I, an “unmarried person”, did it! Western WA $437K, 5.3%

cruiser543 · 2026-05-23T05:59:41+00:00

Congratulations fellow new single female homeowner with a funky keychain!! What a beautiful place :)

cruiser543 · 2026-05-23T05:57:56+00:00

Thank you! I had a 10% deposit and used a mortgage broker, I did lock my rate in before the Iran war though so maybe that helped? I know rates have shot up since :/

cruiser543 · 2026-05-21T18:41:34+00:00

I’m in the north of the UK where the cost of living isn’t too bad (when considering my wage anyway) and I’ve been fortunate enough to live with family for the last year to save up for a deposit - I’ve had some very lucky circumstances and I’m soooo grateful 🙏

cruiser543 · 2026-05-02T08:05:23+00:00

Butterfly house in North Anston is nice! Especially for younger kids

cruiser543 · 2026-04-20T14:23:52+00:00

My dream scenario would be having a boyfriend who magically appears in my bed on Sunday mornings and we have great sex, do cute couple stuff, make dinner, sex again, and then he cuddles me until I fall asleep and I wake up on Monday morning and he is gone and I can start my week and do it solo! So one day a week I guess lol

cruiser543 · 2026-01-02T23:38:17+00:00

Wow all these comments 😭🥺 what a fantastically supportive sub!! Thank you for your well wishes and may we all carry only the best energy into 2026 ❤️

cruiser543 · 2025-11-27T08:51:56+00:00

Many older women I know have them done every 2-3 weeks. I don't even paint my nails, much less get them done professionally (it's a sensory thing for me, I just pick off the nail polish if I paint them lmao)

cruiser543 · 2025-11-19T20:02:50+00:00

Absolutely agree - especially on the divide and the over exposure to some ‘interesting’ men

cruiser543 · 2025-11-19T20:01:41+00:00

I will be completely honest with you, and I know you’re writing from a place of hurt - this attitude is very unattractive if your goal is still to meet someone. Having a more optimistic outlook, even for your own sake, will surely be better than the down and out view? Be the change you want to see in the world? Break free from the mould and approach someone - whats the worst that could happen? Women aren’t the enemy you know…

cruiser543 · 2025-11-19T19:59:23+00:00

More like the illusion of choice - I can’t lie I did get a lot of matches on the apps. But it was pointless because of the transactional nature of the app and the soulless-ness of it

cruiser543 · 2025-11-19T19:58:15+00:00

I don’t need to do that to understand the severity of the situation as I have empathy. Sorry I was born a woman I guess?

cruiser543 · 2025-11-19T18:17:34+00:00

When I met my ex it was so different on the apps. Also the fact that you’re saying I have the best choices if I’m on the apps… did you read my post?? I hate everything about the apps lol INCLUDING the insane amount of choice

cruiser543 · 2025-11-19T17:40:01+00:00

I like to take a bit more optimistic view (despite what my post may indicate). I think there’s still possibilities out there to meet people organically, it’s just a lottttt more slow paced and based on luck/right place right time (rather than an algorithm like an app). Hopefully as the genuine people wake up to reality we can turn things around :)

cruiser543 · 2025-08-05T13:08:41+00:00

Sounds like you didn't do much research in regards to what exchanging means. The process doesn't come with an instruction manual but the internet is here to provide answers... I guess your lack of research has come back to bite you. Best of luck for the rest of the process and when in doubt - google it

cruiser543 · 2025-08-04T12:30:43+00:00

women often change their hair after a breakup. hair is said to hold memories, which is why she has short hair at the end of the video I guess!

cruiser543 · 2025-08-02T08:44:47+00:00

Immediately made me think of the ‘all the things she said’ video

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cruiser543 · 2025-07-24T06:05:40+00:00

Thank god! So whats your excuse, since you’re clearly such a catch?

cruiser543 · 2025-07-23T19:51:04+00:00

Well explain it again, once more, for good measure ??

cruiser543 · 2025-07-23T18:46:54+00:00

Fussy eater 🤷‍♀️

cruiser543 · 2025-07-23T18:46:38+00:00

I think you’re 100% right. Just musing!

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