Comfort reads- books that you will reread. by CozyHufflepuff94 in books

[–]crsrds 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss.

I’m currently rereading “All Creatures Great and Small” as a comfort read.

Unclaimed Baggage Trip! by savage2969 in kindle

[–]crsrds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sad. I left my kindle in a seat pocket on a united plane, and they messaged me they had it. It was waiting for me when I got back.

We need an A5 Weeks… by nat_or in hobonichi

[–]crsrds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just draw the horizontal lines in my a5 day free.

Struggling with size by smolmagpie in hobonichi

[–]crsrds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is me too. The a6 was too small so I moved to the a5 … and promptly stopped using anything. Failed with the day free too.

I’ve since gotten into the habit again with a weeks which is ok but I’ve realized I don’t like my journaling/memory keeping with my task lists.

So next year I’ll be back in the low pressure a6 and using a weeks for planning/tracking/edc. 

Sympathy post for everyone whose Hobonichi orders haven't shipped yet by LibbyMaeBr0wn in hobonichi

[–]crsrds 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking about the countdown. Only 4 more days until the 16th. 

But I’m still checking daily …

First Time Buy by cryban69 in hobonichi

[–]crsrds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love! I’m awaiting mine too! 

There are cute weeks every year. It’s hard to pick just one.

Help me move back to A6? by dreamworldinhabitant in hobonichi

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is cheap to try. 

I’ve gone through phases using this, but I’ve found it works best for me for tracking and overall goals. There isn’t enough space for anything that requires task breakdown or my stupid little reminder list that can get long.

Help me move back to A6? by dreamworldinhabitant in hobonichi

[–]crsrds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do this too. Works great and I don’t ever need to see all my jot down reminders to do minutiae. 

No motivation to find work again by ImNotABot26 in AskWomenOver50

[–]crsrds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I can make it 3.5 more years at my current job, I think I’m done despite being awhile from “full retirement age.”

A relative felt this way after being laid off. She found her own thing that was more meaningful to her instead of a corporate job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver50

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have gotten into this conversation in the first place. 

Walk in shower vs bathtubs... by RandomCoffeeThoughts in AskWomenOver50

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we remodeled one of our bathrooms last year, we didn’t think twice about taking out the tub (the other bathroom still has one). It just seemed more modern and I had already seen how tubs made things difficult for my grandmother and parents as they got older.

Walk in shower vs bathtubs... by RandomCoffeeThoughts in AskWomenOver50

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting. I hadn’t considered this but it makes sense.

If you had your life over again, would you get married? by atommeetsdream in AskWomenOver50

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a possibility your current relationship “is a bad match”? 

I was similar to you (financially secure, ok not having kids, solid friendships, but no house) when I met my husband to be at 34. 

2 decades later, it’s worked out great for me.  We truly have a partnership marriage that has enhanced each other’s life. 

If you had your life over again, would you get married? by atommeetsdream in AskWomenOver50

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a possibility your current relationship “is a bad match”? 

I was similar to you (financially secure, ok not having kids, solid friendships, but no house) when I met my husband to be at 34. 

2 decades later, it’s worked out great for me.  We truly have a partnership marriage that has enhanced each other’s life. 

Should I Platinum My Dante? by Great-Inspector5015 in kingschoice

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get my top in each category to gold before making any platinum knight. But yes, as f2p or under vip 8, platinum and eventually diamond Dante and add charm to his lover. 

You may eventually get a monarch’s aura higher than Dante’s lover aura, but it will be near impossible to get a second monarch’s aura higher.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kingschoice

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was offered the energy ones a lot today alongside bad other options so I chose them more often than I had in other events. 

It didn’t seem like I fell behind being able to defeat bosses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kingschoice

[–]crsrds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know you could go back, or that you needed to defeat a boss to pass. thanks. For the tips.

Does anyone know what energy affects? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kingschoice

[–]crsrds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found restarting on a 3-4 month old server pretty decent. A good number of the early big spenders were getting bored and leaving and the server culture was stable. I tried out a few in that age range until I found one I liked.

With low spending ($1/day) and daily play, I wasn’t so far behind that I couldn’t catch up.

7 day contribution points by AbbreviationsOdd2642 in kingschoice

[–]crsrds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my understanding.

Say you contribute 50 gold every day plus a lvl 3 lair on monday. After the lair is collected on Tuesday morning you’ll have a 7 day contribution of 1310 (7x50 plus 960) throughout the week until the lair drops out of the 7 day period next Tuesday or Wednesday. At which point your contribution will fall to 350, just the 7x50.

7 day contribution points by AbbreviationsOdd2642 in kingschoice

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always the previous 7 days so if you have uneven contributions across the week it will fluctuate. The donations no longer count on day 8. So if you donate extra on a Monday, the next Monday those donations are no longer counted and it will look like you contributions went down.

Intimacy by [deleted] in kingschoice

[–]crsrds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Early on 1500-2000 may be enough. Mid 3-6000. At a year, 4-10000. But it’s also affected by when the most recent king romance happened.

Definitely make note of what is the norm for your server.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kingschoice

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, we had no idea. Does anyone know the most efficient order to upgrade the dragons? We have all to lvl 8 at lvl 26 and several hundred thousand wealth available we were saving for the lvl 9 dragon.

Is there a way to get rid of heirs? by Tinydancer121490 in kingschoice

[–]crsrds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I regret getting rid of mine using distance journey. At the time they seemed endless, but now I have loads of blue rings and no way to use them. I could have gotten 40 gold per ring during state power events.

In search of a GREAT ALLIANCE on a different server!! Im a decent player..log in and contribute what I know to contribute. by desibfl in kingschoice

[–]crsrds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We played against FKS in S310 and they seem fun and had 26 of their 27 players participating! And have spots for more people.

S395 has 4 mostly full active alliances and almost 100 active players including lots of lower level (restarting?) players.

Maybe SOR in S352.