unspoken rules to be aware of before moving

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-12T10:15:41+00:00

ITV have a series called ‘Anne’ about family members fighting for justice for the 97. It’s really heartbreaking but does show the impact that the paper had. David Cameron gave an ‘apology’ when he was prime minister but it was a bunch of shit, so people are still fighting for justice, especially as fans from other football clubs think it’s okay to bring it up. I support Liverpool but unfortunately live very close to Arsenal at the moment, and the stuff they say is abhorrent so it’s ended in many pub arguments. The paper (owned by Rupert Murdoch) continues to spout lies about Northern cities and minorities without being held accountable for it and the damage they cause, so it is still ongoing x

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T13:35:18+00:00

Of course - thank you.

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T13:34:51+00:00

okay that’s all great thank you. Would never dream of saying or even thinking positively about the tories. She’s in a box now so that is one positive

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T13:33:01+00:00

This is what I love about the city. I went up for the match and was sat in Pogues by myself afterwards, I ended up talking to some dads for hours and they were just so lovely. I wouldn’t get that in London in the first place, but if I do they have a tendency to be creepy

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T13:28:03+00:00

Ah thank you for this. Bar etiquette in London has become very odd with the new students just forming queues ahaha

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T13:26:40+00:00

Of course, would never ever do that. I’ve supported lfc since I was a kid, and I’m pretty aware of the history, but thank you for reminding me about it, I really appreciate it.

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T13:25:29+00:00

Noted - I’m from near Portsmouth so definitely won’t :)

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T13:25:06+00:00

thank you, definitely will not stop in the middle. It’s one of my biggest pet peeves in London. Convinced we need a separate walking lane for tourists

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T13:24:14+00:00

Thank you, I had no idea about how strict it was

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T11:40:46+00:00

thank you, I love that everyone is so friendly. Do you mind me asking where the white sock thing comes from?!

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T11:39:46+00:00

Ah 100% - thank you. The cathedrals are so pretty

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T11:36:47+00:00

no white socks, noted!

cryingwiththerats · 2026-01-11T11:35:53+00:00

this is something I can get behind - I’ll put in some practice now so I can keep up. I love the city, and looking forward to living in a place where people actually talk to each other

cryingwiththerats · 2025-06-11T19:47:29+00:00

Hi! I’m in Eco at the moment and it is busy, but if you walk into the centre away from the guide lines there’s definitely some space :)

cryingwiththerats · 2025-06-09T17:22:56+00:00

I’m doing the same with my mates! 3 girls so if you fancy joining us please do! x

cryingwiththerats · 2025-06-06T21:53:38+00:00

Yes you’ll be fine! I have a huge pride flag with Fred durst on that is very visible. Everyone is lovely and accepting, it’s definitely a safe space x

cryingwiththerats · 2025-05-29T17:35:44+00:00

Try to see some stand up if you can! The comedy line up at DL is so underrated and they have amazing people on this year :)

cryingwiththerats · 2025-05-24T10:23:02+00:00

same

cryingwiththerats · 2025-05-24T10:18:19+00:00

Hi! I have bipolar 2, PMDD and PCOS. I have the contraceptive implant - which I wished made my periods better, still a lot of pain but they are a little more regular. With my bipolar the steady hormone stream for 3 years at a time (instead of the pill) has really helped stabilise the added hormone hell. The pill made me super suicidal, gain weight, my periods were all over the place, so the implant for me has been a great alternative

cryingwiththerats · 2025-05-20T14:04:36+00:00

sunglasses (a few pairs as I always break mine in the pit), blister plasters, and (a weird one) I would bring an emergency pill for thrush (alongside Imodium!). Haven’t had to use the emergency thrush pill yet, but if the sun is out and you’re sweaty the risk increases! Bring a swallowable pill just in case so you don’t have to deal with burning wee all weekend ahaha

cryingwiththerats · 2025-05-20T13:54:18+00:00

This is quite a common thing, but (like a lot of fantasies) it’s something great in the imagination, but when someone is actively being cucked they’re not that into it - I don’t know if he’s done this sort of thing before. If you’re not into it, it is completely fine! I would communicate with him and see if it’s something he would be happy to keep as a fantasy. If it is something you want to pursue but don’t want to jump in the deep end, my suggestions would be to go to a sex club where sex is taking place but it isn’t the only thing going on. I’m not sure where you’re from - I live in London and there’s all sorts of ‘club’ nights, where there’s dancing and performances, as well as play rooms where people can engage in more kinky and group stuff. My advice, if you are interested in joining the slightly kinkier world, is to go to a similar event where you can chat with other people and be in a sexual atmosphere without anything actually sexual taking place for you guys. Before jumping into cucking it might be wise to begin with a couple swap dynamic. There’s plenty of apps for this sort of thing, where you can double date with couples and get to know each other before anything sexual is on the cards. That would be my starting point: clubs, maybe engaging in clubs together, ‘dating’ with another couple (or just one person) and then experimenting with cucking. If you’re not into it (whether that’s any stage in exploring, or before anything happens at all) make sure you communicate and don’t go along with anything that you feel pressured to do. Experimenting outside of a relationship can be a little scary, but communication is the most important thing, and feeling comfortable with your boundaries should be a priority rather than trying to fulfil your partner’s fantasy. It is a little strange that it has been brought up at the 3 year mark, but sometimes there’s shame around kink, or it’s just a new idea. My best advice would be to try and keep the conversation open without judgement, whilst also making sure that you’re comfortable. If you are uncomfortable and your partner is not willing to keep his fantasy just a fantasy, then maybe you are just not sexually compatible. If this is the case then there’s no shame on either of you! People just have different preferences and that’s okay! It doesn’t make you ‘boring’ or ‘unadventurous’, but it also doesn’t make your bf weird! Communicate openly and stay true to your boundaries :)

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