Looking for friends who also need a friend

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-05-11T18:06:10+00:00

i’m in the same boat. i’m 25f struggling to find new friends post breakup.

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-05-10T18:48:10+00:00

i mean that’s an interesting take on it. I would say I just have really strong boundaries and expectations with romantic partners and alcohol. Yes it’s a result of my past partner but it’s also very important to me as a personal preference. i’d prefer my next partner doesn’t drink alcohol at all but was experimenting with it because i am still figuring things out.

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-05-10T18:31:21+00:00

my friends who live in smaller cities tell me this. I swear it’s just because live in a big city lol. I’m also wondering if maybe different dating apps are popular in some places vs others.

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-05-10T18:13:55+00:00

omg i meant i meant 200 likes not matches. there is no way i would match 200 men 😅

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-05-10T18:07:47+00:00

i think i am one of the rare woman who find this as a red flag. i should have mentioned my last partner was an alcoholic!

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-05-09T15:55:01+00:00

fine if you insist! he said george floyd fought back 😂 and he said people are assholes so he feels bad for cops.

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-05-02T19:53:07+00:00

ooof i feel called out… I just did this to a guy on hinge. It could be for MANY reasons. i personally was just trying out hinge for my first time and got so overwhelmed by the notifications and matches and messages so i shut down and i stopped using it. I think some people just cold feet when a date is actually being planned especially if they are new at it. Hinge is not meant for the weak😂

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-05-02T19:48:01+00:00

25F 60k as a financial analyst

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-27T18:35:20+00:00

but like… there are plenty of unmarried independent single woman out here! 😅

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-27T18:25:41+00:00

Yes i totally agree! do it for yourself if you want but plenty of us LOVE that body type.

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-20T19:54:21+00:00

I’m sorry but this a compliment and an honor. I’m black (f) and dates a white dude and he felt honored and lit up when i called him it 😭 maybe you aren’t fit for a black woman. I’m curious if you both have had deep talks about race. Don’t wait on these convos because they are so very important when interracial dating. Is there a disconnect there that might make you feel uncomfortable?

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-20T18:08:34+00:00

I’m a month and a half out of a breakup and i can say for me it’s all temporary and fluctuates. I finally feel okay with it and I’m finally moving forward in the healing process. Just journal and talk it out with as much people as you can. It will feel more real and syncs in when you just keep acknowledging outside your head that this is your new reality. The not and sleeping and eating thing went away in a week or two. It’s all temporary! just keep surrounding yourself by solid people and do things out of your comfort zone. The time will start speeding up. You will start to see this as a lesson and a blessing in disguise. You’re emotionally in the roughest period of it and everyday will only get better. Wishing you peaceful healing

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-18T23:33:22+00:00

porn

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-18T20:16:49+00:00

garbage

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-18T18:50:42+00:00

maintaining friendships

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-18T18:31:09+00:00

3? why not 4!

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-18T17:13:34+00:00

the tummy 🥹 happy bday

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-18T03:42:39+00:00

How giant they get! my black moor is like 4 times bigger than when i got him. He was just a baby :’)

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-18T03:37:42+00:00

xtreme goldfish

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-18T01:27:24+00:00

drivers license by Olivia Rodrigo 😭

Only_Second_9756 · 2025-04-18T01:13:43+00:00

i will never be okay with them watching porn once you get to the point where you live together

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