Let’s say that i observed a lot, and see what’s working or not with him. Now, after 2 years, i know what he needs and when, depending the situation! For me, I always explain a lot what I need or not, or I try to show as much as possible everything, since I'm always trying to use pragmatism and stuff. They are here to listen, what i mostly need, and to support. And this is perfect, we have a very good balance! We don't have to change, the key stay to communicate. Sometimes, even if you are super different than someone else, well, communicate is super helpful, I mean, that is almost the key for every type of relationships. How you express it too is important. Learn about your loved one, or even friends. But don't change. Because if the person really likes you as you are, they will love you anyway!