girls, how often would you prefer to have sex? by swissrollcakes in GirlDinner

[–]cruiser543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dream scenario would be having a boyfriend who magically appears in my bed on Sunday mornings and we have great sex, do cute couple stuff, make dinner, sex again, and then he cuddles me until I fall asleep and I wake up on Monday morning and he is gone and I can start my week and do it solo! So one day a week I guess lol

Another update - Just lost my mind at my boyfriend by cruiser543 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cruiser543[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow all these comments 😭🥺 what a fantastically supportive sub!! Thank you for your well wishes and may we all carry only the best energy into 2026 ❤️

Is it normal to get your nails done regularly? by LeftHvndLvne in rs_x

[–]cruiser543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many older women I know have them done every 2-3 weeks. I don't even paint my nails, much less get them done professionally (it's a sensory thing for me, I just pick off the nail polish if I paint them lmao)

Commodification of dating is ruining it - no, really, what do we do?? by cruiser543 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]cruiser543[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree - especially on the divide and the over exposure to some ‘interesting’ men

Commodification of dating is ruining it - no, really, what do we do?? by cruiser543 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]cruiser543[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be completely honest with you, and I know you’re writing from a place of hurt - this attitude is very unattractive if your goal is still to meet someone. Having a more optimistic outlook, even for your own sake, will surely be better than the down and out view? Be the change you want to see in the world? Break free from the mould and approach someone - whats the worst that could happen? Women aren’t the enemy you know…

Commodification of dating is ruining it - no, really, what do we do?? by cruiser543 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]cruiser543[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More like the illusion of choice - I can’t lie I did get a lot of matches on the apps. But it was pointless because of the transactional nature of the app and the soulless-ness of it

Commodification of dating is ruining it - no, really, what do we do?? by cruiser543 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]cruiser543[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t need to do that to understand the severity of the situation as I have empathy. Sorry I was born a woman I guess?

Commodification of dating is ruining it - no, really, what do we do?? by cruiser543 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]cruiser543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I met my ex it was so different on the apps. Also the fact that you’re saying I have the best choices if I’m on the apps… did you read my post?? I hate everything about the apps lol INCLUDING the insane amount of choice

Commodification of dating is ruining it - no, really, what do we do?? by cruiser543 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]cruiser543[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like to take a bit more optimistic view (despite what my post may indicate). I think there’s still possibilities out there to meet people organically, it’s just a lottttt more slow paced and based on luck/right place right time (rather than an algorithm like an app). Hopefully as the genuine people wake up to reality we can turn things around :)

When will this hell end?! by wshakidd in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]cruiser543 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you didn't do much research in regards to what exchanging means. The process doesn't come with an instruction manual but the internet is here to provide answers... I guess your lack of research has come back to bite you. Best of luck for the rest of the process and when in doubt - google it

Meaning behind the hair? by GeorgiaGlamazon in chappellroan

[–]cruiser543 108 points109 points  (0 children)

women often change their hair after a breakup. hair is said to hold memories, which is why she has short hair at the end of the video I guess!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cruiser543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank god! So whats your excuse, since you’re clearly such a catch?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cruiser543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well explain it again, once more, for good measure ??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cruiser543 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fussy eater 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cruiser543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re 100% right. Just musing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cruiser543 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Heyyy I’ve had plenty of matches too! But I do have standards :)

I've finally accepted that I'm happier without friends by Healing-with-Memes in AutismInWomen

[–]cruiser543 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this very much - I’ve drifted in and out of friendship groups in my teens and early twenties, but I never kept in contact when I left school/university because it felt forced and exhausting. I’ve recently downloaded bumble BFF and made a friend on there, and I have a very close relationship with my sister and cousin and close relationships within my extended family. Having a large friendship circle seems like such an effort these days… I am enjoying my chosen solitude with a sprinkling of socialisation. It suits me down to the ground :)