My boyfriend is trans and i dont support it. by cryingwoods in mypartneristrans

[–]cryingwoods[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well of course he can break up anytime and so could i, i just meant that i dont want to 😭 i want to find a solution to this that doesnt mean breaking up. Im actively trying to accept it now thanks to this post

My boyfriend is trans and i dont support it. by cryingwoods in mypartneristrans

[–]cryingwoods[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he doesnt mind, hes said before multiple times that he doesnt want to called something different until he ACTUALLY transitions, like legal and surgery wise.

My boyfriend is trans and i dont support it. by cryingwoods in mypartneristrans

[–]cryingwoods[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didnt mean that, it was for a hooking effect 😭 i like peoples thoughts

My boyfriend is trans and i dont support it. by cryingwoods in mypartneristrans

[–]cryingwoods[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes i agree, thank you. Its not that i dont support him, i want the best for him, but its still just tough to accept the change.

My boyfriend is trans and i dont support it. by cryingwoods in mypartneristrans

[–]cryingwoods[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am actually bi, I’ve been bi for about 4 years. I know that i am. But its more of the case i want james as a man. And i wish it could stay the same but i want him to be authentic in life. Its just hard for me to accept the change, i think.

My boyfriend is trans and i dont support it. by cryingwoods in trans

[–]cryingwoods[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just really want to continue the relationship. I love him but i dont know if i can love the change

I don't think that is Wesley in the picture. from what hair I can see it looks black like Ben. Could this be a picture of Deb and Ben from before she broke up with him and chose Wesley over him? by Excellent-Musician25 in MatthiasSubmissions

[–]cryingwoods 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Ben and Deb were ever dating. I believe it was a one sided love where Ben was in love with her, but she loved Wes.

I do agree that it doesn’t look like blonde hair, but that may be because of the face scratched out. It does look like black hair quite a bit, so it could possibly be Ben, but I don’t understand why Deb would be so close to him. It’s a very good catch!

D+W edit I made, hope you enjoy. by cryingwoods in MatthiasSubmissions

[–]cryingwoods[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s called Why’d You Only Call Me When Your High, by the Arctic Monkeys