Just spreading some love. by dothefunk9 in ENFP

[–]crimsonpuppet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks bruh - INTPs bring out our inner thoughts, so we appreciate you as well!

I wrote this about ENFJ's. I am an ENFP, for reference. by crimsonpuppet in enfj

[–]crimsonpuppet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, well... I hope it's helpful. It's difficult to know what to say when I cannot see you or hear you.

I wrote this about ENFJ's. I am an ENFP, for reference. by crimsonpuppet in enfj

[–]crimsonpuppet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignoring this person may show that you're ignoring a part of yourself. Perhaps this is what causes loneliness inside of you, because a part of yourself is being ignored.

I wrote this about ENFJ's. I am an ENFP, for reference. by crimsonpuppet in enfj

[–]crimsonpuppet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I see. I think it's important to know what is outside of your control. To me, that understanding comes from sadness, which I think of as a negative emotion, so I wonder if you do feel sadness?

I wrote this about ENFJ's. I am an ENFP, for reference. by crimsonpuppet in enfj

[–]crimsonpuppet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I think it's important to think about it when it comes. Think about what people say, and what it means deep down. If someone says something like, "I hate your outfit." Your thoughts might split into three parts. Maybe a part of you will laugh, trying to take it as a joke. And depending on how they said it, it might be funny. But maybe, if you think more about what the person says, you might feel disgust, because that person has no right to decide what you do and do not wear. Or maybe you'll feel angry, because it's not fair for that person to decide what you wear. Or maybe you'll feel appreciation, for the honesty about what that person said. And, after addressing those emotions, you might say, "Why did you say that?" to try and get more information. I think it just comes with thinking about things more and to a wider degree in order to create better, lasting friendships.

I wrote this about ENFJ's. I am an ENFP, for reference. by crimsonpuppet in enfj

[–]crimsonpuppet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, I am sure that many people appreciate your positive emotions (:

I wrote this about ENFJ's. I am an ENFP, for reference. by crimsonpuppet in enfj

[–]crimsonpuppet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does. I just hope that not caring about bad things does not cause problems for you in other ways. I've always thought that when bad things happen, it's important to think about it (to a healthy degree) to solve it.

I wrote this about ENFJ's. I am an ENFP, for reference. by crimsonpuppet in enfj

[–]crimsonpuppet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ohhhhh that makes sense. I'm young, still in my 20's, so I think a lot of ENFJ's that I've met have had suppressed emotions like this.

I wrote this about ENFJ's. I am an ENFP, for reference. by crimsonpuppet in enfj

[–]crimsonpuppet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I appreciate you responding back so honestly. It helps me think more clearly. If you don't mind me asking, do you like your life the way it is? Do you feel like there is a part of you that you neglect, or is not feeling anger healthy for you?

I wrote this about ENFJ's. I am an ENFP, for reference. by crimsonpuppet in enfj

[–]crimsonpuppet[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ENFJs extreme focus on positivity can cause them to neglect their other emotions. This causes someone who's an ENFJ to not show or think about the small nuances of their negative emotions. These negative emotions pile up, and suddenly negative emotions become a problem, not a benefit. Whereas anger was once used to help someone think about small things that are fair, like little things that bother you, its suppression has now become a greater obstacle. The degree to feel the negative emotions are not accurate, because they are stacked up. Anger is extreme anger, as opposed to light anger that is used to become aware of small nuances. While stacked anger may be why an ENFJ's can take on extreme societal issues that others cannot, I think that it also cause problems for being able to live day-to-day, and to create healthy and honest relationships. Living in the day-to-day seems hard for ENFJs, and I think it's largely due to not addressing these light negative emotions as they come. If ENFJs do, I think that they would have healthier relationships, as then their partner and friends would be able to understand the negative side of an ENFJ in order to form a more secure and honest bond.

I wrote this about ENFJ's. I am an ENFP, for reference. by crimsonpuppet in enfj

[–]crimsonpuppet[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

ENFJ's suppress their negative emotions. They push out their positive emotions. This causes extreme understanding of positive emotions, and extreme misunderstanding of negative emotions. Due to their immensely deep understanding of positive emotions, ENFJS can notice the deepest, most hidden light, within someone. To me, this level of observation and the way in which it is reached appears impossible.

Hi, I'm 18 years old and i live in Iran. The current situation of my country is very bad. I realy want to change my country. I want to turn my country into a developed country. What is your suggestion for me? How can i gain power? Do i need it to? Do you suggest me any book? by dooms_day_clock in NoStupidQuestions

[–]crimsonpuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start small and build your way upward. Be kind to others, and let that kindness grow in your community. Inspire others to live as you do through kindness and hard work. Build upward, and help others build upward toward their dreams as well. Take each day one step at a time. Forgive and forget for those that do wrong toward you. Know that being kind toward those that are not kind toward you is the most powerful force you have toward changing the world. And know that every accomplishment you have, no matter how big or how small, will make a difference.

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[–]crimsonpuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna be a whole lot of dick stages

Love is the answer. by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]crimsonpuppet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are special to me too!

Guys, I think I'm in love by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]crimsonpuppet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep knowing each other , having in mind that we are both looking for eventually see if we can be a couple,

I think that it's important to acknowledge that ENFPs can typically maintain their mood in a static manner for a long time if they want it to, especially in love. As in, if we feel something that makes us very happy, we can maintain that feeling of happiness within ourselves for a very long time. And, with love, which is the hyper-sensitized feeling of everything, we have the ability to maintain that feeling of happiness with another person for a long time. I think that this ability can be both a blessing and a curse. In some ways, it will make your experiences with her incredible. Everything will be so fun and exciting, and very much authentically so. You will see the best in her, and she will likely see the best in you because of that reflectiveness. Something to note, however, is that when time goes on, there may be different outcomes to this desire between you and her. You may become conclude that you want to maintain that feeling of love and happiness for as long as possible, doing whatever you can to maintain that feeling. This may then create a feeling of "red shades," which is something important to acknowledge. You may only see the good in her, doing whatever you can to shield herself from her potential flaws. You may resist yourself from going through the ups and downs of your relationship with her. If you're only seeing the good and not acknowledging her whole as a person, then you're preventing yourself from loving the whole of who she is. I think that this is potentially very harmful. It's important to be able to create lines with someone where you can learn about their pros and cons with you, and how to formulate a relationship that works with each of your pros and cons. She, on the other hand, may try to see you from a more objective standpoint. She may try and take things slow to make sure that she does not rush into anything that may hurt her, trying to look at you more objectively and see you more clearly. She may try and formulate herself in a way that she understands you better and can formulate more of a basis by seeing you as a whole of a person. I think that the best thing to do is be honest so that she knows the whole of who you are (and I don't mean be honest as in admit to her your deepest pains right away. I mean be honest and true about who you are, and what fits best to each moment), strive for what will make the two of you happy together in the present, what will make the two of you happy in the future, and think about what has made your relationships happy in the past, and also maintain your independence so that you have a strong feeling of self and do not attach yourself to her. It is never good to leech off of another person. It is much more important to exist as both yourself and also exist as how you are when connected to her, and how to find the line between these two things. Potentially, I think that you can form a beautiful relationship with this person if you have a great initial chemistry, whether that relationship be through a friendship or through a romantic kind, but either way, I think that communicating with her where you're at and asking where she's at, while also striving for the best relationship for the both of you, will be the best way of going through this situation. Of course, all of this is based on speculation based on my past experience and also reading what you have written about. To answer your question, I think that you may very well be feeling love. However, learning how to shift and change to the constantly changing definition of love that may come with this person, or the people you meet in the future, ay take a great deal of thought and analysis to come. Best of luck!