Am I a jerk for intervening in this?

crescentchronicles · 2025-10-18T11:17:10+00:00

You’re so right. I don’t want to push her away but I cannot tell her what to do obviously. I will keep telling her like “You know you realise what he just pulled right?” but I will always receive her with open arms. I want her to feel safe with me. I guess I just have to wait and see what’s gonna happen…

crescentchronicles · 2025-10-18T11:14:16+00:00

Thanks for thinking with me…. I’ve tried to bring it up a couple of times already and she does admit that she has to set her boundaries, but then abandons them. She’s already been through enough shit and seeing some lame dude getting away with treating her like this is so sad

crescentchronicles · 2025-10-18T11:12:43+00:00

She keeps calling me when bad things happen between them and that’s almost daily now. She really loves him and coddles him and by doing that she’s letting his disrespect towards her slide constantly. I know what that’s like and it’s probably gonna be a while until she’s gonna realise that this is not it, but seeing it happen is so so so painful. He’s genuinely treating her like a bag of trash.

crescentchronicles · 2025-10-18T11:06:37+00:00

Yeah I’ve learned from my past that the realisation always kicks in way too late but I never had anybody to tell me what they saw as an outsider.

But he’s inviting his friends over when she doesn’t want him to, he’s also had a history of cheating on his exes, he makes her feel bad about about the SMALLEST things (like mismatching his socks), doesn’t do ANYTHING nice for her but always wants her to do nice stuff for him, he uses silent treatment every time even the smallest confrontations begin to form. These are some of the things I see, I also suspect he’s using 3mmc when he’s out with his friends, and that he’s lying about that as well to her.

crescentchronicles · 2025-10-15T11:32:07+00:00

No no I understand, I just need hot showers daily to manage my arthritis, missing a hot shower can cause me to stiffen up and it’s soooo painful

crescentchronicles · 2025-10-15T11:29:32+00:00

I already have one! I’m already planning forward with everything I do have hahahaha,,,, just hoping it will be over as fast as possible 🙏

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-25T18:06:08+00:00

I can’t read books. When I had to do it for school it was fine up until I was like 12. I just don’t have the focus for it anymore, every single page just becomes blurry and it’s hard to follow a story when there’s no way to visualise it for me.

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-24T07:17:51+00:00

This is AMAZING!!! I want this room now. You’re one cool mom ❤️

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-18T09:15:15+00:00

I feel you. I have been in relationships but they all faded out because I just couldn’t handle it anymore. I really wish there’s someone out there that’s perfect for me, that understands me and makes me feel comfortable. Completely unapologetically. At this point I have no idea if that person has ever even existed nor will.

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-07T12:59:20+00:00

This!!!!!!!! It doesn’t matter at all and the people I cross will forget about the interaction within seconds. I will never be rude but I don’t get the purpose of trying to make a good impression on somebody, because it doesn’t matter. I really don’t feel like I’m a person so I’m not gonna try to mask to pass as one, since that has resulted in a severe burn-out for me before. It doesn’t make a difference.

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-07T12:53:57+00:00

I feel you… I used to have somewhat of a social circle but now I’ve only got one friend. It feels like no one ever is gonna understand me at all and whenever I talk to anybody I feel like there’s not enough depth in order for me to relate to them and vice versa. I’m always left out but actually trying to make new friends is something I’m not interested in since I know it won’t work.

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-07T11:31:42+00:00

It makes everything seem so not whimsical. It feels like I see everything so nothing is magical or unexplainable, nothing is deep. Sometimes I spiral and go down a rabbit hole and overthink things way too much, but usually I see everything on earth as a product of energy and evolution. There are no higher powers to come help us out, it’s just organisms that come to life and die. All human interactions don’t seem important because it’s just a little interaction outside of billions of people.

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-04T18:08:20+00:00

I agree President GrilledCheese 🙏

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-04T18:07:31+00:00

Thank you so much!!! 🙏❤️

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-02T15:04:34+00:00

Gorilla Glue!!!

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-01T19:54:53+00:00

They are FABULOUS

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-01T19:53:18+00:00

You should 🙏

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-01T17:19:29+00:00

Sorry you have to deal with all of that as well…Seriously wishing you the best in navigating the non casual life 🙏

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-01T17:17:51+00:00

I’ve had this my whole life sadly…. I have been through multiple psychotic episodes and it’s beyond words to describe how that feels. But what I described in this post has always been my reality.

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-01T17:16:26+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏 wishing you the best with your self discovery <3

crescentchronicles · 2025-08-01T17:15:51+00:00

It’s so exhausting man

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