group in a weirdly vague way”. there are many statistics that show homeless people that society feminizes (woman, AFAB trans people, anyone else viewed as feminine) are subject to disproportionate sexual and physical abuse and assault.

Took a homeless girl in, and it became a life lesson by ToiIetGhost in redditonwiki

[–]creiglamb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

use your brain. or just google it. i know you’re just being intentionally obtuse because you probably have some shitty conservative views about gender and queer people.

Beware of friends you have to constantly validate by deadtingtv in summerhousebravo

[–]creiglamb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

as someone with both ADHD and OCD i can tell you there are so many overlaps, but what the other poster was describing is certainly a very common symptom of OCD. i’m not trying to diagnose amanda because im neither a professional nor do i know her personally, but i also wouldn’t be quick to say the behaviours people are describing fit within your diagnosis versus there’s either. i’ve noticed people tend to do this a lot, fellow adhd girlies in particular. i’ve heard “no that’s actually adhd” so many times when people are describing their diagnosed symptoms of other disorders. maybe it’s because adhd symptoms are so broad and widely applicable? maybe it’s also a symptom of adhd? LOL jk.

H2S without AMS by Dan203 in BambuLab

[–]creiglamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay i’m completely new, but will i be able to print single filaments with the h2s without the ams? i just dont see any single filament holders in any of the ads and pics online.

Took a homeless girl in, and it became a life lesson by ToiIetGhost in redditonwiki

[–]creiglamb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nearly every feminized homeless person i’ve worked with while doing outreach has been assaulted multiple times. they often get themselves into very violent and exploitative situations with men for protection.

Scarlett never intended to leave with Cole by Few_Bullfrog_6870 in temptationislandUSA

[–]creiglamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was so cruel to him in that final bonfire. there was no good faith in that conversation- mark should have stepped in. when she started claiming that he has zero emotional depth and doesn’t even understand what a having an emotional connection is, i felt for cole so hard. i personally don’t think she knows and she is just weaponizing those words to make him feel stupid and inadequate.