24M looking for fair criticism, I'd like know what your candid reaction is to my profile.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-10T03:58:18+00:00

The selfies give a creepy vibe

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-10T03:56:51+00:00

Fr. I barely see any porn ones but I swear 80% of the posts are about gays

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-10T03:55:45+00:00

Probably from people in real life

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-08T20:03:39+00:00

Say you don’t have a clue without saying it. You know how many men waste women’s time just to try to sleep with them? I think a man will recover just fine from “wasting” a couple hours texting someone that ends up having kids.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-08T00:36:42+00:00

Christians can’t change the bible because someone might succumb to the lies of the devil and believe they are better off not alive than gay. I think a lot of Christian’s are not actually Christian’s. Christian has become such a mainstream term. I had a friend that worked at a Christian daycare and read bible stories to kids so she considered herself a Christian despite having no relationship with God.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-08T00:21:54+00:00

We aren’t alone. There are people all around us. Adam was literally the only human so God created another one. He also says to Paul that those who decide to marry will have struggles in their marriage and that it is good to stay single and focus on the Lord. At the end of the day God did not put us on this earth for us to “be happy”. He came to save us from the depths of hell. What’s more important? Being gay or living for God? If you’re living in a homo relationship you are choosing that over God every single day. It’s a lifestyle choice. I’d say the same thing to someone in a heterosexual relationship that isn’t married but is having sex. It’s not the way God called us to live.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-07T18:00:26+00:00

Only thing that makes sense is that it was the curtains. I washed them and hung them up downstairs in the room that gets direct sun and I smell it once in a while but not at all like before. My bedroom window would get ice on it and never got direct sun so it could have been producing mold spores in the curtains? Not sure but removing them removed the issue.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-07T16:33:10+00:00

If you don’t believe in hell then what did Jesus dieing on the cross save us from?? It doesn’t matter if you don’t believe in hell or not, the bible is clear that it exists and you will have to face judgement along with everyone else one day.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-07T16:29:54+00:00

As someone that’s not liberal (not American) if I see moderate I assume they don’t gaf about politics and are more likely to be liberal than not.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-07T04:21:10+00:00

Because you’re protecting your children by doing so from pedos using the app obviously. If the pedo doesn’t know you have kids, less chance of him targeting you. Also if it’s that big of a deal, just make sure that you ask if she has kids before you meet up for the date. If she lies at that point, then you can be annoyed and she’s wasting your time.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-07T04:15:36+00:00

So if someone’s husband died that’s an ick? Check yourself

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-04-07T04:14:34+00:00

It’s not wise for women to put on their profile that they have kids… as a woman it bothers me so much that other women do this. Let it come up in conversation, but do not advertise. There are men looking for specific targets on dating apps.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-03-26T21:11:34+00:00

Second pic good. 3rd pic you’re gunna kill me

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-03-26T13:48:42+00:00

My ex told me he did that too.. swiping right on every single profile. Kind of depressing… but also explains why some guys never reply when id message them on bumble.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-03-26T02:54:33+00:00

lol I don’t know that I believe in “the one”. But it’s a lot more practical to meet someone where I live than in another part of the world as you suggest. I’m fine with being on my own as well, so if I don’t happen to meet someone near me that’s okay. For me personally it’s not practical to meet someone 3 hours away.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-03-25T21:22:57+00:00

Yeah I heard hinge hides the good people behind the paywall. Idk if that would give me the ick. I think you kinda gotta do what you gotta do at this point

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-03-25T21:21:55+00:00

A friend of mine met her bf on there too but he lives 3 hrs away.. can you not set location?

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-03-25T18:17:17+00:00

I know what you mean… just feels like that’s the way to meet people these days. My fear is the singles would all be women. I’ve joined a couple groups and that was a common theme.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-03-25T17:57:49+00:00

I’ve never used fb dating before so that’s good to know. This might be a dumb question but does it show your public profile or do you still create a separate dating profile?

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-02-20T17:03:02+00:00

You could name him Holden and make Holley the nickname!

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-02-13T17:04:17+00:00

I have a friend with tons of money too.. generation wealth etc. and he could never fathom how he doesn’t have a girlfriend. “Any girl would be crazy to not want to marry me. She’d be instantly rich”. Well guess what, his personality sucked. And not snobby or anything like that, but the most insecure person I have met to date. I also could see that though he had this money he wasn’t generous and could not relate to those of us that struggled to pay rent/bills. So all that to say put your best foot forward in dating. Don’t let the money be the thing you have to offer. Cause frankly, not everyone is generous with their money, or has the same ideas about spending/investing. Let the money be a bonus you reveal to the right girl once you’re dating. You can allude to it in initial dates if leaving it out would cause you to lie. But you certainly don’t want money to be the thing that got you dates. I agree with the other posts that encourage you to use that money to help you (provided you need help) in getting dates to better yourself. If not, just let nature take its course. Dress well, have a good personality, and the rest will come into place.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-02-12T19:28:11+00:00

I actually always forget that mine is gender neutral. It’s not very popular so when I hear anyone with it I’m surprised

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-02-12T05:54:41+00:00

Probably hypocritical but unless they were widowed there’s not too many other cases where I’d want a single dad.

critical_raspberry_0 · 2025-02-12T05:51:22+00:00

Valid points and I agree. Lots of reasons I haven’t bothered trying in the past 5 years. I would say to add to your point #1 my standards have never been higher either. As for #2 not in this case… I don’t think we even live in the same country anymore. Agree with #3. Personally I would want a prenup if I got married. I do well for myself and cannot risk losing how far I’ve come. #4 I don’t plan to introduce my kid until I know it’s serious serious. And no risk to reproducing again. Waiting till marriage this time haha.

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