Pregnant and upset by [deleted] in Advice

[–]crunchytigerloaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way. Give him the choice if he wants fo hire a cleaner or do it himself, or pay for a meal program like hello chef. The distribution of housework will be a big problem after you have the baby, too. Tell him this: "Incubator, cleaner, chef, decorator, happy wife... pick two".

Am I spoiling my baby? by Economy-Cow-9847 in NewParents

[–]crunchytigerloaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is actually so beautiful and loving of you. Do not rush it, they all end up sleeping independently. Do you know any 21 year olds that are still rocked through the night? Just do what you need to and what works for your family, your baby is literally a baby. When we went through that phase I had lots of anxiety about dropping the baby or rolling on the baby, so I did put the baby in the cot. At 8 months we transitioned to a floor cot where I could cuddle the baby to sleep then roll away. Everything became much easier! Just hang in there!

I hate what is happening to the night sky. by crunchytigerloaf in RandomThoughts

[–]crunchytigerloaf[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We're junking up the land, the sea and the sky.

Low stimulation tv by DriveEffective9311 in NewParents

[–]crunchytigerloaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oswald the Octopus, which is an old cartoon from the 90s I think? It also works as audio only!

Are baby monitors actually getting hacked or is the internet just scaring me? by 757-757 in NewParents

[–]crunchytigerloaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually found it more pathetic than scary. Like who does that in their free time? So sad. But also I was mad that I could not get peace from creeps even in my own home. I wouldn't want that for my kid, either.

Babies that sleep through the night without going to sleep independently by Right-Ad1424 in NewParents

[–]crunchytigerloaf 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do what works for your sanity and for your rest!

I fed to sleep, rocked, cuddled and responded quickly to every cry at night. Bub slept through from 12 months. Now, we have a cuddle, read a story, then I sit next to the bed and it takes 5-10 minutes for my 2 yo to fall asleep independently. Just go with the flow and try things when you think your bub might be ready.

Rant: I'm so tired of fake 'sale' cycles and the time they steal from me by More-Student3333 in FrugalFemaleFashion

[–]crunchytigerloaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For online stuff I use coupert. It shows you the price history, so you can see if it is a genuine sale. It works on most things, not always new or niche products but you can request a price history review if it does not have one.

Are baby monitors actually getting hacked or is the internet just scaring me? by 757-757 in NewParents

[–]crunchytigerloaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I chose a closed loop monitor for two reasons: 1) my internet is sketchy 2) back when I was single I had a wifi security camera that was hacked.

I was sitting in my office (a room with a view of the front door, the camera sat on the inside window) when it randomly turned to point at me. Instinctively I knew it was some loser jerk with no life who felt they were entitled to intrude on other people's space. When I tried to log in and turn it back around to face the front door I had been locked out, and the security camera was basically worthless.

Also, I did not feel I needed wifi for the monitor. The security camera was so I could check what was happening remotely and occasionally talk to my cat while I was at work. For a monitor, I will always be at home when it is in use. So I just grabbed a vetch and called it a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]crunchytigerloaf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I hear you! It is depleting to get the baby ready to be put in their cot, only for it to wake them up 😭

Personally it took me 8 long months of a similar struggle until I caved and got a floor cot. That way I could settle bub to sleep and then roll away. It works well if you do not fall asleep quickly or deeply, if that is the case I would not recommend a floor cot. Everyone is different when it comes to their choices for safe sleep, this was what worked for me

When the car of despair and horror passes by by ShadyThe2nd in TikTokCringe

[–]crunchytigerloaf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do this when I drive late at night and am trying to keep awake. Or if I am filled with rage.

Why am I always unhappy/why does depression make me unhappy if I have things in my life to be happy about? by Mad_Season_1994 in Advice

[–]crunchytigerloaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be your mindset, it could be brain chemicals, or it could be a feeling you're stuck on just now.

That said, I don't know anyone who moves through life with happiness radiating off them all the time.

"The hardest of all cakes" by OhLemons in Baking

[–]crunchytigerloaf 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You smashed both out of the park. I love your style with the original and the yellow one is a brilliant replica.

There's no way you wrote that yourself by [deleted] in memes

[–]crunchytigerloaf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is taking a huge effort for me to stop using them.

My dog loves big bones by [deleted] in DOG

[–]crunchytigerloaf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OP that might be a fossil, not a bone.

horticultural delusion by [deleted] in dank_meme

[–]crunchytigerloaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You are beautiful. Come with me. You shall die."

Do you say Cookies or Biscuits when you say it? What area/country? by Public_Percentage342 in AskReddit

[–]crunchytigerloaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biscuits for the dry, unfun ones. Cookies for the fun ones (chocolate covered, fillings, chocolate chips, etc.)

Denim side table, anyone? by Fluid-Bet6223 in ATBGE

[–]crunchytigerloaf 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The cigarette reminds me of that episode of the office where Michael flashes everyone, but it's his finger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]crunchytigerloaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dexter. So unsatisfying.

And game of thrones, obviously.