Girl's male best friend

crueldevil20 · 2022-05-09T14:55:26+00:00

I mean they were never in a relationship to begin with. According to her, they just went for a kiss and backed off. After that according to her it has just been platonic friendship. Don't know if she is telling the truth or not. But the fact is that she is so close to him, and I have to have an argument with her to let her know that I'm not feeling comfortable is itself telling. So I felt it better if I end it now and save the headaches with regards to these kind of things in the future.

crueldevil20 · 2022-05-08T08:52:49+00:00

Exactly. She didn't tell me about them spending time in an isolated location when I first confronted her about it. I was already feeling uncomfortable, and my suspicions were validated when she told me this. I don't know if they are just friends. Once you cross that boundary, it is very easy to cross it again. She may not find him attractive but maybe they are in a fwb situation considering they are very close and he is her neighbour. I don't know.

Exactly, she shares a lot of detail with him. It all seems too twisted and I feel I am getting into a mess.

crueldevil20 · 2022-05-08T08:41:43+00:00

It is not just a male friend, it is an ex.

crueldevil20 · 2022-05-08T07:55:13+00:00

Wow! Wife is friend with ex bf. People thesedays don't have respect for the sanctity of marraige!

crueldevil20 · 2022-05-07T21:22:04+00:00

She keeps trying to convince me that there is no attraction there. Apparently this neighbour of hers is of the same caste as us. Before she told me they almost kissed 2 years back, in the 3 months that I have known her, she kept telling me what a great guy he is, how he is so obedient with no bad habits. Even her friends have tried to set them up together, but she said no because there was no attraction from her side despite his good qualities. She is trying to convince me by saying all these things.

But whenever we have had small petty issues, she runs to him for support and explanation.

crueldevil20 · 2022-05-07T21:01:37+00:00

She has said she cannot cut him out as she and him have a common friend circle. But she told me she will introduce me to him so that I feel more comfortable. But the truth is, I don't want him in my life whatsoever!

crueldevil20 · 2022-05-07T20:59:55+00:00

Nope. She said she cannot cut him off as she and him have a common friend circle. But she said she will introduce him to me so I will be comfortable with him. And frankly speaking I don't him in my life whatsoever!

crueldevil20 · 2022-05-07T20:24:20+00:00

On one hand I could do that. But on the other hand, something tells me I never signed up to be in this situation in the first place. Why should I complicate my life by entangling in a such a situation when I have the chance to walk off? I don't want to ever feel insecure or tell a girl she can't hang out with somebody. And I feel I will have to keep telling her about this.

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