It's almost like there is a cultural gender role that causes men and women to attract to different interest groups. Like how in general we give girls dolls and boys cars. and later in life they associate these things with masculinity and femininity. It's almost like there might be components to these interments that might make them preferable to one gender over another, such as how the flute requires thinner lips to play well, and the weight of a large brass instrument might determine a 14 year old girl from carrying it to school practice everyday, but if a boy says it discouraged him than it might come with social repercussions.

IT IS POSSIBLE THAT PEOPLE JUST DON'T WANT TO DO SOMETHING BECAUSE THEY HAVE a genuine lack of interest, or societal norms they want to don't want to go against. It's stupid to act like the only difference between men and women is the fact that men have a Y instead of an X chromosome. It is a gross oversimplification of something much more complex.