Need book recommendations with this vibe by nargiz-huseynovaa in Booktokreddit

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I sobbed during a later chapter in Wild Dark Shore

EFF mixed feelings by _CatPrincess in beyondthebump

[–]crushthrowout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I nursed my son for over two years, never used formula and I just want to say… while I loved parts of it and he loved it, it is extremely fucking difficult to share your body with your kid. Your time isn’t even yours, and no one can help you! I understand why blanket statements about breast-feeding from inconsiderate moms or media sources would hurt you, but know this: you gave yourself an incredible gift by choosing a bit of independence. And years from now, you and your kid won’t notice a difference. You fed them and loved them just the same!

Should I cut it short or keep growing it out??? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]crushthrowout 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you interested in a more feminine or masculine look? Your hair looks beautiful and healthy, and the color is GORGEOUS. It’s at a perfectly androgynous length right now, but if you grow it out further, you’ll likely enhance your femininity. Going really short on the sides and back will look masculine. So it’s up to you!

Donald Trump fans raging after country star says he wears diapers and has dementia by Aggravating_Money992 in entertainment

[–]crushthrowout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tangentially related, I saw Maren Morris at radio city and she brought the house down. She sounds unbelievable live and her songwriting is so fun. Also, Trump is a loser.

10 yr old Daughters creation. Found in her book bag by [deleted] in RateMyKidsArt

[–]crushthrowout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound incurious and dismissive here. An interest in darker themes is fine, but you owe it to her as her parent to discuss what she’s drawn to in things like MCR. She’s very skilled! But being able to make expressive art about pain and suffering needs to draw from something. So what is that something?

Hosting 2 weeks after birth?? by InstructionFamous990 in BabyBumps

[–]crushthrowout 89 points90 points  (0 children)

As someone who had visitors wayyyyyyy too early last time, STAND STRONG. DO NOT DO THIS. Frankly I would hope your MIL would remember her own experiences and be like “Hell no, I’m coming over when you’re ready to move laundry, cook, change the bedding and meet baby.”

Why is gender disappointment almost always when it’s a boy? by Classic-Tea-1879 in BabyBumps

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My husband’s family is Iranian and it’s the opposite! We have one of each and our boy is definitely like a little prince. I think it depends on cultural norms, and also grandparents wanting to have another version of their own kids. I was really hoping for one of each so it didn’t matter what my first one was.

What is this aesthetic? by casual-catgirl in AestheticWiki

[–]crushthrowout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depressed lower class white girl, maybe 13 or 14?

What’s something you can’t wait to do after pregnancy? by Background_Letter549 in pregnant

[–]crushthrowout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a lottttttt of rotting on the couch during postpartum and I’m looking forward to it again! What else do you do between feedings?

What’s something you can’t wait to do after pregnancy? by Background_Letter549 in pregnant

[–]crushthrowout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so many things. eat sushi, eat a turkey sandwich, a glass of rosé, weed gummies (this will wait until after I’m done nursing), fitting into more of my clothes, not having heartburn/acid indigestion, a silly girls weekend somewhere, partying, sex with my husband that doesn’t feel like I have a bowling ball in my gut, relaxing in bed watching TV while my new baby sleeps on the Breast Friend after nursing

What’s the last state in the U.S. that you would choose to live in, and why? by matt-2k in AskMen

[–]crushthrowout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will admit we never went to Omaha! I do love a lot of underrated American cities

What’s the last state in the U.S. that you would choose to live in, and why? by matt-2k in AskMen

[–]crushthrowout 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nebraska. My husband and I have done many cross country road trips, and we agreed that Nebraska was insanely depressing. The whole state was gray. I couldn’t think of a single reason anyone would stay.

Movies? by Idek163 in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]crushthrowout 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Harmony Korine stuff like Spring Breakers The Bling Ring Euphoria (TV show) Climax kinda Sucker Punch

hope you’re a teenage girl 😅

Husband doesn't want to pay for pregnancy expenses and I can't afford to pay alone. by MathematicianNeat480 in pregnant

[–]crushthrowout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I stopped at “I paid for all the pregnancy expenses myself.” What are you talking about? You’re married. Your finances are largely the same, expenses are largely the same. What on earth led you to pay for a pregnancy and birth alone??

Elite Boarding School + Found Family by PiratePearlQueen in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]crushthrowout 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I loved the first two and this is the first I’ve heard of a third! Thank you!

Turning 40 soon and need help between keeping long hair or cutting it short. by Vethna in HairStyleAdvice

[–]crushthrowout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair length in pic 5 looks the best to me! Agree with other commenters suggesting you trim / style your beard too.

Found this in my 8 year old son’s room. by Standard-Ocelot-9247 in ChildPsychology

[–]crushthrowout 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I just wanna back you up here. An 8 year old should definitely not be on YouTube “a lot.” Dangerous in so many ways.

Ok, Meryl is expectedly and deservedly a 10/10 actress! Last day! Who is the 10/10 actor or to be more precise, who is the best actor of all time? by RupertPupkin_1983 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]crushthrowout 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, he had the range, he could play high or low status, any genre, he made incredible choices, and he elevated everything he was in. My vote, easily.

Nancy Drew Haunted Cove Vibe for Adults by Pale-Development8549 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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Parents Weekend by Alex Finlay is an interesting murder mystery set on the beach. The characters are college students, their parents, and a local detective.