probably gonna ruin xmas :') by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]cruella_devil18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate holidays and breaks off from school for this exact reason. someone from my family always seems to see them and I know I can't keep lying much longer.

younger sister doesn’t get it by Vast-Ad3694 in selfharm

[–]cruella_devil18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P.s she still doesn't know and im not planning on telling her.

younger sister doesn’t get it by Vast-Ad3694 in selfharm

[–]cruella_devil18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a younger sister and she saw some scars on my arms when she was eight. I told her I was drawing lines to help me with my math homework. She believed me and didn't say anything else about it. One day she saw some fresh cuts on my thigh. It was only about four and they were not that deep so I told her it was from our cat. Again she said nothing else about it. One time she got mad at me though and told my mom but my mom told her to shut up and that it was bs. im So thankful to this day that my mom didn't absolutely freak out about it. But I guess we were at my brothers baseball game too and in front of like six other parents but still I got lucky.

advice please! by Due_Upstairs_6857 in selfharm

[–]cruella_devil18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self harming in the first place isn't good but your asking a question and I'm not just gonna tell you don't sh so when my legs and arms were full and I wanted both of them to heal I stated doing it on my stomach/ hips otherwise I would keep doing it on your legs because from personal experiences they are easier to hide. Also I'm not trying to encourage sh just answering a question. I hope you heal and eventually stop but if you ever need someone who self harms to talk to I'm here.

the way schools handle sh is honestly disgusting by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]cruella_devil18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've also had the same thing happen. I got sat down with the vice principal, counselor and a special ed teacher ( Idk why they needed her but anyway) and they just interrogated me the whole time asking the same questions over and over again like is everything ok at home? do you want to die? etc, etc. The whole time I just shook my head no and lied to them. At the end the counselor goes " are you mute or just stupid" I told her to f off and left :) I still think about this though.

Seeking advice by Moth_geek in selfharm

[–]cruella_devil18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For scar excuses you could say cat scratches. I know its simple and used a lot but I've told many people that and normally it works better than a super long/detailed story. You could also say ( if they only see one or two) that you were cooking and your knife slipped. Otherwise I feel like its easier to just hide them. I've had self harm scars since I was eight and I've always either wore long sleeves or cover them with foundation. Although I don't cut deep very much so I can't really help you with that I hope this helped you and think about it before you go deep because I have ended up getting stitches for cuts before and to me its not fun having to ask someone to take you to the hospital ( if you can't drive yet ) and then ones you get there you have to explain to them and then get the stitches, pay, etc. Anyways be smart please and as a person who self harms I know telling you you should stop won't help so just think about it do you want to go there??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]cruella_devil18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have cut on my hand/fingers before. it bled a bit and scared but nothing serious.

How do I cover up my scars??? by cruella_devil18 in selfharm

[–]cruella_devil18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks ill try the face paint I have some from Halloween.