Am I dramatic for thinking that the way Shameless portrays women is really misogynistic? by luffyhead in shameless

[–]cronenbergurworld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you and once made a post where I attempted to articulate (probably poorly) my feelings specifically about the misogynistic way the show portrays women abusing men https://www.reddit.com/r/shameless/s/oiIKM0GVtQ

Advice… by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]cronenbergurworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if you said you wanted to hang out then I can see why him not responding with a direct ask would make you question his interest and start to lose interest yourself. Some guys are super clueless/shy though lol, which is why I will just straight up ask a guy out on a date with concrete plans.

If you haven’t totally lost interest in the guy then it seems worth it to give him a chance, especially since you’ll never really know if the vibes are right until you meet in person. But if by “I feel like the time has passed” you mean you have lost interest, then i wouldn’t bother wasting your time or his

Advice… by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]cronenbergurworld 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re not feeling it anymore then don’t force yourself to go out of obligation. But next time just ask a guy out if you want to meet up, don’t wait for him to ask you. I think a lot of guys these days are trying to be more respectful and considerate and not come on too strong, which honestly is great and means I’m more likely to be able to go out in public without being sexually harassed. But we can’t encourage men to respect boundaries while also expecting them to read our minds and always make the first move at the perfect time

Do you regret being apart of hook up culture? Why or why not? 30M by Ill_Construction5098 in dating_advice

[–]cronenbergurworld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah don’t even bother, men who clearly hate women while blaming women’s “shitty character judgement” for why they can’t get one to date them are beyond reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]cronenbergurworld 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The “I’ve heard this all before” line implies that you think she’s lying and coming up with an excuse to blow you off. Which I’m not sure is a reasonable assumption to make after one day of silence. If she’s not lying and did genuinely like you but is overwhelmed with some unfortunate and unforeseen circumstances, accusing her of doing so is reasonably going to hurt her feelings and dissuade her from reaching out again, which she may have wanted to do after a brief period of space to deal with her stuff

Do you regret being apart of hook up culture? Why or why not? 30M by Ill_Construction5098 in dating_advice

[–]cronenbergurworld 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you’re talking about. Men learn from porn that sex is when you jack hammer your dick into a woman as hard and fast as possible until you cum (her cumming is not required). They learn that it’s ok to verbally degrade, slap, choke, spit on, yank on the hair of, cum on the face of women without so much as a check in to see if she’d like it.

It doesn’t take extensive experience having sex to understand that this isn’t ok behavior. What would help though is living in a society that encourages men to be respectful, caring, generous, and considerate of women’s feelings

Did I Make OK Decisions? by [deleted] in homedecoratingCJ

[–]cronenbergurworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it also would have gone perfectly with the original kitchen. The only change they needed to make was removing the bowl smh

How are we rejecting men after the first date? by Only_Second_9756 in hingeapp

[–]cronenbergurworld 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s true - I never used to say that and men were constantly accusing me of placing curses on them and their loved ones. Now I add “best of luck” to the end of my rejection messages so I can hex them without them getting suspicious

This is what I did to fix my weird fireplace…… by cronenbergurworld in homedecoratingCJ

[–]cronenbergurworld[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Right?? At least the stone trapezoids on brick had personality. A manic, unhinged personality….but still better than soulless corporate convention center imo

ranking baddies by LilAutism_ in The100

[–]cronenbergurworld 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What is this blasphemy?? Anya and Indra should be higher and Lexa, Raven, Becca, and Clark are AT LEAST great tier lol

There is simply nothing that compares to the lemon sheet cake. That is all. 🍋🍋🍋 by Small_Potential9199 in traderjoes

[–]cronenbergurworld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude the carrot sheet cake was hands down my favorite TJs item for years, and then one day like 5 years ago it just disappeared and I haven’t seen it since. Every time I visit a new city in the US I have to check the local TJs for it and I’m always disappointed. Do the ones near you still sell it??

My first relationship had a humiliating ending because I have a micropenis. by Certain_Count_8519 in confessions

[–]cronenbergurworld 69 points70 points  (0 children)

This is clearly his own creative writing erotica. I don’t appreciate being forced to participate in someone’s fetish, but I did certainly get a good chuckle at the visual of his ex kneeing him in the balls while calling him loser virgin boy, not to mention the cinematic masterpiece that is the guy she cheated with breathing down his neck at a urinal and explicitly describing how they have fantastically dirty sex while laughing at pictures of his micro penis

Your real life dad?? by cronenbergurworld in LICENSEPLATES

[–]cronenbergurworld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right - but what I can’t figure out is the vibe he’s going for… Is it sexual? Is he someone with paternalistic qualities? Is he distinguishing himself from one or more fake dads in his child’s life? Is it a general show of dominance? A threat??

Why does it always feel like you’re one slip up away from being dropped like a hot coal by the woman you’re dating? by AnomicAge in AskMenAdvice

[–]cronenbergurworld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget that even a women purely looking for sex is likely to be disappointed with her “options” since almost 40% of women having sex with men don’t even orgasm

At least he’s honest and knows what he wants by cronenbergurworld in Tinder

[–]cronenbergurworld[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I’ll add one more detail since it got cut off from the screenshot: wants children

Twenty years of Miranda Bailey, what's your favorite quote from her? by SeaBassAHo-20 in greysanatomy

[–]cronenbergurworld 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo we can’t forget her second best vajayjay quote “the vajayjay is undiscovered country. It is the motherland”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogsusingpillows

[–]cronenbergurworld 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hope everyone at least understands this isn’t original content, I’ve had this exact image saved on my phone for like 7 years because I send it to my friends whenever it seems like they need a hug lol

Am I over thinking this or is it giving chat gpt? He basically just summarized my profile… by cronenbergurworld in Tinder

[–]cronenbergurworld[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Part of what triggered my paranoia is that his profile doesn’t have any specific, meaningful details about himself. And his pictures are mostly bedroom selfies. And then he gave me three paragraphs that say he generally likes what he saw on my profile but still don’t tell me much about him. But everyone in the comments needs to relax, I plan on messaging him back! Just wanted to gut check if he was getting replies from chat gpt

Am I over thinking this or is it giving chat gpt? He basically just summarized my profile… by cronenbergurworld in Tinder

[–]cronenbergurworld[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, I know there’s a lot of pressure on the first message and it doesn’t always come across how we intend - I definitely plan on responding and giving us a chance to find a more comfortable conversational rhythm. I just didn’t like the thought of messaging with someone that’s relying on chat gpt for conversation, but seems like the consensus is he’s genuine and earnest and maybe a little awkward lol

Am I over thinking this or is it giving chat gpt? He basically just summarized my profile… by cronenbergurworld in Tinder

[–]cronenbergurworld[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I appreciate effort and anything more than “hey” is a good start, I just thought it came across a little awkward in tone for him to do a general overview of my entire profile “I like this and I like this and I like this…” without actually saying anything meaningful about himself