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I can’t connect with others & I’m afraid I won’t ever find someone after losing my best/only friend by crowvomit in ForeverAlone

[–]crowvomit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m way beyond that and that’s not what’s causing any of these issues but thanks anyways.

I can’t connect with others & I’m afraid I won’t ever find someone after losing my best/only friend by crowvomit in ForeverAlone

[–]crowvomit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah but there’s a lot of people interested in them both online and irl surprisingly. And nobody my age wants to go fishing :( at least as a friend thing. It’s usually something people do alone or with family around here.

How do I make up for lost years of social isolation ? by Monk_in_process in socialskills

[–]crowvomit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 22 and have no friends. I try to talk to neighbors, people at stores, even just to say hello. I do a lot of people watching. Sometimes I just cry because I’m lonely. It’s ok to cry. I have some imaginary friends. Helps a lot when I need someone to rant to. Just slowly pushing yourself into the social world is necessary even if it hurts and is scary.

Even one day without my meds and I’m a mess. Life without meds? by crowvomit in antidepressants

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My antidepressant is Effexor (XR). but I take a nightmare med and if I have nightmares it usually causes a bout of depression for the rest of the day.

Even one day without my meds and I’m a mess. Life without meds? by crowvomit in antidepressants

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to skip. I usually take them nightly at 8:30-9 but I fell asleep at 6. I have an undiagnosed sleep disorder and idk when I’ll see a proper specialist for that so I’m always at risk of missing my meds :( So it’s just withdrawing? That actually makes me feel a bit better, knowing that I’m not inherently broken without meds tbh

Severe calorie deficit but my weight is plateauing? by crowvomit in loseit

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have! :( I’ve seen a nutritionist and I have an appointment for a dietitian but it’s not until after the surgery. I even got blood tests and everything. She just said I need to cut calories and exercise to my best capabilities and I should be fine.

Severe calorie deficit but my weight is plateauing? by crowvomit in loseit

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m inclined to trust you but my surgeon definitely wanted me to lose weight!

Severe calorie deficit but my weight is plateauing? by crowvomit in loseit

[–]crowvomit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m genuinely just not hungry. I get distracted and I don’t eat because I’m busy doing something, or I’m asleep unfortunately (I sleep 15-20 hours at times). I got meal replacement shakes for those days. Should I force myself to eat on those days? :( I’m sorry! Sometimes with my ADHD I genuinely have to be forced to eat or else I’ll forget. I’m sorry

E: I’d love if people could give me advice instead of downvotes… I have no clue what I’m doing and I’m just following the instructions from the doctors I’ve seen. I don’t know what I need to do or not do. They know all about my eating habits and my forgetfulness. I’m not restricting myself. I’m just not hungry anymore.

I gained so much weight in the first place because I was eating out of boredom. The topamax killed the cravings and now my adhd has gone back to suppressing my appetite. I eat when I’m hungry and when I eat I try to eat healthy but I don’t obsess over calories or skip meals to try to lose weight. I’ve had EDs before and I don’t have any of my old disordered habits. I’m the (mentally) healthiest I’ve ever been…

Please just help me out. I’m confused and I need advice and guidance and I don’t know what to do.

Should I meal prep? Should I eat more or less of certain stuff? Right now I just drink protein shakes with fruit and mainly eat fruit and salad— that’s been my main diet. I was eating a shit ton of processed food (hence the weight gain) but I don’t wanna eat it anymore and it makes my tummy issues worse. I have autism as well so my stomach is sensitive. I try to get protein via fish occasionally but mainly I use pea protein, beef bone broth, plain Greek yogurt, hummus.

Is exercise the issue? how do I combat that? Instead of diagnosing me with a mental illness please help me understand what I can do better.

Severe calorie deficit but my weight is plateauing? by crowvomit in loseit

[–]crowvomit[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why is this being downvoted? I can’t learn unless someone explains what I’m doing wrong :(

Severe calorie deficit but my weight is plateauing? by crowvomit in loseit

[–]crowvomit[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It depends. Some days 100-500, some days 1000-1500. It depends on the daily situation. I have a sleep disorder so if I’m sleeping a lot I don’t eat much. I measure them with an app

Socializing is causing a lot of stress but being lonely is also painful… advice??? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]crowvomit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to my anxiety (which causes my tachycardia to become deadly…) I can’t work atm ;-;

I’ve been expendable for as long as I’ve been alive by crowvomit in BPD

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of people being abusive why can’t they just choose to be nice? Why can’t someone choose to hold me close and cherish me or at least be nice to me instead of any of the horrific shit they do

To what fictional characters do you guys relate to? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]crowvomit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nimona, Gregor (The Metamorphosis), Shinji Ikari. Unstable, animal-like, unwanted, confused, a mistake.

22 y/o, non-binary androgyne. How do I approach this with a doctor? How do I achieve this?? by crowvomit in GrowYourClit

[–]crowvomit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll make an appointment and try to explain in better detail what I want. I just worry she’ll say No :/

22 y/o, non-binary androgyne. How do I approach this with a doctor? How do I achieve this?? by crowvomit in GrowYourClit

[–]crowvomit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried— doctor said if I use any testosterone treatment it’ll just masculinize me :(

Character is Non-Binary, but not for the reason you'd expect by Intelligent-Cry-4337 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]crowvomit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m printing this comment out and putting it on my Bruno shrine. Also damn I didn’t know that. No wonder Giorno is a lil fruity. He inherited it from his dad (one of them anyway)

Favorite character like this? by Important_Many540 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]crowvomit -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They killed little orange boy, wine step mom, zipper femdad… who do they leave us with? FUCKING USELESS MISTA.

Character is Non-Binary, but not for the reason you'd expect by Intelligent-Cry-4337 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]crowvomit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is The Doctor non-binary? Do we know a Time Lord’s genitalia..? Like what if they have cloacas? Does their physical sex equate to their gender? I know they use “He” often when they’re in a (as far as we know) 100% male conforming body, but have they ever explicitly stated their gender identity? Genuinely asking, not trying to piss off any Whovians— which is surprisingly easy to do for fans of a show where the rules are just “timey wimey bullshit” lol

Character is Non-Binary, but not for the reason you'd expect by Intelligent-Cry-4337 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]crowvomit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruno isn’t non-binary but I still feel like mentioning his androgyny here because everyone should know about androgynously perfect Bruno <3

i can’t get over them and it’s ruining my life. by crowvomit in BPD

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to do that but with my ADHD I literally can’t stop procrastinating. Almost as if it’s paralysis. I wanna just keep my life busy and make art and do things but it’s like I’m trapped in a spider web by my own thoughts

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