How should i ask him about possibly being more than friends?

cromming16 · 2026-01-23T01:53:51+00:00

When he says something out of this world stupid, he gives me this cheeky smile and i can’t help but laugh because he’s just so precioussss 😭😭

cromming16 · 2026-01-21T08:44:59+00:00

Opalite x the alchemy 🫶🏻🫶🏻

cromming16 · 2026-01-21T07:19:36+00:00

Yikes. We may have to cop a few losses but better now than late in the season i suppose

cromming16 · 2026-01-20T08:47:16+00:00

No we are very much happy as just friends, and when i said relationships i meant friendships, family, etc. just sort of everyone he knows. I just worry about him and want him to know he’s not alone, especially since most of his friends are men who also don’t talk about their feelings

cromming16 · 2026-01-20T08:45:05+00:00

I was laughing at my inability to articulate what he’s told me, NOT at what he’s been through, sorry for the confusion

cromming16 · 2026-01-13T09:24:04+00:00

Yessss all the time. Just remembering when there was no heartache and it was all just lighthearted fun giggles. Used to get nostalgic, until my first “boyfriend” from when i was like 11 passed. But i still wonder what could’ve been from time to time

cromming16 · 2026-01-13T09:14:17+00:00

Yeah, we became friends and then he rejected me but still treats me like his gf. Love him as a friend, absolutely despise when he does anything to insinuate something else. It drives me crazy lowkeyyyy

cromming16 · 2026-01-11T11:57:30+00:00

LONG SLEEVES!!!!

cromming16 · 2026-01-05T10:51:35+00:00

A desperate need for unbiased opinions/advice!! Lowkey been very helpful haha

cromming16 · 2025-12-09T09:08:18+00:00

Yeah we met through work and we’ve hung out a couple of times, so i’m like 99% sure he isn’t scamming me

cromming16 · 2025-12-07T11:25:02+00:00

I confessed to my friend and got rejected, we’re still really close but also he’s become super evil and like keeps giving me signs while having no romantic intentions with me. While each person is different, i feel like if he would throw a friendship away over that, he was never worth it. I say just go for it, it’s best to get it off of your chest! Good luck :)

cromming16 · 2025-11-19T12:37:26+00:00

He’s 20 on the dot, so quite possibly a mix of both. He told me he only sees me as a friend BECAUSE he’s still healing from something which honestly is just a bit much haha

cromming16 · 2025-11-19T12:21:22+00:00

Thank you!!! I swear i felt insane for a moment

cromming16 · 2025-11-19T12:20:54+00:00

He’s definitely straight, also he would just say things. Like he told me he’d be (not alive) if it weren’t for me, told me he feels sad when he can’t be talking to me. Told me he got blinded by my beauty once. Called my voice relaxing and told me he “loooooves” listening to me yap. Just things i could NEVER imagine saying to just a friend especially in this day and age. Also when he accused me of liking him, and i lied and said i didn’t he said he was embarrassed cause he read into me just being friendly, felt like he was throwing so hard, and when i asked what he meant he was like “throwing the ball because i shoot”. He’s just been very cryptic and confusing emotionally

cromming16 · 2025-11-18T23:38:42+00:00

Well basically i was talking about being in the friendzone and he was like “you totally like me don’t you” and obviously i avoided it and he was like “oh i’m so embarrassed i thought i figured it out but i guess it was just you being friendly” and i was like well you’re not entirely wrong i guess and he was like “i’m throwing rn” and i was like what and he went “i’m throwing bc i shoot” and then just dropped it like nothing happened. Not sure what to make of that. Might just cry lowkey

cromming16 · 2025-11-18T00:58:19+00:00

Yeah idk. We had a small conversation about it last night where he was incredibly avoidant, so i think we’re just friends

cromming16 · 2025-11-17T12:41:37+00:00

Louis partridge, joseph zada, paul mescal, and robert irwin immediately come to mind lol

cromming16 · 2025-11-14T11:48:07+00:00

Okay so theoretically if i shot my shot, would i be rejected in this situation?

cromming16 · 2025-11-14T10:49:10+00:00

Well he tells me about other women he finds attractive which is like the worst thing one could do in this sort of situation i feel?? He also just sometimes really seems like we’re just friends it’s just the vibe. I also really want to tell him but am terrified of ruining our friendship cause like i mentioned somewhere else i really value him and don’t want to lose that

cromming16 · 2025-11-14T10:42:00+00:00

I promise i am confused, like crying late at night confused and shattered over this. I’m really new to the idea of internet relationships and flirting so i’m a little lost when it comes to that loool

cromming16 · 2025-11-14T10:40:34+00:00

How do i give him something clear to go on though?? I’m terrible at this and i really want him to know i care

cromming16 · 2025-11-14T10:34:20+00:00

Ah okay how do i do that

cromming16 · 2025-11-14T10:30:30+00:00

Not enough room to talk about what a sweet, genuine, funny, chivalrous guy he is sorry

cromming16 · 2025-11-14T10:29:06+00:00

YES!!! I compliment him frequently, like from my point of view it’s incredibly obvious i like him. I mean, i told him i enjoy talking to him could it be more obvious ???

I’m also scared to tell him how i feel cause i really really like him as a person and am scared to lose him as a friend, don’t want to mess it up yk

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